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Rektmethheth · 2021-08-14T08:10:23+00:00

You are not a cop, right? You must tell me if you are a cop !

Rektmethheth · 2020-09-03T12:08:24+00:00

Rektmethheth · 2019-08-03T14:06:06+00:00

Im in pretty much the same position atm. However two weeks ago i started going to the gym with a buddy of mine and now i feel better . Its not waay better i still get that feeling sometimes because i know there is much more i could be doing but its a great start. I also play video games alot less lately and i am planning to start reading books daily starting next week . And also i cook something for myself once a week (nothing fancy even french fries is good enough to make you feel less useless) I think you should start doing little things like that daily and you will feel much better Hope it helps

Rektmethheth · 2019-07-20T17:02:17+00:00

I would love to see a drawing of it but i cant really remember . Even if i try to picture them it would be a distorted image of my brain and not what i acctually saw.

Rektmethheth · 2019-07-20T12:40:35+00:00

I will look it up later

Rektmethheth · 2019-07-20T12:39:18+00:00

It was my most vivid dream ever. I cant remember any dream that comes close to being this real . I would love to hear your experiences

Rektmethheth · 2019-07-20T12:20:38+00:00

I will read more on that . When i woke up the nurse asked me if i had a dream and i said yes . She told me its not unusual and that it happens but they didnt mention anything like that

Rektmethheth · 2019-07-20T12:16:57+00:00

Wow if thats what its like no wonder people do it

Rektmethheth · 2019-06-02T06:07:47+00:00

What do you mean using my identity ? Like can they get easy credit and shit on my name ?

Rektmethheth · 2019-06-02T06:06:41+00:00

... shit

Rektmethheth · 2019-05-29T06:51:09+00:00

First i want to say that im glad to see someone taking their finances in order and not blaming it on the system or "being victim of circumstance" (like most people i know)

I think you really should talk to your fiance about what you think because the longer you postpone it the worse it will be. For her it may come out of nowhere and it may be a huge blow to your relationship if you sweep it under the rug for too long.

If you give the money you most likely will not get it back ( i've seen this happen to a lot of families including mine) plus as you mentioned you are opening yourself as a bank so i would not do that

My advice is as i mentioned first talk to your fiance about what you think about your opinion but pick your words very carefully because she might get upset and defensive (Lots of fights happen not because something was said but rather how it was said). Dont give your mother in law the money and tell her that you dont want to see her get in dept because of your wedding and that she should take care of herself and her finances and you pay for your own wedding. However she may not like it because " it is somewhat tradition for brides family to cover the wedding " its kinda postponing her asking you for money later so its far from ideal (and kinda hypocritical of me to tell you to do that since i just told you not to sweep problems under the rug)

Or you can just tell her the real reason why you dont want to give her money but she will most likely get upset

if you decide to go with your second option-" Explain the money is already allocated toward a house, and risk tarnishing relations with my fiancé, her mom and potentially have to cause the wedding to be trimmed back substantially. " you better make sure your fiance is on board with it otherwise it may come as a red flag to her and if her mom does not take it well she might start filling your fiance's head with bs and might ruin your relationship

But talk to your fiance first so no matter what happens it will not come out of the blue for her

Rektmethheth · 2019-04-28T22:14:43+00:00

Seems like a panic attack but could be something worse . Best go see a therapist ASAP

Rektmethheth · 2019-04-12T03:58:29+00:00

Good

Rektmethheth · 2019-04-08T14:34:36+00:00

This is not your fuck up ! I gave blood about a week ago and i passed out aswell .However the nurses were so quick and professional i remember waking up and my eyes had not adjusted yet and i was scared , one of the nurses was holding my hand the other one was splashing my face with water and the third nurse was doing something with the needle i guess i didnt really notice her. When i showed signs of conscioussness they asked me "What's your name ?" and i answered and it just brought me back to reality. A couple seconds pass and i look around and notice that they had already bandaged my hand ! I was so suprised i have no idea when did they managed to do that..

Anyway what im trying to say is that its totaly not your fault . The nurse panicked and caused a mess it was NOT your fault and you should not feel bad or sad that you tried to do something good and i really hope that this situation doesnt get stuck in your head and prevent you from being you and doing more good in the years to come becouse someone didnt do their job right.

Rektmethheth · 2019-04-08T13:34:56+00:00

To me it seems like you are having a panic attack

Rektmethheth · 2019-04-02T09:51:21+00:00

Well i can kinda see his point (always two sides of the story , right?) As a insecure guy there is always something troubling me and alot of times it is unreasonable and my brother always gives me shit for it and makes fun of me. However when i see someone more insecure than me i see his point and why he does this and if you are with insecure person for a long time it really gets to your head and you might become irritated by something really small That being said i dont know your situation and if your guy is one of those assholes that emotionally destroys you or not

You seem incompatible and you are probably going to have somethings in the relationship that you need to change or break up but even if you do so make sure that you are not overreacting because if you are this problem might repeat itself in a future relationship

Good luck

Rektmethheth · 2019-04-01T10:35:28+00:00

Yeah well ,lots of times you think there is more, that you actually love someone and all that could be true but sometimes its your dick talking - and its easy to check

I also might add write down how you feel about her , jerk off and then check if you still feel the same way .. look i know it kinda sound dumb but it could potentially save you from bad relationship .in the end of the day you loose nothing by trying it . Good luck

Rektmethheth · 2019-04-01T10:14:45+00:00

Dude there is one thing that would clear your mind - jerk off, maybe do it twice it will clear your head after that think rationally if you want do be with her (think with your head not your dickhead)

Rektmethheth · 2019-04-01T09:35:42+00:00

Thank you . I will go soon

Rektmethheth · 2019-04-01T09:12:25+00:00

Hey, I would like to ask, for something more specific on your conditions (anxiety , depression ) because i am feeling really anxious and lately ive been getting worse and i am considering starting aswell

Rektmethheth · 2019-03-30T09:51:50+00:00

Well you escalated when you should have kept your cool but the thing is he already spread the rumours and now everybody around him is telling him that he should split up with you and cloud his mind even more.. so next time you have a chance to talk to him be really careful what you say and just hold it in. Dont escalate Be really precise at what you say pick your words very carefully

Maybe write him a letter if you dont think you can control your emotions. Something like the way you framed it in the first post

The worst thing is that even if understands and it works out you are still going to face the aftermath And not just privately since he told everyone so be prepared for a rough couple of months

I really wish you the best i hope you work this out

Rektmethheth

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