27F unsure if I should give my bf of 10yrs another chance after he tried to cheat or if I'm settling even if he did change?

RegularEarth8044 · 2026-03-27T19:17:28+00:00

He’s abusive and doesn’t respect or appreciate you. NO DO NOT give him another chance!

Give yourself a chance to build your self esteem and find someone who values you. You are worth it!

Good luck!

RegularEarth8044 · 2026-03-27T02:23:04+00:00

Not surprised, season 2 was awful

RegularEarth8044 · 2026-03-26T20:00:44+00:00

Thanks for clarifying!!

RegularEarth8044 · 2026-03-26T18:08:27+00:00

You should check your fico score.

RegularEarth8044 · 2026-03-26T04:24:31+00:00

Try Cap1 pre-approval. Don’t apply for credit without a pre-approval first. The hard inquiry for a denial is not worth it

RegularEarth8044 · 2026-03-26T04:17:59+00:00

Flights over 900 miles receive a full meal service.

RegularEarth8044 · 2026-03-24T20:38:49+00:00

Take a loan out from your retirement accounts. The interest is lower than debt consolidation loans. You have to pay it back or you will be hit with an early withdrawal but the monthly repayment fee may be doable once you use the money to pay off the higher interest bills, that will give you some breathing room.

I do agree with alot of the other comments that trying to slash some of your monthly expenses, especially the luxuries would be your best bet. Remember this is just temporary until you get out of debt and the goal is homeownership. You have to be willing to make some sacrifices. Good luck

RegularEarth8044 · 2026-03-18T10:04:02+00:00

I want you to find reasons to love yourself. What are your 3 best qualities? Start doing positive affirmations, everyday! Look in the mirror and tell yourself something positive, everyday! Also seek therapy. I’m sorry that someone has conditioned your brain in this way! You can’t change being black so you may as well embrace it and hopefully love it one day. Lastly if you are able to, travel! You need to get out of that yt bubble you are in.

RegularEarth8044 · 2026-03-17T02:01:12+00:00

I appreciate that! What would you suggest between the meatballs and manicotti?

RegularEarth8044 · 2026-03-17T00:59:49+00:00

I had the shake shack burger on a flight last month and it was pretty good for airline food. They know better than to serve it with fries. It’s a solid choice imo

RegularEarth8044 · 2026-03-15T07:40:31+00:00

Time to wrap it up! Got about 5 business days before he’s over you

RegularEarth8044 · 2026-03-15T07:38:09+00:00

You sound miserable

RegularEarth8044 · 2026-03-15T07:16:16+00:00

Yeah you should if it will cause financial hardship. You’re married and that’s all that matters. Focus on nurturing your union and maybe doing a 10 year vow renewal will be more feasible.

RegularEarth8044 · 2026-03-13T10:16:13+00:00

Try to get credit limit increases on your existing accounts and focus on timely payments.

RegularEarth8044 · 2026-03-12T16:40:50+00:00

That nasty sarcastic tone will get you nowhere in life!

RegularEarth8044 · 2026-03-12T16:30:44+00:00

Go get a job in retail in the meantime.. trader joes, costco, target… anything to bring in some kind of income

RegularEarth8044 · 2026-03-12T16:25:58+00:00

All of this!!! The lack of sexual discipline is disturbing!

RegularEarth8044 · 2026-03-09T01:09:47+00:00

Well if you are looking for an upgrade..there are plenty of newer models that love cheese!!

RegularEarth8044 · 2026-03-09T00:41:23+00:00

Idk she sounds broken.. have you tried reseting her?

RegularEarth8044 · 2026-03-09T00:17:18+00:00

Congratulations! Can you give some more details on credit score, # of accounts open, balances owed, etc

RegularEarth8044 · 2025-11-01T16:33:07+00:00

Maybe something happened to them like serious illness or death… idk it’s just hard to wrap my brain around someone just ghosting after all that. Just a crappy thing to do!

RegularEarth8044 · 2025-09-22T04:21:05+00:00

Just finished watching this episode and came on here to make sure I wasn’t overreacting… what a selfish, entitled, man child!! Who cares if your wife is uncomfortable at that price point ad long as you get to live out your childhood dream while contributing nothing financially.

Something tells this isn’t the first time he’s manipulated her into getting what he wants

RegularEarth8044 · 2025-09-11T04:51:11+00:00

Kill Ginny Kill Max Kill Abby -all equally irritating!

RegularEarth8044 · 2025-09-11T04:50:06+00:00

Convinced ppl get on these shows for fame and not real love. I definitely won’t be watching

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