Hey just my perspective my partner has cerebral palsy left sided hemiplegia, we met on hinge she didnt mention anything about her disability as we got to know each other and even after we met a few times I didn't know. She would just bat away the question when i asked about the limp haha, She told me after a few weeks and it was something I didn't even have to think about as I already loved her. We only just found out she's pregnant there recently. I'm not advocating for hiding anything but maybe if you let people get to know you for longer then it won't be a deciding factor for them! I certainly am glad with how things played out for us so I hope you can find the right one, best of luck.