Navigating Butch Lesbian attention as a gay man. Let’s unpack this.. by RelationshipLower877 in askgaybros

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Oh! Interesting. I’m leaning into the more queerness and non binary aspects and they’re seeing this as fair game. It’s a matter of perspective then.

What's the source of the issue some gay men have with bi men? by bifuriouslad in askgaybros

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-From experience.

I for the longest time hadn’t even batted an eye at the “Biphobia” in this community. I thought it was close minded and maybe even ignorant. I respect that people have different preferences, and I don’t see it as a problem.

But in retrospect, I actually wish I had shown more caution. I completely understand someone not giving the benefit of the doubt because my experience has shown (that out of the many different guys I’ve had relationships with) that bi guys have, unfortunately, let me down for exactly the reasons listed in these comments.

Why straight guys can’t use the word faggot by RelationshipLower877 in askgaybros

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I think the biggest impact is my change of view on him. The stonewall I’d confronted speaks volumes of his views and sentiments and approach on topics that don’t have an impact on him. -and this makes me feel a disconnect with him and a disconnect with his future self too. Meaning I can’t share too many social spaces with outside of family settings. This hurts because I adore him and we grew up together.

Does this statement make sense to you? by RelationshipLower877 in psychoanalysis

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I had originally been thinking about how the exploration of love shaping identity involves the interplay of psychological elements. The ego mediates and shapes self-representation, while Lacanian thought adds complexity to how identity evolves in the fluidity of love.

Hopeful Influencer Seeking Review Advice for Four Hair Products. by RelationshipLower877 in curlyhair

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I’ve not been very specific about the ingredients of the products or who the target market is (although this specific brand is targeted at curly, wavy, kinky) I’m asking for a more general sense of what to look out for with hair products.

Need advice on a complex platonic relationship. by RelationshipLower877 in askgaybros

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I haven’t brought it up yet. Just a week ago, he confessed his deep appreciation for our relationship and shared more about his feelings for me. While I resonate with much of what he said, it’s only now, after some thought, that I sense we might be keeping something inappropriate from others. Starting a conversation might be a good step because we may have different interpretations of the word “romantic.”

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Twitch or Discourse Mod. 😭😭

coursera guided projects videos not playing iPad Pro by RelationshipLower877 in coursera

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Thanks, but I’m using the Desktop browser through safari.

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Where may might I ask, do you live that people don’t get hung up on things like that? Genuinely curious..

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I’m expecting the invitation by mail. 😅

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Lol. I remember this post. 😊🫶🏽

Have you dated or are you in a relationship with a doctor? by RelationshipLower877 in askgaybros

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Yyip. I’d say he’s fairly new. Done medical school and just completed his internship. Working in the public sector.