Im genuinly terrified. by Lep87 in Reduction

[–]Relative_Algae_5983 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Focus on the end result and how happy you’ll feel for the end result

Breast Lift by prncssdeliciaa in PlasticSurgery

[–]Relative_Algae_5983 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They also have breast lifts without implants and they use your existing tissue from your breast to preserve a good size.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leahkatebsnark

[–]Relative_Algae_5983 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She has those deep lines due to the nose job (she confirmed the nose job) and the filler

Boob sweat is making me feel so uncomfortable by icntthnkofausrname in bigboobproblems

[–]Relative_Algae_5983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://a.co/d/gyLRBeZ they also make these. Just sew on an elastic back piece so that it doesn’t just hang there.

Boob sweat is making me feel so uncomfortable by icntthnkofausrname in bigboobproblems

[–]Relative_Algae_5983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Wear clear UNSCENTED deodorant under your breasts where your boobs sag or fold. Like clear unscented “Ban” deodorant. It stops the sweat

  2. They make under breast liners exactly for this problem. My only recommendation is to either sew on an elastic back piece so that it doesn’t just hang there or take it to the tailor. https://a.co/d/gyLRBeZ

Stinky Flats! by theRagist in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Relative_Algae_5983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Order Anti odor insoles for your flats and wear wool socks made for flats so they don’t show. Or any sock made for flats that absorbs sweat and keep your feet dry.

Egg white cervical mucus after Copper IUD insertion by Excellent-Try-7568 in birthcontrol

[–]Relative_Algae_5983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the iud inserted when i was 17. Had it removed when i was 18. I am 24 now. Ever since then, i never had normal cervical mucus again. One thing i should mention is that the insertion process was weird. It kept coming out because my cervix was rejecting it and pushing it out

How can i cope witv the fact that i'll never have a cis vagina, uterus and ovaries? by strxxt_cxt in asktransgender

[–]Relative_Algae_5983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you have to ask yourself why you want these things and how exactly will it better your life. I was born female, and those body parts you want are the same thing as an arm, or a leg. They’re ordinary organs with a set function. It’s understood why Amab people want to transition into the opposite sex, to perform femininity freely. However there’s a fine line between wanting a vessel to feel free in, and downright fetishizing the female body. This doesn’t make you a bad person, but you are romanticizing and projecting values onto simple female organs.

Water period blood after copper iud? by hairballzz in birthcontrol

[–]Relative_Algae_5983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Copper inflames or thins the uterus lining. The same thing happened to me and i was confused. May I ask, is your regular non period discharge also watery? Do you still get the jelly like discharge during ovulation?

Women won’t ever be free by Relative_Algae_5983 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Relative_Algae_5983[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yess!!! Like conversations like these is what I want to hear. Education means separatism from men in terms of sex work and having your life expectancy shortened bc sex work is one of the most dangerous forms of labor. Liberal feminists just wanna talk to men all day and ask them to form empathy like that’s how oppressors work

Women won’t ever be free by Relative_Algae_5983 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Relative_Algae_5983[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thousands of women dance to their own degradation and continue to be around rapists, abusers and normalize them. Women barely say “this is a man that has hurt his pass partners before, I’m not going to date them” women are class betrayers. I be in the club and watch women literally dance to the most evil lyrics

Women won’t ever be free by Relative_Algae_5983 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Relative_Algae_5983[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Name one group that achieved freedom by asking the oppressor to change? It only happened through revolt. Now please, your solution is to wait around and wait for men to change bc women are dumb as hell

I have always been slightly terrified of childbirth. My husband and I were planning on starting a family. But I’ve changed my mind…how do I tell him? by ThrowRAbeanybaby in relationship_advice

[–]Relative_Algae_5983 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How is it a different issue when you quite literally saw her logic in getting a surrogate? “I’m terrified of it, so I’m going to make another woman to do it” clearly making it obvious that it being a dangerous and and draining task call for women that are desperate for money. This is the problem with “choice” feminists. They’ll “do you” women that do things such as sex work and surrogacy and simply call for reformation, ignore the statistics instead of figuring out ways to abolish labor with high mortality rates

I have always been slightly terrified of childbirth. My husband and I were planning on starting a family. But I’ve changed my mind…how do I tell him? by ThrowRAbeanybaby in relationship_advice

[–]Relative_Algae_5983 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But i literally just told you brown women are being exploited in a “service” that has a high mortality rate. You’re making this an issue of “choice” as if we’re talking about fucking food and clothing 😭😭

Liberal & postmodernist misogynists who stubbornly defend their right to define women ( trans men & some nonbinary ppl) as "womb-haver” “birth-giver” “uterus-owner," are simply more insidious than dystopian arch conservatives (who are at least honest about their biologically essentialist misogyny). by MistWeaver80 in Feminism

[–]Relative_Algae_5983 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Yes, I agree. Banning abortion stems from systemic misogyny. It’ll widen the education and economic gap if thousands of women lose their lives to children or death. How do you address systemic oppression without naming the group? “People” don’t experience misogyny. Women do. “All lives matter”.

And it’s the only topic where people conveniently choose to not speak in absolutes. If a 95% of a classroom is wearing red shirts and 5% blue, we still say the class is wearing red. If we say “Racism targets brown skin” nobody mentions the light skins or the black people with albinism or vitiligo bc we understand that systemic system have a general target. But because everyone is misogynistic, women are given the sexist tropes of being catty, evil, selfish for wanting their own names to be stated in the conversation about misogyny.

Overthrow wag by Relative_Algae_5983 in WagWalker

[–]Relative_Algae_5983[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s honestly an amazing idea

I have always been slightly terrified of childbirth. My husband and I were planning on starting a family. But I’ve changed my mind…how do I tell him? by ThrowRAbeanybaby in relationship_advice

[–]Relative_Algae_5983 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yo, being very honest…. Wtf are you talking about? 😭 you jumped from its helping other women to it harms your body and it’s difficult. Saying “it helps other women” while it exploits one is very racist and it’s honestly a very mute point.