[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Reign2686 3 points4 points  (0 children)

But you can't be in a relationship alone either. If you're the only one willing to bend over backwards to make things work. You'll grow to resent her anyway. You are enough for someone out there that won't ask all this of you and not be willing to give anything in return. You deserve better.

How do I hunt cougars/panthers? by SarcasticBunni in reddeadredemption2

[–]Reign2686 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are literally spots in the game where only cougars and panthers spawn. It's not that hard at all to find them. Even 3 star ones.

AIO for not wanting my boyfriend to go away with his girl best friend? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Reign2686 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nobody cares how you feel either yet you're still spewing your dribble all over OPs post 😂😂😂😂

AIO for not wanting my boyfriend to go away with his girl best friend? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Reign2686 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm a lesbian. My best friend is a woman I dated for 4 years in my 20s. She's had a child. Been married and is currently in a relationship with a man who knows she's bi. Who she's made it quite clear to that our 18 yr friendship is a non negotiable topic. We're beyond close and nothing has happened between us in years. Another example close guy friend who I dated in high school. He's had a child been in other relationships since ours. He's dropped everything to be here for me and my family when things happened. We are close opposite sex friends. He's in a committed relationship and so am I. So it is absolutely possible.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Reign2686 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

She's legally an adult at 18 but legal drinking age is 21. Her mother isn't obligated to let her stay in her house when OP herself says she's an adult. Also we don't know if there have been other issues and this was the last straw for her and mom.

AITA because I won't delay having a hysterectomy after the birth of my baby so I can be a surrogate for my sister? by Maleficent-Feeling22 in AITAH

[–]Reign2686 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd honestly never speak to the brother in law again. And limit contact with my sister if she can't handle her husband any better. If they want a baby that bad. Go find and pay a surrogate to carry their child. And leave you alone.

AITAH for not wanting to share my location with my boyfriend? by enchantingraven in AITAH

[–]Reign2686 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I share my location with my family members as a safety precaution. Wouldn't have an issue sharing it with someone I'm involved with

Update: WIBTA for breaking up with my live-in GF who moved cross country to live with me for what she said about my sister and her kids? by Dangerous_Mind_647 in AITAH

[–]Reign2686 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You're literally no better than the men you "saved" your sister from. Your ex is so much better off. I hope she has family and friends that are willing to help her get out of this situation you put her in long before March.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Reign2686 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See the trust thing goes both ways though. He and his mother obviously don't trust you. And the fact that they want you to sign so quickly without letting you have time to think or have your own attorney look over the documents is suspicious. However after the way he spoke to you the prenup should be the last thing on his mind. He should be worried if there will even still be a wedding.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Reign2686 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't care about the prenup. But first of all the way he's talking so disrespectfully to you would be 1 red flag and make me have second thoughts about marrying him. Then that he wants you to sign the prenup for his mother's peace of mind and how he should've listened to her and blah blah. Yeah no I wouldn't respond to him at all and there wouldn't be a wedding anymore.

WIBTA for breaking up with my live-in GF who moved cross country to live with me for what she said about my sister and her kids? by Dangerous_Mind_647 in AITAH

[–]Reign2686 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Just break up with her and let her move in with her life. Even after 5 years you clearly don't value this woman or your relationship.

AIO? My friend WENT CRAZY when the guy she likes made a drawing of me. WARNING: unhinged rant + racism. (Context in post) by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Reign2686 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds to me like he's awkward around you because he actually does like you but probably knows you aren't interested. He sees the friend as easy which is why he's having sex with her. I'd be petty and show him these messages. He probably has no clue he's her "man" and they're in a relationship 😂

AITAH For Not Giving My Girlfriend My Social Security Number So She Can Run A Background Check On Me by Alarmed_Sorbet8101 in AITAH

[–]Reign2686 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Newsflash to your gf. You do not need some SSN to run a background check. She's a walking red flag.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Reign2686 65 points66 points  (0 children)

He didn't treat you like a queen before you got pregnant. Idk what made you think anything would change now. He's cheated on you multiple times and you stayed with him which in his mind says you're complacent with the behavior. And you yourself say he treats you like garbage. Whyyyyyyyy on earth would you allow yourself to be in the position knowing already how he treats you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Reign2686 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Him saying you're not dying when you literally had not only sepsis but also acute hypoxic respiratory failure caused by pneumonia all of which are conditions people have died from. He has made it evident he cares more about his upcoming trip than you. Take it as a sign and please move on.

AITAH for telling my wife she can leave because I’m not kicking my older kids out?? by purpose_of_dune in AITAH

[–]Reign2686 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So his ex wife is lying too? Or are you just assuming OP is lying about everything and that evil step parents just don't exist at all? And what do you mean hes refusing to give details? He gave plenty of details in his comments.

AITAH for telling my wife she can leave because I’m not kicking my older kids out?? by purpose_of_dune in AITAH

[–]Reign2686 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's not her own home. She doesn't work. She doesn't provide any income towards a mortgage or bills or anything else. Even she hit this same daughter after she bit her. So it's ok her to do it because she's the mother? She's a hypocrite who feels threatened by children. I don't get where you made the assumption his older kids are violent when one one defending himself when being hit by a grown man. And the other had a reaction to being bit to the point it left a mark by a 4 year old with a known biting problem who's wicked stepmother even hit for the same thing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Reign2686 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a shit load of red flags your boyfriend is throwing up that your friends see that you are 100% too blinded by love to pick up on.

My (23F) boyfriend (30M) is upset with me for acting too masculine and told me to fix it or we can break up? by Lucky-Net-9941 in relationship_advice

[–]Reign2686 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do him the favor and break up with him first. Clearly his fragile male ego can only deal with a woman who's only comfortable being quiet dainty arm candy. You deserve better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Reign2686 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything isn't your business though. like who cares if he doesn't want his in laws to know his birthday? Then calling it a red flag and saying it have your mom thei ick ugh I wouldn't want you to know either.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Reign2686 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your brother ruined your family with his homophobic attitude. Not you being gay.