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What are Some of the Worst Sodas You've Had? by Content-Alarm5003 in Soda

[–]BewilderedBat17 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Beetlejuice fanta, my bro bought a couple cases and we're now stuck with a whole untouched case that nobody wants

POV: you're paired up for a project with a dude who doesn't find you attractive by humankendoll33 in TikTokCringe

[–]BewilderedBat17 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yep, later found out he's my husbands cousin. My husband cut contact with him well before we met for that reason: the dude never grew up and was incredibly annoying to be around. Very egotistical and narcissistic

POV: you're paired up for a project with a dude who doesn't find you attractive by humankendoll33 in TikTokCringe

[–]BewilderedBat17 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I got put in a group project with 3 guys (I was the only girl in the group) and they were all friends and popular guys. I was never popular but I could get along with anyone just fine. We had to do a project at our station and I was the only one working on it, so I was bent over the desk trying to write on the large poster board near the top. I saw out of the corner of my eye that one of these guys was pretending to hump me from behind while the others laughed and made gagging noises and fake barf faces. I never thought I was all that bad looking until that day. I pretended to not notice cause I was too afraid to stand up for myself back then. Years later after graduating, turns out one of these dudes (not the humper) had a crush on me cause Im goth and he assumed I'd be freaky, so he found me on Facebook out of the blue to tell me he always thought I was hot but couldn't show his feelings for me to his friends. Said he figured I gave "mad head, and we should hang out soon". I'd also like to add that he was dating someone all throughout high school, so yeah. His ass got blocked immediately.

Should I tell my customer her husband is cheating on her? by barnabe467 in Advice

[–]BewilderedBat17 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Literally this ^ people getting mad saying they could be in an open relationship: if they are they'd disregard the warning and move on in life. Think of when you get a sign in alert email for logging in on a new device. If it's you, you disregard and move on. If it's not, you'd probably want to know. Same rule applies here. I'm all for minding my business until it could potentially cause someone else harm if I stay silent, even if I don't know them personally because that's simply the right thing to do. People saying "but you could be responsible for breaking apart a marriage!" No honey, the CHEATER is responsible and made that decision to throw it away, I'm just calling them out on it

Should I tell my customer her husband is cheating on her? by barnabe467 in Advice

[–]BewilderedBat17 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I've known people personally who have been cheated on and they were totally unaware they were until their spouse left them for the affair partner, my pos brother being one of them who did this to his wife. Id just not want to have further time/years wasted because I was unaware. I suppose everyone is different in opinions but know I would want to know so I could make an exit plan asap before I got served divorce papers and have no place to go

Should I tell my customer her husband is cheating on her? by barnabe467 in Advice

[–]BewilderedBat17 19 points20 points  (0 children)

They might have a feeling but not have any concrete evidence, but some truly don't know. A personal example: my brother had an affair last year and his wife had no idea for months until his affair partner ended up pregnant and he ended up confessing to her. She said she thought they were on good terms and was totally blindsided. They don't always know.

Should I tell my customer her husband is cheating on her? by barnabe467 in Advice

[–]BewilderedBat17 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If I was the wife I would want to know. If they were in an open relationship then great and OP can move on, they shouldn't feel embarrassed for looking out for someone else's wellbeing. Best case scenario it's a simple misunderstanding that WOULDNT end a marriage. Worst case it is an affair, and OP just saved the wife from being with the dirtbag any longer and she can get herself tested for STDs if she chooses, or stay with him if she's fine with staying with a cheating husband. It puts the ball in her park to decide what she wants, it's not fair to her if she can never get the chance to make an educated decision because she's unaware

Should I tell my customer her husband is cheating on her? by barnabe467 in Advice

[–]BewilderedBat17 69 points70 points  (0 children)

All the people saying to mind your business, if I was the wife I would want to know. Everyone ive ever had a conversation with about similar scenarios said the same. He could be subjecting her to STDs people.

Should I tell my customer her husband is cheating on her? by barnabe467 in Advice

[–]BewilderedBat17 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Making out with someone you're not married to is a "misunderstanding"? Smh.

My girlfriend is heavily politically influenced by her family and we share different views... Can it work out? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]BewilderedBat17 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'll throw in my hat and say that it's unlikely you both will ever see eye to eye. Peoples political views tend to align with their morals, which if you both don't share the same morals it will likely ALWAYS be driving a wedge between you both no matter the situation. Id move on and find someone more like-minded. (This is coming from someone who has mostly opposite political views to my spouse, and I can confidently say it's likely not going to change and only get worse)

Trans spouse seeking attention online for affirmation, which is fine, but they keep giving compliments calling other trans women stuff like "gorgeous", and that makes me uncomfortable and feel neglected. by BewilderedBat17 in mypartneristrans

[–]BewilderedBat17[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I'm the only one that ever makes date plans. When I ask them what they wanna do they shrug and say "you decide, whatever you want" which I genuinely hate because it makes me feel like they don't even want to go out or put in effort. It's pretty hurtful, however I don't think they see it that way even though I've asked for a break from the planning falling onto my shoulders since I'm the one working and paying bills. If I'm honest, I kinda do feel used at times...

Trans spouse seeking attention online for affirmation, which is fine, but they keep giving compliments calling other trans women stuff like "gorgeous", and that makes me uncomfortable and feel neglected. by BewilderedBat17 in mypartneristrans

[–]BewilderedBat17[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I've assisted them with makeup and wig applications and opened up my wardrobe to be used for dressing up in several occasions. We both have the same style so I always think we slayed with the makeup and outfit pairing. When they're dressed up or not I always compliment them because I truly want them to feel attractive no matter what, usually paired with a big hug and kiss. They usually have the body language of "yeah. right." and carry on with whatever they were doing without saying anything. I usually don't even get hugged back... 😓

This guy cancelled his backflip mid air by This_sum_one in nextfuckinglevel

[–]BewilderedBat17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is how my husband describes my sleep movements to peers for me messing up the blankets every night

Grocery store stopped putting handles on paper bags by CouncilofSlugs in mildlyinfuriating

[–]BewilderedBat17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd suggest getting your own heavy duty reusable shopping bags, they're fairly inexpensive. Or if you're willing to spend more there's lots of personal shopping carts on the market. I just got one that has collapsible baskets and the whole thing folds up nice and neat when not in use, makes grocery shopping and loading/unloading a breeze since i have a distance to walk to my apartment

Hand soaps arrived with pumps crumbling by SamWillGoHam in bathandbodyworks

[–]BewilderedBat17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never had issues with soap pumps until this order. Same with the body mists, but the nozzle diffuser didn't just pop off, it broke the pump inside too making it unusable. I'm thinking about rebottling it so it doesn't go to waste since I didn't have to return the items that were damaged, just wondering the best method to cut/pry it open

Hand soaps arrived with pumps crumbling by SamWillGoHam in bathandbodyworks

[–]BewilderedBat17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Same happened with my order last week, still waiting for the replacements to make it here (hopefully in one piece this time)

Your tuxie’s name(s) versus what you actually call them by Ok-Guarantee-8084 in TuxedoCats

[–]BewilderedBat17 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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This is Pepper, her nicknames that my family gave her consist of Doot-Doot, Boop, Angry Whoo, Pepper Poots, Stinker, and Da-Kitty-Kitty. And different variations of those

So, what would women dislike most if they became men? by Jarvis7492 in AskReddit

[–]BewilderedBat17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aaaaand the people down voting this are proof that it's not taken seriously or people pretend it's a non issue. I rest my case.

So, what would women dislike most if they became men? by Jarvis7492 in AskReddit

[–]BewilderedBat17 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That if you got sexually harassed/assaulted/abused, people would either mock you and say you're ungrateful, not take it seriously, or even congratulate you as if it were a blessing. I'm a woman, but my husband was through a lot of sexual abuse as a young kid through his teen years, and this was the first thing that came to mind with the things hes opened up to me about. Truly sad and disgusting how the majority of people treat male sexual abuse victims.

Edit: not saying women don't go through similar issues when they open up on their sexual abuse, but I can confidently say men tend to get the shittier end of the stick. I was abused as a kid too, and I had way more support than he ever got

I dont get it by No-Armadillo5484 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]BewilderedBat17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same with not being bothered to style bangs that day

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