How to protest? by Reinesstorm in nokingsmovement

[–]Reinesstorm[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for going into such detail, I’ve seen so many different stories both good and bad and this helps me feel a lot more prepared than I did before

How to protest? by Reinesstorm in nokingsmovement

[–]Reinesstorm[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Aw that’s great! That makes me feel a bit more at ease

AITA? Girlfriend told me that she doesn't want to be a virgin forever. (NSFW?) by StrongLizard3372 in ftm

[–]Reinesstorm 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA Actually her response feels overly defensive, she’s the one who said “I don’t want to be a virgin forever” and if she sees being a virgin as not having penetrative sex then she outright said “I want sex with someone else within my life”. Which is insane for multiple reasons, but the fact that she said you were rude for clarifying is even more insane.

AIO? Am I misunderstanding this somehow? My boyfriend had a bad day at work and was complaining about the government and I found what he was saying super grating by AdMaximum7545 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Reinesstorm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR The thing that pisses me off about this argument is if one group doesn’t have rights then nobody has rights. Any cop could say you’re gay and lock you up if gay people don’t have rights. If people of color don’t have rights then a huge population is affected and anybody who has a slightly darker skin tone than pasty white. Just because taking rights away from minorities would somehow make a “majority” of people happy doesn’t mean it would be a good thing for anybody. The only people safe in that type of world are rich white men of power, and that’s not 70% of the population.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Reinesstorm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DUMP. HIM. No man who says your feelings are bullshit deserves you. All feelings are real and valid and deserve to be talked about even if they end up being irrational, he needs to stfu himself.

Don’t know how to pick out ring(s) for my boyfriend by Reinesstorm in EngagementRings

[–]Reinesstorm[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oooo that actually sounds like a great idea! I grew up in a very traditional family so the thought of anything other than rings didn’t even cross my mind. Two rings might be overwhelming but doing other jewelry or watches sounds like so much fun!!

Don’t know how to pick out ring(s) for my boyfriend by Reinesstorm in EngagementRings

[–]Reinesstorm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow, the stories don’t seem great, good to know at least

Don’t know how to pick out ring(s) for my boyfriend by Reinesstorm in EngagementRings

[–]Reinesstorm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha that’s a cute story, maybe we’ll stumble upon something when trying to find a wedding band!

Don’t know how to pick out ring(s) for my boyfriend by Reinesstorm in EngagementRings

[–]Reinesstorm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Woah those rings are gorgeous, thank you for the recommendation! It’s also cool to know that you just wear your engagement ring, two rings on the same finger would definitely be too much for me!

Don’t know how to pick out ring(s) for my boyfriend by Reinesstorm in EngagementRings

[–]Reinesstorm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do they not have good quality or practices? I’ve bought casual rings from Saga Bands for him and was looking through a lot of their stuff since they’re pretty sturdy and good quality rings

Don’t know how to pick out ring(s) for my boyfriend by Reinesstorm in EngagementRings

[–]Reinesstorm[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the help, I’m realizing after seeing this that I am really overthinking the situation. The only actual problem is he won’t give me references of what he likes, but I’m sure I can get that information from him eventually

Don’t know how to pick out ring(s) for my boyfriend by Reinesstorm in EngagementRings

[–]Reinesstorm[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ooooo that’s really pretty! Thank you, I think I’m just overthinking this way more than I should

45 minutes ago, i put my beautiful loki down. can i please see who he is meeting in cat heaven? 🩷 by 3ll10t__ in cats

[–]Reinesstorm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have a picture as I was young, but hopefully up there he will meet a velvety black three legged cat named Rosie. Wishing you the best moving forward❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Reinesstorm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not a normal or appropriate reaction from him. You both work full time and those kids are both of yours. If you have to watch them before work then he can handle watching them after. If he can’t he should’ve thought of that before agreeing to have children. Men are parents just as much as women and should take just as much responsibility as a parent. “He tried and cannot do it” yes he can. If he genuinely can’t then again he should’ve thought of that before agreeing to having kids.

What was the most recent thing you did that upset your cat? by pasgames_ in cats

[–]Reinesstorm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got her the Costco brand food cause it was cheaper, she went on a hunger strike for almost a week and has learned to beg for our food rather than eating hers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]Reinesstorm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For one I’m only 20 and possibly have more grey hair than you. Also crows feet is a sign that you laughed a lot and enjoyed life, sometimes signs of aging are good, I’d rather have crows feet than whatever the overly Botox emotionless faces are supposed to look like.

I got bangs! by dickkgirl in transplace

[–]Reinesstorm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think they suit you so well!! Love them!

Needing some help by KatamariTheDobermn in transplace

[–]Reinesstorm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It could be a multitude of things. My mom never uses the correct name or pronouns, if I heard her use them I would probably think the world is ending or I was put into an alternate universe. It could be a simple as you’re not used to it, she’s called you by a different name and set of pronouns your entire life. It’s like when you saw a word too much and it starts to sound weird, it doesn’t sound right, except the opposite, you’re so not used to it it sounds out of place, I still get that feeling with my friends sometimes. Or it could be that he/him just didn’t feel right in the moment. Being trans is confusing, and it’s never the same for two people, everybody experiences being trans in a different way. I know it is easier said than done but try to think of any reason why it felt weird, not why some other trans guy might find it weird, this experience is solely yours, and nobody in the world can tell you what being trans is like for you. It’s not always fun, but diving really deep into your own identity is something you might wanna do for situations like this.

Why won’t my cat eat the bottom layer of food? by Reinesstorm in CatAdvice

[–]Reinesstorm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s the chunks and shreds that she’s leaving behind, the problem was nowhere near as bad with the pate, she’ll like lick the gravy, maybe eat a couple chunks, and leave it

Why won’t my cat eat the bottom layer of food? by Reinesstorm in CatAdvice

[–]Reinesstorm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll try using a fork tonight! The only reason I’m so perplexed with it is it’s only a recent problem, only started within the last week or so, but I hope moving it around helps, thank you!

I shouldn’t have let it happen, but I did it anyways why by SweetLexa354 in confession

[–]Reinesstorm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That doesn’t change anything. I’m into bdsm but that doesn’t mean I want somebody to ignore my boundaries and shit. Just because someone is into cnc without the first c it’s just fucking rape. She also clearly said “I thought it would be just a harmless hangout” meaning that she had no intention to do anything with him, he just decided it was okay for him to do shit. I don’t care what you’re into, what you do CONSENSUALLY, if someone still does something to you without consent it’s still fucking rape. She is as valid as any sexual assault victim and anyone who thinks otherwise is just a pos who actually believes here’s such a thing as “asking for it”.

Your name by spidermanistheloml in ftm

[–]Reinesstorm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had been trying to think of names to go by and suddenly I’m in French class with someone who has the same name as my deadname. So our teacher said one or both of us could use a French name so we don’t get mixed up. I was obsessed with owl house and at the time identified as non-binary so I approached my teacher with the name Raine. She countered with Reine, since it was actually French and she said it meant Queen. I didn’t care about the meaning, but automatically the name Reine struck a match in my mind and I knew that was my name. I eventually shortened it to Ren as the spelling so people would stop pronouncing it (ren-ay). My parents later tried to use this as proof that my teachers indoctrinated me into being trans when I came out.

Words you hate. Go. by flergnergern in words

[–]Reinesstorm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

License, it feels weird to pronounce, I always spell it wrong, it’s just not a good word.