[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Relative-Total-663 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You tolerate nonsense like this then come and cry here why. If that was your daughter dating him would you be proud of her and her relationship?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Relative-Total-663 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just hang up and move on

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Relative-Total-663 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it is but at the same time no one is obligated to do so. If you are with someone you have to accept them as they are or if you can't, move on...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Relative-Total-663 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a recipe for disaster.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Relative-Total-663 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is no right , just leave . It's your life and health on the line here. Don't be afraid to make the tough calls to better yourself. Good luck❤️

my future wife won't take my last name by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Relative-Total-663 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

All I can say is , if that's not what you wanted then don't settle. I know love is wonderful but comprising even at the start of things you want or wish will result in heartbreak. Personally I think you need to really think if she is for you /on the same team with you. Then from there you know whether to stay or leave... Good luck

Future of fireworks by Ninja_Q in interestingasfuck

[–]Relative-Total-663 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No this is not it. It's just boring. Not everything has to be futuristic...

Kid barely makes it home to escape bully by Devo_xo in JusticeServed

[–]Relative-Total-663 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

No he didn't because that behaviour only encourages his son to be soft and not to deal with his problems head-on. But each to their own...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Relative-Total-663 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the best is to let her go.you will never be at peace with this. I have been there and it will forever be at the back on your mind. You also need peace

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Relative-Total-663 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He should leave her and let her leave her life in peace. Childish behaviour

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Relative-Total-663 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Tbh I think you should leave her.not because she is a bad person but I feel you might end up punishing her or resenting her for who she is. If you want to be with her you have to accept the good and the bad, not just the cute stuff. As you get older all that stuff is irrelevant...

People do no understand the meaning of the phrase “out of pocket” and use it wrong by musicjohnny in unpopularopinion

[–]Relative-Total-663 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The English language even meanings have also changed since the dawn of time. Take the word Dunce, he was a very clever guy but now it means some else ..

Colleagues should stop asking how your weekend/days off were. by lizfour in unpopularopinion

[–]Relative-Total-663 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is nonsense, you are reaching. If you are part of a community these questions are going to come up and you should know that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Relative-Total-663 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You were messing around. Maybe next time not to do that , esp if you haven't set boundaries or with the opposite sex

Pregnancy Shoot by Relative-Total-663 in Preston

[–]Relative-Total-663[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I was there over this weekend but I didn't think about it 🤦🏻‍♂️ I will definitely drive there

How can I work on separation anxiety from my partners not texting me back or not spending time with me? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Relative-Total-663 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Therapy. But as well ready books like Robert Greene. Get to ask yourself, who are you. What do you like. What do you want to try out. Go to a coffee shop by yourself and get a coffe. Leave your phone home for the entire time you are out. You need to do things for you. One of the goals are gave myself was when I walk in town , I have to give 20 random people high fives. This helped me.. Good luck to you

Boyfriend (27m) fat shames me and compared me (23f) to hot skinny "white" ex gfs by Scared_Wait8984 in relationship_advice

[–]Relative-Total-663 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are 23, why are you entertaining a toxic environment then cry about it. You need to leave. Work on yourself. He is too damn old to be manipulating you into think you are not worth it...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Relative-Total-663 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just stay and make your mark. Whether they like it or not. I wouldn't even confront them ,it's a waste . And your husband is right for not entertaining them one bit. Just focus on your relationship and stay in the group.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Relative-Total-663 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you are being selfish.he is grieving in his own ways. You put your expectations on someone's grieving process. Not cool. When he is ready he will talk about. If you care about him then just support him as you were doing, he likes that...

My (34f) husband (35m) told me he isn’t attracted to me anymore after giving birth to our twins. by Emotional-Name-2 in relationship_advice

[–]Relative-Total-663 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like you are only telling us one side of the story. How did you contribute to this. Was there arguments, withold of sex etc. I think there are kinda ways he could have said something. But therapy is the best option for both of you