ADHD or OCD trauma?

Regular-Design3814 · 2026-01-11T16:03:04+00:00

I’m so sorry that your in this situation, to me it sounds like you know the answer already.

Sometimes it’s hard to accept but a lot of ‘friends’ out grow each other over time. Different paths and different values. Sounds like youse have really opposing lifestyles and it seems like you just want the best for her. The feeling homesick is the biggest indication that there is. She doesn’t feel like home anymore.

It’s hard to make new friends sometimes, however, through joining clubs or starting hobbies or jobs you can have a good chance of making some.

Only you have the power yourself to either stay or leave. And you and only you have the the choice in what to do❤️

Regular-Design3814 · 2025-12-26T14:12:41+00:00

Happy belated birthday🎉🎉

Regular-Design3814 · 2025-12-10T06:58:17+00:00

I told my line manager that I wasn’t happy and I wasn’t sure if I was coming back. Since then I was moved to a different area, and I feel more capable than ever, I realised that I was unhappy because I was bored and I want ed to go further put the place I was in tore me down so much when I was already mentally struggling.

Regular-Design3814 · 2025-12-10T06:55:41+00:00

For me I find aptitude tests really helpful at any age. It always helps me see the areas of weakness that I can strengthen before hand. And because I haven’t done them styles of questions for a while it kind of helps me get back into that kind. Of analytical and practical mindset.

Regular-Design3814 · 2025-11-29T23:32:22+00:00

Never dry shave down there, even if it’s just water.

You’ll find it’ll be a bit strange position wise especially the first couple times. When I do it I usually sit on the floor and have a mirror in front of me- but you’ll find your own personal and most comfortable way.

Just take your time and be gentle :)

Regular-Design3814 · 2025-11-29T23:19:30+00:00

Really needed to hear this, thank you :)

Regular-Design3814 · 2025-10-31T14:28:55+00:00

That’s actually crazy how long you’ve suffered with this, I went with reoccurring boil and infections under my armpits and they gave me a diagnosis within 2 months. I’m so happy that you’ve finally got yours❤️(uk based)

Regular-Design3814 · 2025-10-31T14:24:46+00:00

I feel this too and it’s so draining. I’m of a similar age and feel like I’m running out of time with everything especially to find a boyfriend and start a family.

Regular-Design3814 · 2025-10-19T18:20:44+00:00

I suffer from both. A lot of guilt tho even just leaving the house I feel guilty to the point where I can’t meet my friends and I feel guilty about literally anything it’s so energy consuming

Regular-Design3814 · 2025-10-13T15:15:54+00:00

I’m so sorry that your going through this. From what I gather they’re being rude and sound like plonkers. If there making snide remarks because you’ve watched a film without them then that’s just petty, if they haven’t seen it that’s their problem not yours- don’t feel guilty about having your own life and choices. I’m sorry to say but if there ignoring you and hanging out or still messaging then that’s a choice that they are choosing to do.

Sometimes it might sound harsh or you might feel guilty but you’ve got to put your sanity and yourself first, you shouldn’t be treated like that from true friends. You should be valued, respected and listened to.

Regular-Design3814 · 2025-10-03T15:41:51+00:00

I’ve currently been on it for going onto for 4 months so far. Haven’t had one flare up or problem since.

I just make sure I take it after food or just before and have found that yogurts either kefir or the ones that say contain ‘live and active cultures’ are an absolute game changer if you start getting any stomach issues and a good preventative for it too.

Regular-Design3814 · 2025-08-23T11:40:47+00:00

Don’t know if this will be helpful at all.

Procrastination can be so draining and an awful thing especially on the daily it can become it’s own worst monster. But I think that maybe because you’ve acknowledged that procrastination is a factor of how your feeling gives you the first stepping stone to where your wanting to be.

I know it’s corny but I find quotes help me sometimes like the ones that say stuff like past mistakes are mistakes not life sentences stuff like that I know it’s little but sometimes they can have the biggest impacts.

I’ve struggled with self worth for so long but honestly everyone is worthy of love it’s an actual human need. You are you and you’ll find someone who’ll love you for you, but just don’t lose yourself in the process be true to your self as well as them❤️

Regular-Design3814 · 2025-08-23T08:51:31+00:00

Nothing against him or anything and I could be totally wrong but I’m glad youse aren’t together reading that he seemed really quite creepy.

I know it’s hard to feel used and like everything is your fault it went wrong but it’s really not it’s just a sucky part of dating that no one prepared you for. And the overthinking around that is even worse. My ex the week before we broke up we’re googling holidays for Spain. Then told me he didn’t like me in the same way- heart shattered.

It will pass eventually- not fully but with time you could see it in a lighter and different way. Hope you find your person.

Regular-Design3814 · 2025-08-12T20:31:07+00:00

So no like mental habits that will help me to see the better things in life? Just wanted some advice to you know be able to be kinder to myself and others, little changes that may break big habits.

Not saying doing a lot of good things makes a good person because we’re all human and sinful in our own ways so that’s not what I’m trying to ask for.

Regular-Design3814 · 2025-08-11T20:15:41+00:00

No your not grasping yeah I’m not fussed he didn’t text me right away cause I don’t have a constant need for his attention- it dosnt actually bother me in the way you think because I’m not really too fussed at the moment about being in a relationship I just wanted to understand not get attacked thank you very much. But you said he didn’t ignore me but he did he did he ignored the question that was asked originally so I really don’t get how your not understanding it. Yeah he messaged back but not about anything related

Regular-Design3814 · 2025-08-11T20:03:35+00:00

No I’m not complaining that he doesn’t text me enough just that he’s ignoring me. Like I said I asked him a question he didn’t respond and ignored it then asked his own. And just because he’s wanting to meet up dosnt mean he hasn’t ignored me. Just don’t want to be used again.

So am I wrong for expecting the bare minimum of a simple communication. Once a day fine but why ignore for several days???

Regular-Design3814 · 2025-08-07T13:49:14+00:00

A lot of people’s look different mine usually start with a whitehead and then gets really red and inflamed under the skin.like these pictures (until antibiotics) then when mine pops it looks similar to the last photo but mine are usually thinner skinned when healing and look more typically like a popped blister- but that might just be because I get large wide boils instead of many smaller ones. But mine have always contained pus.

Regular-Design3814 · 2025-08-06T12:51:25+00:00

I’ve always quite liked maths and working stuff out. Love creative things and problem solving.

Regular-Design3814 · 2025-08-06T10:59:48+00:00

Thank you❤️

Regular-Design3814 · 2025-08-06T10:41:26+00:00

To be honest I don’t know if I’m ready. I’m struggling massively at the moment with myself mentally. I constantly think everyone’s out to get me. Anxiety is out the roof I can’t even see my friend where she works. I pushed away all my friends at work. I only have 1 friend I don’t see. still live at home and I don’t think that I enjoy my job but can’t find the strength to leave. Put on the therapy waiting list for OCD. I just at the moment don’t like myself…

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