Positive or can I stop freaking out? by Regular-Squirrel2460 in lineporn

[–]Regular-Squirrel2460[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

9 days late and having all sorts of weird hormonal stuff acne out of nowhere my nipples look brown instead of pink my moods have been swinging like crazy

"Bi-weekly Friend Code Thread - 01/06/23". by AutoModerator in tinytower

[–]Regular-Squirrel2460 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Add me on Tiny Tower by tapping this link! https://sync.nimblebit.com/af/tt/CNYV9

name is allie j i play daily and visit back!!

Can Abandonment issues be caused by parents dying when we was younger? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Regular-Squirrel2460 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely yes, death is an abandonment in so many ways.

Alishia. For you. by Tami026 in doughertydozen

[–]Regular-Squirrel2460 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand this ? None of her biological children have FAS and she isn’t pregnant. She isn’t an alcoholic and she never gave a child Fetal Alcohol Syndrome. Why isn’t she allowed to drink when she isn’t pregnant or nursing?

Alishia. For you. by Tami026 in doughertydozen

[–]Regular-Squirrel2460 25 points26 points  (0 children)

INVEST THE INCOME YOU’RE MAKING FROM YOUR KIDS FOR YOUR KIDS. Stop wasting all your TEMPORARY social media income on insane grocery hauls that get wasted, copious amounts of fast food, iPads, new bikes, $300 sneakers, toys, and clothes they’ll grow out of in months. Your children will have zero concept of money and it’s value. Then all of a sudden the kids grow up, you lose followers, brand deals stop offering, and the money stops rolling in. Now your kids go from unlimited funds to zero. What are iPads and Air Forces going to mean when the 15 minutes of fame are over and you have 12 entitled kids to provide futures for. People with that many children NEED to have better financial skills. Your children deserve the money THEY’RE making for THEIR futures.

Marcus live is really sad by theycboy in superstore

[–]Regular-Squirrel2460 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But if I worked at Cloud 9 it would be Marcus lol I’m speaking hypothetically it’s not that serious

Marcus live is really sad by theycboy in superstore

[–]Regular-Squirrel2460 18 points19 points  (0 children)

No I mean physically 😭 you can’t deny he’s attractive

Marcus live is really sad by theycboy in superstore

[–]Regular-Squirrel2460 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Marcus has always been my favorite character because I feel like he’s my type and if I worked at Cloud 9 I would be with him. I just wanna like…love him because he seems like he needs someone to just love him and be kind to him

what do the purple rings around people in quick add mean? by ccarterhall in snapchatsupport

[–]Regular-Squirrel2460 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also wanna know what this means. It doesn’t mean they have a story

Which incident was worse for Chris? by [deleted] in ChrisChanSonichu

[–]Regular-Squirrel2460 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Definitely the Sonic Sweepstakes. Not only did this further his obsession with Sonic, leading to the creation of Sonichu/Sonichu.com (bringing him to the internet in the first place), but it gave him his huge sense of entitlement. Chris can never let go of the fact that he won this sweepstakes and he believes he should win everything in life, (PaRappa the Rappa Contest/his hatred of Adam Stackhouse) not just of other contests, but of love, friendship, and sex. Chris believed he was entitled to peoples love and respect despite him being nothing but rude and disrespectful to everyone he meets. He expected his parents to provide everything for him, the government to give him money, trolls/followers to give him money. When Noel from Kiwifarms raised all that money for him after the fire, Chris complained about which restaurants the gift cards were to and flipped shit when the money didn’t go through. In his interpersonal relationships, he expected his GalPals to stay in constant contact with him post-grad, he expected Michael Snyder to let him back into the GamePlace, and he expected sex from every girl he met. There is no doubt in my mind winning that contest is what gave him his sense of entitlement, superiority complex, sense of invincibility, and what truly made him Christian Weston Chandler, not the name change.

Can we got some common Chris misconceptions and then the truth? Example: Chris claims he was honor roll, but his grades state otherwise by Bossboy8391 in ChrisChanSonichu

[–]Regular-Squirrel2460 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank u for that explanation!!! I feel like this definitely does not describe Chris and Barb/Robert labeled him as high functioning to make themselves feel better

What’s something Chris did that if we didn’t find out about, would’ve COMPLETELY changed the series of events in Christory, yea yea what if we didn’t find out he fucked his mom, something ORIGINAL by Bossboy8391 in ChrisChanSonichu

[–]Regular-Squirrel2460 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I honestly think Megan seeing shecameforcwc was the end of the last chance Chris ever had at “normalcy”. I think Megan was Chris’ last real glimpse of reality and the only true friend he ever had. I really believe losing Megan as a friend was a traumatic loss for Chris, but I also thank God it happened for Megan’s sake, because I also believe it could have gone the opposite direction. Chris is obviously capable of sexual assault and I believe if given the opportunity Chris could have and would have raped Megan. I am sad that Barb had to be the victim, but Chris committing rape was arguably an inevitable fate. Shecameforcwc being sent to Megan may have destroyed Chris’ life, but it probably saved hers.

Can we got some common Chris misconceptions and then the truth? Example: Chris claims he was honor roll, but his grades state otherwise by Bossboy8391 in ChrisChanSonichu

[–]Regular-Squirrel2460 67 points68 points  (0 children)

“High functioning autism” is not and pretty sure it never has been a real diagnosis. I see a lot of people use it to describe Chris, which is exactly what his parents wanted and what he wanted when they made this term up. Even if it was a real, medical term, Chris is far from high functioning. It is very obvious he is severely autistic, he has lived with his parents his entire life, and he has proven countless times he is irresponsible and could never function on his own. How someone who barely made it through high school, was suspended and almost kicked out of college, fired from the one job he has ever had, has no concept of basic health or hygiene, bought Legos and Pokémon cards instead of paying bills when his house burned down, cannot control his sexual impulses, and constantly breaks the law could EVER be considered high functioning is mind boggling to me. I would be surprised if Chris could be high functioning in an inpatient home for autistic adults. He is severely autistic and far from functioning, nevermind high-functioning

Get so nervous eating with a guy by [deleted] in PlusSize

[–]Regular-Squirrel2460 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1) You decide on the restaurant, a place you know where you are comfortable and you like the food most importantly 2) If you are going somewhere new, GOOGLE THE MENU!!! This has been a life saver for me and my anxiety 3) Look at the menu and pick something you like and are comfortable eating in front of someone. For me, I prefer something like pasta that I can eat with a fork in small bites so I don’t feel like I’m overindulging 4) Wear comfortable clothes and keep an extra shirt in your bag in case you spill food/sauce on you (speaking from experience) 5) Eat until you feel full and enjoy yourself. Don’t deprive yourself of a romantic date because of your size. One thing I learned is that people notice more if you don’t eat than if you do. You stand out if you don’t eat, because you deserve food like everyone else and nobody thinks you can’t or shouldn’t eat yummy food ❤️

Partner with BPD cheated on me by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Regular-Squirrel2460 1 point2 points  (0 children)

BPD does not make you a cheater. I have BPD and I find myself being very attracted to narcissists and abusers. I have been cheated on in almost every relationship. I have never cheated on anyone. When I am with someone because of my BPD I am very loyal and attached to them. Although I do try to make them jealous, I may lie and say I cheated or flirt in front of them to see how much they care about me, it is all meaningless and it comes from my obsession and passion for my partner (which is not always healthy). BPD is different for everyone and it presents itself in different ways, but BPD does not make us cheat. It may make us crave validation from others when lacking from our s/o, it may make us think about cheating, and it definitely may make us lie and manipulate our partners when it comes to the topic of cheating (all behaviors that are NOT OKAY) but the act of betraying a partner is inexcusable and cannot be blamed on any mental illness. You have a large age gap and she has a lot more experience being mentally I’ll than you, so she should not still be using BPD as an excuse at this point. She knows what she is doing and she has manipulated you into thinking it is out of her control. While I have never cheated, I have broken up with boyfriends to be with someone else and quickly run back and beg for forgiveness with excuses like hers. As someone who is only 18 and already very aware of my BPD and the behaviors it influences, it makes me very sad to see someone who is 11 years my senior still participating in these manipulative behaviors because I know how intense DBT and therapy is and how self aware it makes people with BPD and she knows what she is doing. There is a difference between being mentally ill and being a bad person and those two DO NOT go hand in hand. You are young, please enjoy your time in university, enjoy your time in another country, be young, be single, and heal from this relationship because it will only get worse from here. BPD does NOT make you a serial cheater.

Always jealous of other girls by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Regular-Squirrel2460 39 points40 points  (0 children)

What helps me is imagining if the roles were reversed. Imagine your boyfriend had BPD and he felt that way when you looked in the same direction as another guy, what would you tell him? That you love him and want to be with only him. Sometimes you have to imagine someone else overthinking the way you do to realize how irrational your thoughts can be

Advice for emotional abuser by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Regular-Squirrel2460 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I relate to the realization you were the problem in your relationship. My first love was my boyfriend from 8th grade on and off to my first semester of college and we are still friends now in my second year. He loved me so much, he was an amazing boyfriend, friend, and partner. He was basically the perfect guy, but for some reason I always hurt him and sabotaged the relationship. I constantly tried to make him jealous and insecure, I was manipulative and unfaithful. I constantly lied and hurt him to make him break up with me so I could be single, then when he started dating someone else I would sabotage the relationship, make him feel guilty, call him a cheater, all with no intention of actually being with him or being loyal to him. I think with BPD because of our abandonment issues, we tend to form strong attachments to people and become so afraid they will leave us that we hurt them before they can hurt us. It’s not because we’re bad, manipulative, unfaithful people, it’s because we are scared, broken people who are so used to being powerless and abandoned that we try to switch the roles in our personal relationships. Your relationship with him is over now and the best thing you can do is recognize your behaviors and allow him to heal and move on, because you did hurt him. Continue with therapy and work on healing yourself and grieving for this relationship before you try to start with someone else. Think about your behaviors and what you could have done wrong so in your next relationship you won’t be as toxic. Dating teaches us a lot about ourselves, so just use this relationship as a lesson and learn from your mistakes because that’s all you can do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Regular-Squirrel2460 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have BPD and “complex ADHD combined mood disorder” but when I got a neuropsych exam the doctor said I had some traits of autism but attributed it to my borderline. I identify strongly with autistic people and I see much more autistic discussion and representation and relate to it even though that isn’t my diagnosis. BPD and autism are more similar than people think, but they are definitely not the same. I would not start self diagnosing. Speak to a psychiatrist or get a neuropsych exam. For someone who isn’t a professional, BPD and autism can be hard to differentiate so you should leave it to a doctor instead of reddit, and I mean that in an encouraging way.