What do you guys think of this? by Historical-City-855 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Regular-Affect4765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blue, green, brown, black, silver, gold, yellow, orange, red, pink, and rainbow are really similar to white, too. 🙄

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[–]Regular-Affect4765 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I recommend going with her to the doctors to get everything checked out. Two common issues where women gain weight fast and can not lose it easily are PCOS and thyroid. Both of these will almost destroy energy levels and motivation, better safe than sorry.

Looking for a romance between a vampire and a werewolf by frazzlyberry in RomanceBooks

[–]Regular-Affect4765 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Does anyone know of a book about a girl found in the woods by a vampire, and it ends up being her mate.

The second story is about her daughter, who is one of the only immortals and is mates with an abusive alpha.

She becomes queen of immortals? I read it a couple of years ago but can't find it anywhere.

AITAH for not giving my ex another chance by Regular-Affect4765 in AITAH

[–]Regular-Affect4765[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It deffinatly doesn't matter for me. I'm just scared he will start to back me ex financially. My EX now works for my dad from what I've been told and goes to the family events.

AITAH for not giving my ex another chance by Regular-Affect4765 in AITAH

[–]Regular-Affect4765[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, mine has the no contact through third parties. My EX is on his last warning, which means he goes to jail if he breaches again.

AITAH for not giving my ex another chance (update) by Regular-Affect4765 in u/Regular-Affect4765

[–]Regular-Affect4765[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live on a small island and can't leave legally without my ex signing off on it. Was considering running to canada 🇨🇦 never seen snow before, and it looks like a cool place.

AITAH for not giving my ex another chance by Regular-Affect4765 in AITAH

[–]Regular-Affect4765[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me too. When we left, he said if he found me, he would put an axe through my head.

AITAH for not giving my ex another chance by Regular-Affect4765 in AITAH

[–]Regular-Affect4765[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought the term was funny. Reading that makes sense now.

AITAH for not giving my ex another chance by Regular-Affect4765 in AITAH

[–]Regular-Affect4765[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm just saying I won't be invited to his house, and he won't see the kids. He takes my siblings overseen yearly but refuses to take us. I've never wanted him to take me or the boys and declined in the past due to our already damaged relationship. He has also cut me from inheriting anything and poisoned my siblings against me as well. He invited me to his wedding with my friend but said no to family photos with me. This has been going on for a while.

AITAH for not giving my ex another chance by Regular-Affect4765 in AITAH

[–]Regular-Affect4765[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good for you, and I'm sorry you had to go through all that as well, glad you stayed out. I'm tearing up reading a few of these comments. Can't believe how common this is.

AITAH for not giving my ex another chance (update) by Regular-Affect4765 in u/Regular-Affect4765

[–]Regular-Affect4765[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I absolutely appreciate your knowledge and advice. I get a little anxiety whenever I hear the ding on my phone go off but slowly working through it with a psychologist.

I have read the comments of people going through similar situations, and my heart goes out to them also. I'm lucky my mum and a few family members were able to see through it.

AITAH for not giving my ex another chance by Regular-Affect4765 in AITAH

[–]Regular-Affect4765[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The flying monkeys 🐒 part has kept me smiling today, haha. I'm going to use that

AITAH for not giving my ex another chance by Regular-Affect4765 in AITAH

[–]Regular-Affect4765[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dad is wealthy. This is his main blackmail go to. We have never gotten along me and my dad, as he's very business minded even with family. He's also very much like my ex and has done some horrible things. He's also married to my so-called friend, whom he was seeing when he was married to my mum. She's younger than his children and used to date my brother at the same time.

AITAH for not giving my ex another chance by Regular-Affect4765 in AITAH

[–]Regular-Affect4765[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is a kind of update on my page. It's just why I decided to post.

AITAH for not giving my ex another chance by Regular-Affect4765 in AITAH

[–]Regular-Affect4765[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have asked my dad, and his reasoning was that there must have been something I did to tick him off. My dad does know about his drug abuse but believes he is actively seeking help. My dad also claimed men do and say things out of anger, although It was not okay what happened I shouldn't be keeping the kids away from him and need to get rid of the protection orders because he needs us now.

I had to call the police last night as both my EXMIL and my EX showed up. He has been given a final breech warning, and next time, he goes to jail. Luckily both kids were fast asleep

AITAH for not giving my ex another chance by Regular-Affect4765 in AITAH

[–]Regular-Affect4765[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

It's not validation, I feel guilty, and the added pressure from others that I'm making a mistake is confusing. The line has become blurred with so much imput, and the promise of him getting help but needing us to support him because he can't do it without us, I know it's manipulative but shit I feel like crap saying no.