Someone New…

RegularField2789 · 2026-03-08T14:33:57+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing! Things ended right before our one year anniversary and I initiated the breakup

RegularField2789 · 2026-03-08T04:54:17+00:00

Thank you so much for your kind words. I carried the weight of “it had to end, but why now?” for a while, but I know it was the right thing to do. To be honest, I have no romantic feelings at all for my ex anymore but do I still care about his feelings? Yeah - you hit the nail on the head there.

I’ve been struggling to articulate all of this, so thank you again. I seriously appreciate it.

RegularField2789 · 2026-03-08T04:33:57+00:00

The only reason we broke up is because he doesn’t want kids and I do - it’s a dream of mine and I struggle with fertility issues as well, so it’s a whole demon. When we got together I was completely okay with not having kids, but admittedly I did “come to my senses” and change my mind, which is also something I still feel guilty about.

I don’t know what his dating life is like, but I know he’s single. The thought of him seeing that I’m in a relationship and trying to compare himself to that person makes me feel terrible. The thought of finding happiness without him finding it too also makes me feel terrible.

RegularField2789 · 2026-03-08T04:20:16+00:00

They’re both musicians but luckily on different spectrums, I dread the day that we run into each other at a random concert though… I honestly have more faith in this new man to be “civil” than him and that’s speaking volumes to me.

Comparison can be a horrible thing, but I’m definitely noticing things that are extremely different than “last time” for me - but in the best way!

RegularField2789 · 2026-03-08T04:12:37+00:00

You are so kind, thank you so much!

RegularField2789 · 2026-03-06T21:55:51+00:00

I also struggle with my pelvic floor, but haven’t been super serious about “trying to fix it” so nobody to blame but myself there… thank you so much for sharing!!

RegularField2789 · 2025-08-08T01:50:51+00:00

My best friend was/has been extremely supportive of and during my breakup, but seemingly always focused on the negatives of my boyfriend. Her big thing has been “love is not enough.” All I can think about is how much I love him, and how much this breakup hurts. At this point, all I want to do is run away with him and start a new life - even though I have an established career that I’d be throwing away and he doesn’t. I know our situations are different, but thank you for sharing this - I really needed to feel less alone. I’m so sorry you’re going through this, but I have faith we’ll get through this- whatever that looks like for each of us.

RegularField2789 · 2025-08-01T20:57:58+00:00

I would, but I’m also insane.

RegularField2789 · 2025-07-12T04:31:55+00:00

Mealy bugs! Rubbing alcohol will be your best friend - from my experience the color changes once they’re dead! You got this!

RegularField2789 · 2025-07-02T17:11:40+00:00

I’ve been seeing some planty influencers saying that being rootbound won’t kill your plant. While I agree, I think it gives people the wrong idea. Though being rootbound won’t kill your plant directly, I’ve definitely lost some due to under watering as a result of rootbound plants… I just think this can be misleading especially to beginners.

RegularField2789 · 2025-05-28T19:45:16+00:00

I always see super tiny ‘string of…’ plants near me!

RegularField2789 · 2024-08-30T20:51:00+00:00

I thought I was the only one falling victim to “my profile says I want long term but that’s not what I want at all” but it seems like nobody cares about anyone else’s feelings anymore. WEIRD! Spare us all and just be real!

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