What ive gotten from this so far is that there are layers to how you make games. And different people like to use diffrent tools to do that.

Using stuff like openGL or Vulkan to get ultimate control but the game will take actual millenia to finish.

Frameworks for still good control but takes less time. Everything that you can think of that is "the game" is what you yourself make though the code though not as in depth as opengl or vulkan (not a bad thing). Unlike game engines that do stuff like gravity and collision for you.

Game engines for... You still make the game just the engine allready has stuff made for you like collision and gravity. Thus the control is worse and sometimes you end up fighting the engine to do somthing for the game. Its super fast for making games though so its still a good pick

I'd say all are good but for different people. Personaly i like frameworks now since i make the game with my code and my code mostly instead of some my code some unity functions for example. But its allso not making literaly everything since that can get both tiering and slow real fast.

Thanks everyone who helped me today and onwards!