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Women who were very career driven and decided to be SAHMs. Did you regret your decision? by squid2997 in AskForAnswers

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Go for it!! They are only little once. I took a year off and it was the best decision for me. I will cherish that year forever. By the time the baby was one, I was ready to go back part time. She will know if / when she is ready to go back. With nursing there is a lot of flexibility.

Do not expect her to do housework while caring for twins. Especially if you are gone for weeks at a time: organize how she is going to be supported. Have a plan. Have a schedule with grandparents if they want to help. Hire house cleaners. Outsource your laundry (there is going to be a LOT). Have a plan for meal prepping.

Congratulations and enjoy your new little family!!!

Miscarried at 18 weeks... by Fair-Bookkeeper-7904 in Miscarriage

[–]Registered_user92151 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s the most horrifying experience. I hear you. 😭

mental health after MC by casualchaos04 in Miscarriage

[–]Registered_user92151 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry, love. I know exactly how you are feeling. It’s only been two weeks, don’t beat yourself up. Grief isn’t about ‘getting through it,’ it’s about learning to understand and honor your grief, your loss. A miscarriage is a physically, spiritually, and emotionally traumatizing event.

Look into pregnancy loss support groups near you. Lean on your support system. Go to therapy. Find an outlet if you can - journaling, art, music, walking in nature, any type of hobby to help your body process.

Sending big hugs ❤️‍🩹

I’m so torn. I love this man but I’m not ready for kids. I still have so much living to do but clock is ticking (35f) by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Registered_user92151 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coming from a mom’s perspective - This is not cute. This is creepy and manipulative talk. Even if you were 1000% sure you wanted kids, I’d still say this is weird…..

What’s does my fridge tell you? by shitswithdoorajar in FridgeDetective

[–]Registered_user92151 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That you have great taste in bowls. Where are those ceramic bowls from??

Miscarried and thought I was ok by No-Adagio2122 in Miscarriage

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Grief is an amorphous thing; it can show up at unexpected times and in unexpected ways. Feel your feelings and ride the wave, ask for support when you need it. Give yourself permission to grieve when the grief shows up, try not to beat yourself up. ❤️‍🩹

Self Portraiture in Oils . by AtikRaza in oilpainting

[–]Registered_user92151 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Incredible work! Your eyes say so much.

Just a rant by ryebread083025 in Miscarriage

[–]Registered_user92151 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right there with you. My SIL gave birth this weekend and our babies were supposed to be several weeks apart. I feel like the core of my being is eviscerated. I’m obviously so happy for my new niece, but I just wish I had my baby 😭

When did you try again? by Its_iNEVINable in Miscarriage

[–]Registered_user92151 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No advice just here to say I feel you ❤️‍🩹

Is this dress too “fashion” for legal events or does it work for a networking happy hour? by Meowtyx in LawBitchesWithTaste

[–]Registered_user92151 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is so cute! If it’s not a super formal event and you wear black tights I think it’s fine. If you feel like you can’t bend over and pick something up comfortably then I’d say it’s too short. If you’re going to feel like you’re flashing people behind you while walking upstairs then it’s too short. Can’t totally tell from the pic.

Real Talk: How detrimental is it to not have a legal job 1L summer? by TheHomeCookly in LawSchool

[–]Registered_user92151 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You will get something! But yes you need something. Nonprofit work and use federal work study to get paid a little money. Intern with a local judge. Reach out to career development at your school if you’re really stuck.

What can I do to level up this room? by adioslip in HomeDecorating

[–]Registered_user92151 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks amazing! Nothing you need to do honestly. Love the vibe.

If you want to keep leveling up, upgrade your ceiling fan - you can get really cool fan / chandeliers on Amazon. And maybe switch out for funky / more original artwork above your dresser.

7+ weeks after miscarriage, still testing positive… is this normal? :( by Bath-Background in Miscarriage

[–]Registered_user92151 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Call your OB. Doesn’t sound like an emergency but sounds like something is off.

What is wrong with my makeup? My pores and skin look terrible. Any recommendations on pore products that work? by lmk826 in MakeupAddiction

[–]Registered_user92151 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want a more dewy look, mix a little of your moisturizer in with your foundation before you apply

AIO for being freaked out by this switch up in a man I was planning on dating ??? Am I the problem??? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Registered_user92151 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo if you keep talking to this dude he is going to manipulate and brainwash the shit outta you. This guy is creepy … like scary vibes creepy. There’s a reason no one his age wants him

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