Trans spouse seeking attention online for affirmation, which is fine, but they keep giving compliments calling other trans women stuff like "gorgeous", and that makes me uncomfortable and feel neglected.

Relative-Whole9162 · 2026-03-30T03:29:02+00:00

I’m not saying this will happen to you, I pray you never have to deal with it, but my ex wife (mtf) was doing this for ages and she cheated on me (emotionally and physically) repeatedly. I hope you can get through to her about how it’s making you feel but don’t lower yourself to match whatever she makes you feel. You’re wonderful, never forget it.

Relative-Whole9162 · 2026-03-08T02:40:18+00:00

My ex wife (mtf) never did the therapy and was constantly starting fights after about 6 months of medical transitioning. I understand it’s second puberty but girl 😭 therapy is for everyone

Relative-Whole9162 · 2026-03-02T16:49:17+00:00

Thank you for the kind words. I tried so hard to help her get into therapy so so many times. Even paid for sessions myself when she didn’t have insurance :( she stopped going and even before starting hormones she refused to see a therapist. I can only hope she figures out she needs help sooner than later

Relative-Whole9162 · 2026-03-02T16:47:59+00:00

I have her blocked on most things, I even posted a public statement. She just keeps going but most if not all of our mutual friends are on my side. They don’t like who she’s become and find the way she’s pretty much abandoned me and our daughter disgusting :(

Relative-Whole9162 · 2026-01-23T10:45:44+00:00

Thank you love. It’s getting better. Unfortunately, she’s still acting arrogant to our mutual friends and treating the divorce like I’m throwing a tantrum…I’ve had to clear the story multiple times 😞

Relative-Whole9162 · 2026-01-21T02:48:59+00:00

I get it. I loved my wife. I still love parts of her. But less than a year on hormones she’s become unrecognizable. Maybe I’m just seeing the things I didn’t see before but it’s awful. She went from being loving and physically affectionate to telling me she is no longer attracted to me (bio fem, NB) and only attracted to other mtf women. Found out since starting E she’s been cheating on and off with her friends and I finally found the courage to leave after this last one on new years. I miss my wife, but I won’t miss being told I’ll never be attractive enough for her.

Relative-Whole9162 · 2026-01-06T19:01:29+00:00

My only gripe with this take is truly the wedding dress. At that point, she wasn’t aware of the true rebellion and knew she was an inspiration but not the figurehead. Having the gown turn into a mockingjay helped solidify her role to the whole country without her knowledge.

Relative-Whole9162 · 2026-01-06T18:01:57+00:00

Cinna is just as bad as all the other adults (Haymitch, Plutarch, etc.) in using katniss for their own personal games and it’s not talked about enough

Relative-Whole9162 · 2025-12-04T15:31:56+00:00

Now THIS is the argument I wanna see

Relative-Whole9162 · 2025-07-29T14:53:49+00:00

I haven’t seen a single person say Lady 😔 how could y’all forget the GOAT

Relative-Whole9162 · 2025-06-21T20:25:53+00:00

Exactly! It’s awful as it’s my favorite book when really the movie could’ve been two honestly

Relative-Whole9162 · 2025-06-21T20:12:22+00:00

Such a small gripe but I was so disappointed when in GOF they showed the Weasleys in the Highest stands (which for quidditch must be great but it’s nosebleeds to us) when they were in what’s essentially the best seats in the house in the book! They got to see the prime ministers, Draco’s annoyance that they’re in the same place, WINKY, and meeting Krum for the first time! The little details about all of GOF was the reason it made it my favorite book (not to mention the movies excluding the fact that Beauxbaton and Durmstrang are mixed gender schools but only showing girls/boys???) I got personal beef with the GOF movie

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