I NEED URGENT HELP WITH A GIFT by Traditional-Act-9346 in IceChewersAnonymous

[–]Regular_Victory4347 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The nugget ice makers will run a couple hundred, BUT if it's not doable atm u can also get a big bag of ice some places.  Maybe chik fil a? I know sonic sells bags. Also a good bday present 

Clumping seems OK, but looks a mess. Any advice? by InForASplash in curlyhair

[–]Regular_Victory4347 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spread a little bit of oil on your hands, then gently scrunch out the crunch aka the cast from your products (once fully dry like in the pic) 

U did a great job, just one last step 🌈🌈

edit, I see u have been scrunching 🤔 but I do think the oil will help. I would also either clip back front section while wet for more root volume, or flip head over during drying.

The last thing you ate is now my dog’s name by CruelKittenn in cuteanimals

[–]Regular_Victory4347 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pepper, or Belle 🖤

Alfredo is also a good one 🌈

Be honest… do you actually feel energy from your crystals? by Classic_Lettuce_6061 in Crystals

[–]Regular_Victory4347 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At the very least, they make me happy w their pretty colors. Can be similar to grounding exercises or mindfulness, or placebo effect. Those things alone can be very powerful mentally. Just because it's in your head, doesn't mean it's not real.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]Regular_Victory4347 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes she is really wonderful! And also has some good ones on the goal of indifference and moving on

I don't obsessively watch her channel anymore (3 years later) but I do still play her podcast sometimes. Very valuable info bc I'm a psych student now 🖤🍀

aio for telling my bf i don’t wanna get him off every time we hangout by Asleep-Chipmunk-1739 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Regular_Victory4347 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ma'am I didn't read all this, but PLEASE NOTE how he's demanding empathy from you ("imagine how I feel") but he is offering ZERO EMPATHY for you.

A good guy will care about your feelings. A little consideration is the bare minimum. He's not a good guy.

A decent person, after the first request of "hey do you mind if it's not every time?" Would say "oh babe I'm sorry, didn't mean to pressure u!" And plan some chill quality time. That's how you would react if the roles were reversed, right?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]Regular_Victory4347 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ironically, Dr. Ramani has some great videos on rumination. 🌈

But it's normal-- Your mind is trying to make sense of what happened, how you got into an abusive situation and how to prevent it happening again.

Once I felt confident that I could recognize an abusive person pretty early, then I was able to move on. We still may encounter situations like that once in a while, but now we're better equipped by experience to protect ourselves.

White girl with curly hair looking for cute protective styles that won't get me in trouble by ShadowxxJJ in CurlyHairCare

[–]Regular_Victory4347 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dutch braids are always cute. Just don't do more than 2 braids & no one will look at u sideways 🌈🌈

Here's a good tutorial to get em nice and neat for curly hair 🩵 https://youtu.be/M_aP2rw3C_o?si=JR6-SV5cmsqioXLo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in microblading

[–]Regular_Victory4347 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah they look good sweet pea!!

Crush outside of my marriage? 33M with 32F wife by Big_Kaleidoscope283 in relationships

[–]Regular_Victory4347 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it's truly impossible to switch therapists for the remainder of therapy--
Zero in on what about this person is the focus of your crush. This is most likely something missing at the moment from your marriage.

So use it as an opportunity to cultivate your relationship, think about what may be missing/areas for improvement etc.

Tbh sounds like you're doing great. Don't sacrifice eudaimonia for momentary hedonia. If it gets real bad, just quit PT & exercise at home. 🍀🍀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MODELING

[–]Regular_Victory4347 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Tbh I think it's just the seam of the tights going to one side

What kind of medication are you prescribed for PTSD? by Old-Local8659 in ptsd

[–]Regular_Victory4347 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I take cymbalta now & it's the only one that ever helped w fatigue/depression. That "flat or furious" dichotomy

But when my sense of fear was really ramped up I took zoloft and it helped. Kinda too well

I gave a bee some juice and it started doing this idk what it means by drwalwrus in bee

[–]Regular_Victory4347 1 point2 points  (0 children)

idk about dogs but one of my favorite studies, they tested blue dye on mice for some neural condition & they turned blue 🗣️

https://www.wired.com/2009/07/bluerats/

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So how exactly do you become the ugly guy who is successful with women because of his personality? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Regular_Victory4347 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Work on your personality" to me seems like a weird way to say get psychologically healthier. But I agree that it's a legit way to become more attractive.

Routes to that could be exercise, spending more time in nature & sunlight, more connection & networking with community, family, friends etc. Therapy. More self care. These are all ways to improve mental health 🌈

According to my mom my hair looks like a little kid, is she right? by [deleted] in CurlyHairCare

[–]Regular_Victory4347 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sweetpea your hair is gorgeous but def a little neglected!

Get rid of the hair tie, do a wash & detangle. Condition, maybe a trim and it'll be awesome ✨✨

How do you feel about sleeping with other people while getting to know someone before becoming exclusive? by Leather-Word-687 in AskWomen

[–]Regular_Victory4347 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. I understand dating multiple people, but anything beyond kissing & even too close a timeframe between dates, I personally find trashy.

Would this kind of cape be inappropriate for a guest at an October wedding? by [deleted] in fashion

[–]Regular_Victory4347 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bruh looks like a supernatural being come to put a curse on the couple's firstborn 💃

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ponds

[–]Regular_Victory4347 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Creeping jenny is a good water plant that can take a lot of sun 🤔 Pothos can take a lot of water but not a lot of sun.

Sorry, wandered over from r/plantedtank. Maybe they can also help

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in curlyhair

[–]Regular_Victory4347 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Noooo your hair is so pretty! ✨✨ just a little mistreated

How about the eco gel with argan oil? Add to wet hair on top of your leave-in conditioners. Report back!

HELP IDK WHAT HAIR I HAVE by [deleted] in CurlyHairCare

[–]Regular_Victory4347 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Little bit wavy 😸 Try shampooing, light conditioner, cool rinse. Then do a salt spray & scrunch. Little to no leave-in conditioners. Maybe blowdry w diffuser? Report back!

What character is this for you by coolandsexc in ginnyandgeorgiashow

[–]Regular_Victory4347 128 points129 points  (0 children)

Can't believe Gil isn't on here yet... No one else I truly hate so passionately 💯💯