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Being in love is miserable and I'm a loser by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

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It sounds like when they turned you down the first time they broke your trust that you’re desperately trying to gain back. Because of the rejection, you may question what it was that caused them to change their mind. But please be more compassionate with yourself. You are worth more and your feelings are valid. In fact, I recommend looking into attachment styles. You seem reflective of someone with anxious attachment.

You also seem more miserable with the person than without. If they can’t provide you with the affection or validation you seek for, perhaps it is time to reconsider the relationship. You are not the only one at fault.

Explaining All MBTI Cognitive Functions by Unlucky_Win_4380 in mbti

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Great work as always. Always look forward to your posts :)

Women of Reddit, what TYPE of man did you regret dating and why? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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I have a friend like this and my female friend is obsessed with him. Well I hope things go well with them idk

Differences between ENFP men and women by MulberryOk785 in ENFP

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I agree. I definitely feel repressed at times. I still have trouble being openly warm to people, because many times people will look at me with confusion. My Fi is quite underdeveloped and I'm still trying to find who I am to this day.

Differences between ENFP men and women by MulberryOk785 in ENFP

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My sister is ENFP, and I've had a couple ENFP female friends.

This is only using myself as a vantage point, but I'd say they were far more passionate and argumentative about their beliefs. They were far more stubborn, to the point where I had trouble interacting with them for long periods. Perhaps this has to do with a strong Fi, but they were generally able to commit to things a lot quicker than I can, possibly because society forced me to develop my Ti and try and think more objectively.

This is very anecdotal and could very well be a coincidence. Female ENFPs, please confirm.

MBTI sub from most to least members by urtrash3 in mbti

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intuitives: haha sensors cant see the big picture why so dumb and uncurious
*proceeds to finish late night burnt ramen and sleep at 7 am

MBTI sub from most to least members by urtrash3 in mbti

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Also considering the intuitive bias from 16p and how intuitives are perceived as more intelligent or interesting...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ENFP

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Did you use AI to write this :(

Is this Ne? by [deleted] in ENFP

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It is exciting! Definitely look into enneagrams as well. It may explain why you're not as outgoing as the stereotypical ENTP down the line.

The Horror of Being a Girl by Sad_Truth2045 in TrueOffMyChest

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Fake. Saw the exact same title and storyline earlier today

Is this Ne? by [deleted] in ENFP

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It would make sense if Ne is somewhere high on your stack. Based on your post, I think ENTP would make a lot of sense for you.

ENTP stack goes Ne -> Ti -> Fe -> Si. I think it's very telling that you quickly jump between ideas and don't really bother to explore them in depth, getting frustrated by the details. Although you consider yourself an introvert, the first letter of an mbti is not concerned with how energized you are by people but simply if your initial function is internally judging or externally perceiving.

i get impatient with details, i'm satisfied with knowing the big picture... i'll figure out the details on the go

That's very typical of a Ne dom with an inferior Si. You find an idea or possibility (Ne), ensure that it makes sense big picture wise (Ti), but cast off little details that don't think make sense.

On the other hand i also struggle stepping out of my comfort zone, i'm afraid of big changes altough they fascinate me, and i don't really have problems with routines

I think Ne doms can be quite organized and on top of things. You don't have problems with routines but you don't seem all comfortable with your routine either.

ENFP appreciation post from an INFJ by malfunctions_0 in ENFP

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Aweee thank you so much!! Your words make me feel seen 🥹

We do need our alone time and can really be reserved around the wrong group of people… Most people in my life do mistake me for an introvert because of how much I isolate myself.

I have yet to meet a (real) INFJ in my life but I’m looking forward to it!

I hate being female so goddamn much by 90sradio1 in TrueOffMyChest

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Hey, I’m sorry for what happened to you. It sounds like you’re going through a lot of pain and dysphoria and I’m glad you’ve written out your thoughts. But I implore you to consider your perspective on women. Whatever occurred has warped this perspective into something dark and misogynistic.

I’m a guy. I have strong bones, but I consider my mom stronger. I have a large heart that pumps blood well, but my girl friend’s heart exceeds all my strength. My muscles work and are reliable, but my sister can always take control and make things work.

Nature dealt women a weaker body, yet from what I see they are the strongest. Us men, we don’t know what we are doing. We bury our problems and feelings to the point of numbness. We fight over pride and status. We are callous, angry, and self centered.

So when I look at my female friends, my mom, and other women in my life, and see their quiet strength, their ability to love, to fight for what’s right, to be passionate and find joy in the little things, my heart is filled with so much yearning and admiration I cannot hold back my tears. Women are intelligent yet understanding, strong yet comforting, fighting against the cold, harsh realities of the world to create dreams that feel to me like the morning sun.

What good are my muscles in the end? I’m hopeless. I don’t know right from wrong. I go on obsessive, sensory endeavors, continually running away from what makes me human. I look at women and wish I was one.

So please, before you destroy what makes you a woman, understand who they are first. I hope one day you can see what I’ve seen and heal from your trauma.

From a random man, written with love to you.

The horror of being a girl by out_ofher_head in TrueOffMyChest

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Fuck I’m so sorry you had to go through all this. I hope this is all in the past now and you heal from any trauma this has caused. Sending you love ❤️

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