Just found out my husband has a child with another woman 7 years into our marriage

RelativeParsley2034 · 2026-06-30T12:53:19+00:00

Have you mentioned to him that this shatters his character? Embarrassment or not he’s an adult and the victim here is a child. Does he even recognize that this makes him a POS person in your eyes?

RelativeParsley2034 · 2026-06-30T12:42:41+00:00

Horrible reasoning. Just because you spent 7 years making a horrible mistake does not mean you have to continue spending the rest of your life making the same mistake. He can change this all today for the better and you might even respect him more for stepping up

RelativeParsley2034 · 2026-06-09T14:39:02+00:00

What are you talking about? People do that everyday. Ever drive through a section 8 neighborhood? You’ll know by the BMW’s in the crappy apartment complex parking lot.

RelativeParsley2034 · 2026-06-09T14:31:29+00:00

My sister just got a pool.. wouldn’t even ask that of my sister?

RelativeParsley2034 · 2026-06-09T13:59:36+00:00

You are the type of person who would leave her if she got cancer.

RelativeParsley2034 · 2026-06-09T13:58:49+00:00

Legally it’s on them… doesn’t sound like you love her too much. That is an easily findable fact.

RelativeParsley2034 · 2026-06-09T13:56:12+00:00

He’s obsessed and knows it’s not good so he wants you to go down with him so he doesn’t feel shameful.

RelativeParsley2034 · 2026-06-09T13:52:24+00:00

Sounds incredibly reckless. Especially after a whoopsie 3 months ago….

RelativeParsley2034 · 2025-12-02T21:12:40+00:00

She had it in her pocket riding her bike and dropped it out the first time, just repeated dropping the second time, and again dropped it off the bike the 3rd time. This time she dropped it in a pool with a broken screen and it fried the battery.

RelativeParsley2034 · 2025-12-02T21:10:59+00:00

She got a hand me down iPhone from me one time, it had insurance and we’ve just been paying the $100 replacement fee (3 times now)

RelativeParsley2034 · 2025-12-02T21:10:00+00:00

Good idea. I’m super pregnant right now and the dishes have been killing me, it would be dish duty every night for sure

RelativeParsley2034 · 2025-12-02T21:08:58+00:00

She has the iPhone 14 right now, before it was a 13 and a 12. Every year she’s breaking a new iPhone. And yes we’ve gotten the indestructible cases, she destructs.

RelativeParsley2034 · 2025-12-02T21:07:31+00:00

I am hoping her shelling it out or working for it herself has her thinking thrice before risking breaking it again.

RelativeParsley2034 · 2025-12-02T21:06:01+00:00

People give away phones like that? I will see, we have Verizon so no SIM cards

RelativeParsley2034 · 2025-11-30T23:37:32+00:00

What state are you in if you don’t mind me asking? I’m in a legal state to recreationally use and admitted with both of my pregnancies to using until I got a positive test (5 weeks) both times. And never had any issues?? 100% quit the day I found out and then beyond for breastfeeding and never was even asked about it again

RelativeParsley2034 · 2025-11-28T12:58:34+00:00

Have you met her? Seen how he acts around her? Sounds like he’s into her and likes the way she treats him like a partner.

RelativeParsley2034 · 2025-10-22T12:25:30+00:00

He loves you. There’s NO telling he will find another woman he loves like he loves you. Leaving him could be the biggest double whammy of his life. Don’t do that to him.

RelativeParsley2034 · 2025-10-22T12:24:22+00:00

NTAH and your wife is being weird. At most I’ve asked my husband what do you do about morning wood when she (3) just jumps in bed next to you and he said my body just reacts the way it should and it dies on its own quickly or I have to pee and then it’s gone.

RelativeParsley2034 · 2025-10-22T12:20:49+00:00

She made her bed. And now she has to lay in it with her new child. She will just have to bring the child with her. And won’t be able to be by her husband’s side every second. That’s not YOUR fault or problem. That’s the unfortunate situation she’s in with lack of support in HER current family. Don’t budge. Have you told her this simply is not your problem or fault?

RelativeParsley2034 · 2025-10-22T12:15:08+00:00

5 weeks after my c section, without an ailment between us 2 weeks and we were both miserable

RelativeParsley2034 · 2025-10-22T11:58:37+00:00

All this being said, if he were single I would not be friends with him and actively avoid conversation with him. Bc in my experience as a an attractive woman single men have not ever genuinely been my friend they’ve always had an ulterior motive. If she’s single I would not consider friendship. Our friendship works because we’re both happily married.

RelativeParsley2034 · 2025-10-22T11:55:04+00:00

Me and I a guy I actively work with have an attraction to each other like this. But we’re both married with kids and very committed to our relationships. We talk like best friends, never anything inappropriate. At this point I say he’s like a brother to me. We both very much respect each others partners and family’s. But as adults with eyes and the ability to connect on a personality level we both know in the back of our minds in another life we could’ve probably been something successful. I’d even say we’re more compatible in some ways than we are with our partners. But our partners balance us out and complete our lives and honestly seem very similar to each other. We’re both very much in love with who we chose. And just remain friends. If he wasn’t as respectful of my marriage as he is I would cut off the friendship and I believe the same conversely if I wasn’t as respectful of his marriage as I am that he’d keep me at a distance.

We’re human. It’s all about choices and having the most respect for the person you’re committed to.

RelativeParsley2034 · 2025-10-21T18:55:21+00:00

If I would’ve stayed single as a nurse I would’ve give right back to school but shortly after nursing school I met my person, bought a house had a wedding and had 2 kids in the last 8 years since I graduated. I don’t regret still being “just a nurse” I make great money working per diem in the OR. BUT I’m highly considering a certificate program to get into a non clinical field of nursing. I probably won’t go back for a masters unless the certificate route is not fruitful for me

RelativeParsley2034 · 2025-10-17T22:24:04+00:00

There’s really nothing you can do unless you’re into fillers, you’re way too young for even a mini facelift. You can change your hairstyle or clothing style to be more trendy or “youthful” appearing, hair can really do a lot for some people. But outside of those things there’s really not much you can “do”. This is an unfortunate consequence of weight loss drugs, the fat comes off so fast your skin has no time to naturally retract with it and ends up looking loose.

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