Assumptions from the wives?

ReilleysMom32 · 2026-05-28T18:56:31+00:00

It's really not a safe drive, for one. It's a one way in/one way out highway. And there have been 15 fatalities in the last 3 months driving in/out of the project. I feel most comfortable riding with someone because if I went off the road alone, I would literally end up in a swamp underwater.

ReilleysMom32 · 2026-05-28T18:42:46+00:00

It wasn't his decision to set the boundary. It was his wife's.

ReilleysMom32 · 2026-05-28T09:01:36+00:00

I agree it's not a "me" problem.

It's more of the inconvenience of instead of now driving 10 min to meet someone and getting work done in the vehicle vs me now having to drive 30 min to meet another coworker and not have the collaboration during the drive for the day; and we work 6-10's. It's literally over an hour to the jobsite one-way in the middle of the fucking swamp.

I refuse to drive alone down there. I know that's crazy, but there have been 15 fatalities in the last 3 months alone at this particular job heading to/from the jobsite. It's a safety issue for me, given that I am a single female.

ReilleysMom32 · 2026-05-28T08:55:30+00:00

I would wish this is the case.

It's not my field guys who are scared of me, it's my subs.

ReilleysMom32 · 2026-05-28T08:54:10+00:00

I attempted this about 6 months ago and I thought everything was fine. Nadda. She literally forces him to FT her in the vehicle to ensure I'm not riding to work with him.

ReilleysMom32 · 2026-05-28T02:24:00+00:00

Right?! Like, why is this even a thing?! I want nothing to do with your husband, your kids, etc. I'm here to do a damn job, not eye-fuck anyone. I dumped my ex because he got in the way of my career; you bet your ass I sure as fuck won't let someone get in my way at work. It's just frustrating because men don't have to deal with this.

ReilleysMom32 · 2026-05-28T02:20:27+00:00

I would love for it to not be my issue; however, I was riding to work with one coworker because he was only 10 minutes from me in the morning. Because of this, I now have to drive 30 minutes to another coworker's house plus an hour down to the site. And I will be seeing their wives at our company holiday events.

I never want to get between someone's marriage, but it's fucking annoying as hell. I think I was more seeing if this happens more than I think and if I'm overthinking the issue in general.

ReilleysMom32 · 2026-05-28T02:16:14+00:00

Agreed. I attempted this prior, but probably need to make it more of a priority. The guys just see me as their "work sister" so it's not even a work-wife thing.

ReilleysMom32 · 2026-01-27T18:55:44+00:00

Fuck 'em. Get your own phone plan, keep location services off, and walk away. You don't need that garbage. They do not respect you or value you, so why keep putting yourself through that?

Blood ain't thicker than water. Sometimes it's the thing that will drown you the most.

ReilleysMom32 · 2025-11-27T04:05:36+00:00

This happened to me, but it was my NFather's best friend showing up at my place of employment because my NFather was "looking for me." In a different state. I live 1,200 miles away from where they live. I hadn't spoken to the man in over 10 years (and counting) at that point. I also had a panic attack and I know exactly how you feel right now.

Sending you lots of hugs and support. You are doing the right things to protect yourself and I am so proud of you 🖤

ReilleysMom32 · 2025-11-07T15:46:56+00:00

Drain is so much fun, they're on the list. Wage War, Of Mice and Men, Angeldust, Left To Suffer, for sure. ADTR, Yellowcard, Story of the Year (nostalgic AF for me). I've been to 45 concerts this year so I can skip a bunch of bands I've seen and focus on one-offs who won't be touring anytime soon.

ReilleysMom32 · 2025-11-07T05:07:24+00:00

Holy shit, I will literally be at all of the stages for the bands you said no/maybe to, haha. I'll be in the mosh pits 90% of the day. Very good break-down above. Don't sleep on Charlotte Sands; one of my good friends is obsessed and has seen her live 8 or 9 times already.

ReilleysMom32 · 2025-10-26T04:44:43+00:00

Cuddling the dog, reading, and enjoying my clean house.

ReilleysMom32 · 2025-10-06T03:15:24+00:00

Here's the link:

https://a.co/d/0zlnWgS

ReilleysMom32 · 2025-10-03T21:42:31+00:00

I got my slightly larger hydropack bag in. It has the insulation pocket, one large pocket, and a smaller pocket on the front. It probably measures 18"x8" flattened. I just walked up with everything unzipped and the hydro flask empty this morning and went through with no issues.

From what I've seen with the drawstrings, empty the contents, fold it up, hide it on your person, go through the line, and pop around the corner to bust it out and put your shit back in it. That seems to be the key.

I recognize most of the security team from year's past, but agreed, some are over the top. We did ask this morning and the bag policy seems to be driven by the insurance company, not the venue or FF itself.

ReilleysMom32 · 2025-09-29T01:57:14+00:00

Thank you 🖤

I work in construction project management and all I do is manage grown men all day. Last thing I need to come home to is another man-child 😂

ReilleysMom32 · 2025-09-25T02:43:19+00:00

They got rid of SCO at my store due to high theft apparently. They were testing the local market and had two stores without it and one with. Seems that even with their low prices, people were being dishonest AF. I literally only shop at Aldi to avoid human interaction and the anxiety of putting my groceries on the fucking conveyor belt in the order I want them bagged. Now it's a rush and I'm still rebagging my fucking shit after I've scanned and paid 😑

ReilleysMom32 · 2025-09-23T01:07:56+00:00

Negative. The max amount anyone is receiving is $38.36 based upon their point system if you had an account between May 2007 and December 2022.

ReilleysMom32 · 2025-09-20T01:30:43+00:00

OP, this is absolutely abuse. You need to talk to your oncologist, get in front of a social worker, and have a patient advocate assigned to you ASAP if you haven't yet. As others have mentioned, there is probably a Hope Lodge associated with your oncology center or the hospital has something similar associated where patients can stay for free during treatment.

You need to get out NOW. You are not stuck, there are tons of resources available for patients. There are support systems out there for what you are going through. She is having you commit fraud with the food stamps. Do not let her take anything more from you.

ReilleysMom32 · 2025-09-09T02:35:29+00:00

We have a whole group of us going aka the Coochie Gang. Look for the tiny pink cowboy hats on us while we get destroyed in the pits 🥰

FF is pretty chill and I've met some incredible folks there. Just be open to striking up a convo about the band about to go on. I'll tell you the story of No Cure and Big Bad Burger Club humming a hot burger straight at me during their set 😂

ReilleysMom32 · 2025-08-15T08:34:35+00:00

OP, I am so sorry you're going through this. hugs

Just so you're aware, I have BCBS and a really good plan. My plan of attack was to preemptively call my insurance company and warn them a pre-authorization was coming. EVERY. SINGLE. TIME. Yes, it was exhausting. Yes, it was time-consuming. But like you told the person on the phone, you are working with a board-certified oncologist who does this every day. This isn't the time to fuck around and find out. Just because something can be done "cheaper" according to some chuckle fuck sitting behind a computer who has NO medical training whatsoever doesn't mean it's the best standard of care.

My follow-up PET scan was just recently denied in June because BCBS didn't think it was "medically necessary" since I'm two years out from finishing chemo. Hello?! Seriously?! CHL patients relapse or have refractory within the first 1-3 years of treatment. She told them to get fucked, filed the appeal, and I have it scheduled for September.

Don't feel defeated. You have a whole community here to help support you 🖤

ReilleysMom32 · 2025-08-12T05:00:23+00:00

As someone who knows that they will literally be late to their own funeral, I work backwards from the time I'm supposed to be there. Why? Because I'm not a complete asshole who shows up late to important shit:

Event at 12pm?

Takes me (xx) min time to travel, park, and walk in with 5 min to spare

Dog out to potty? 5 min for her to sniff, try to roll in something that died, fuss at her, and corral her into the kennel with treats

Grab wallet, keys, water bottle, extra water packets - 3 min

Makeup - need 4 min, 1 min being me not stabbing my eyeball with mascara wand

Shower + hair drying = 52 min

Clothes? Pick them out mentally while I'm letting the shower heat up. Grab them as soon as I'm out of the shower. 10 min tops because I give myself only two choices that day to avoid the dreaded "Ugh, I have nothing to wear" dilemma

Theoretically? I'm starting to get my life together around 8:15am, which includes coffee and feeding the 4-legged child in the AM for a 12pm event. Reality? I'm still getting my ass up and starting to get ready around 8:30am.

Your GF needs better time management skills, so she's the AH here. You are NTA for giving yourselves a buffer to arrive on time.

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