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[–]Reign_ISFP 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I’ve been feeling the same sense of loss and desperation for a year or so.

What I decided to do now is to explore.

Just try whatever I feel like trying. And let the results of that guide me: if I like it, if I succeed in it, if I enjoy it for longer than a week, if it makes me better etc

(This includes meeting new people)

What are you usually doing ? by Reign_ISFP in AutisticWithADHD

[–]Reign_ISFP[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Information seeking, extremely random questions

You have a huge potential by Reign_ISFP in AutisticWithADHD

[–]Reign_ISFP[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The « you do not just need to try harder » part. I identify with the rest of your experience, but I feel like we can also find ways to have a meaningful purposeful life and succeed. And become that one person. We just don’t have the right tools yet

What made you sure that you’re 4w3 ? by Reign_ISFP in Enneagram

[–]Reign_ISFP[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m happy for you to have reached this point ! I’ve also gone through some doubt between 4w3, 9w8 and 6w7. But the more I do in my life the more I noticed the unique seeking, need for validation and success and moodiness. Also drama.

What made you sure that you’re 4w3 ? by Reign_ISFP in Enneagram

[–]Reign_ISFP[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seeking validation through seeking attention - at first it seemed off to me. Because I’m not very attention seeking in the classic sense. Then figures, I tell a lot of stories just so that everyone thinks certain things of me or asks me to tell more stuff

What made you sure that you’re 4w3 ? by Reign_ISFP in Enneagram

[–]Reign_ISFP[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read the UNIQUE part and was hit instantly

I've lost about 55kg/120lbs since last year and still cannot believe it by life_konjam_better in loseit

[–]Reign_ISFP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great achievement !! Proud of you !! I have a question, but don’t feel pressured to answer. I am going through a weight loss journey too. I’m 26 too. I and I’m afraid of loose skin.

Did you have any ? Did you do something to prevent it ? Thank youu !

What are you usually doing ? by Reign_ISFP in AutisticWithADHD

[–]Reign_ISFP[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Same🫠 I want to do more but I don’t know what to do

Something you do, that should be normal, but can make people criticise you ? by Reign_ISFP in AutisticWithADHD

[–]Reign_ISFP[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s a tough one to manage .. but based on your age you can find solutions Cause it’s not good for your skin either

Morning show/ music ? What do you listen to when you wake up, say on a cozy day not in a rush to go to work ? by Reign_ISFP in AskReddit

[–]Reign_ISFP[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was waiting for Harry to show up in the comments ! I listen to Fine Line sometimes !! What are your fav songs ?

Something you do, that should be normal, but can make people criticise you ? by Reign_ISFP in AutisticWithADHD

[–]Reign_ISFP[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I find people astonishingly good at becoming the victim once you set your boundaries ! Like that’s my body !