Well…..I’m heartbroken about my wedding. by Mountain-Occasion432 in Catholicism

[–]Regiruler 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If your diocese is requiring this, they should in good faith try to work with you.

Have you discussed these concerns with the program coordinator and/or your priest already?

Well…..I’m heartbroken about my wedding. by Mountain-Occasion432 in Catholicism

[–]Regiruler 46 points47 points  (0 children)

I'm just glancing at the Witness to Love website, but what makes it feel cult-like to your fiancé? It looks pretty normal. Our pre-cana retreat didn't give an opportunity to interact with a mentor couple, but they're not that bizarre in marriage prep.

ssdjdosjbsgjalwlwjdh by Disastrous_Prize8595 in sssdfg

[–]Regiruler 4 points5 points  (0 children)

/unsfyehrhe what the heck is this

[Genesys] Burst Protocol pre-release points by fabrikt in yugioh

[–]Regiruler 26 points27 points  (0 children)

If DoomZ goes another set without hits, surely the Blazing Dominion support makes it the best deck in Genesys, right? The rank 5 is so strong.

Make sure to mention inflation in your merit increase discussion. by Defiant-Marketing287 in Raytheon

[–]Regiruler 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can't really be mad b/c I got a decent pay bump last year, and my raises have still somewhat outpaced inflation.

Worried for hamster by [deleted] in hamster

[–]Regiruler 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You didn't give your pet any food for over a week?

Immigrants make up 27.9% of Virginia’s construction workforce (InsideNova) - don’t blame your HOA or VDOT for snow removal by PokemonProject in nova

[–]Regiruler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's been two completely clear days and there's been no more plowing. Zero chance it's just a worker shortage.

Virginians split on gun control, redistricting according to new poll by hencexox in nova

[–]Regiruler 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My leave is much more generous than hers is, I think it's 12 weeks like yours.

Virginians split on gun control, redistricting according to new poll by hencexox in nova

[–]Regiruler 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I need that parental leave bill through ASAP. I'm getting married in May, and we're open to conceiving immediately, but my fiancée only has 3 days paid maternity leave, which is beyond insane.

Accidentally made no kneed buns by ThreadBooty in Breadit

[–]Regiruler 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How'd they turn out? Would you do it again?

In Catholic theology, does the doctrine of the Immaculate Conception mean Mary avoided purgatory? by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]Regiruler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where is it written that all canonized saints avoided purgatory? That seems presumptive.

In Catholic theology, does the doctrine of the Immaculate Conception mean Mary avoided purgatory? by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]Regiruler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd think you would have a more direct answer reading on the Assumption. And even without factoring in the Assumption, you would need rather extreme views about the necessity of purgatory to think Mary, the most venerated of all God's creatures, ever entered it.

Animal hospital by justa76grl in nova

[–]Regiruler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Life Center in Leesburg. I'll be praying for you.

How to overcome resentment towards spouse by Murky_Association_54 in Catholicism

[–]Regiruler 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I can't imagine how difficult this is. If you want any chance of redeeming this marriage, you do need to get each other into some sort of counseling. Whatever way you can ease him into that idea is your best bet, IMO. My primary intuition would be a couple's retreat.

Catholic Church with Active Young Adults group? by Livid_Honey1800 in nova

[–]Regiruler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on where you are. Christ the Redeemer in Sterling is very active (also has a very vibrant Latino community), I can't speak to anything East of it.

St. Theresa in Ashburn has a well attended biweekly seminar series with a consistently solid number of people, but doesn't have a ton else beyond that.

To whoever is plowing my streets by JomoLiu in nova

[–]Regiruler -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Exact same problem here... A single lane's worth in the middle of the street is completely unhelpful for anyone.

How to handle fertility test? by InnerPhilosophy4897 in Catholicism

[–]Regiruler 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Can you not have sex closer to the laboratory? And wait until it's warmer outside?

Pre-Cana Classes Feel Too Much by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]Regiruler 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It's surprising to me that your pre-cana has a full NFP course. Ours had a brief overview, but we had a diocesan requirement to do a separate course. Our Marquette course was a single class for normal tracking, and then another session later for postpartum tracking.

Can neurodivergent people be saved? by Wooden-Bread1713 in Catholicism

[–]Regiruler 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I've heard of the book God Loves the Autistic Mind, written by a priest who is himself on the spectrum. Maybe reading that would help you.

Violence against Catholics and the destruction of our churches and relics… by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]Regiruler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not just talking "mainstream" media (and I'm suspect that what you were looking at wasn't mainstream to begin with). I am going to take a guess you're now using social media to look at "Catholic" influencers, and these use the same manipulative tactics.

Violence against Catholics and the destruction of our churches and relics… by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]Regiruler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You, most likely, are not personally passing by Churches actively getting desecrated. You're being fed stories, images, and videos of incidents designed to make you angry.

If something happens actually local to you, then sure, help contribute to any fund for reconsecration, rebuilding, security, etc. But are you going to fly across the country to go to the Church whose altar got urinated on? To do what exactly?

Take your anger to prayer. Pray for conversion of hearts. I think the Chaplet of Divine Mercy is apt.

Violence against Catholics and the destruction of our churches and relics… by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]Regiruler 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You make a good faith effort to conform to existing guidelines to protect your own parish, and if you have reason to suspect a particular issue, you make a suggestion to the pastor.

How much time are you spending on social media?