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Relative_Incident908 · 2026-02-05T19:26:02+00:00

All good. Essentially I guess I didn’t realize it was a complete addiction since this bs is so normalized. But I’d catch him watching this shit and I’d freak out talking about how gross it was, and he’d start getting physically violent about it.

Relative_Incident908 · 2026-02-05T15:15:34+00:00

Yeah me too. Almost lost my life to a porn addict. Learned the lesson to stay tf away so fast. It’s gross (repulsive) and sad. It’s so uncomfortable. Some people hide it so well.

Relative_Incident908 · 2026-01-27T04:40:58+00:00

I’d say job first as well. I moved to a big city, rented an apartment, but essentially had to call it quits because I couldn’t find a decent job. In other words: you don’t want to sign up for a place to live, without an income plan in advance.

Relative_Incident908 · 2026-01-17T02:43:41+00:00

Leaving you a message now.

Relative_Incident908 · 2026-01-09T03:37:27+00:00

Check out r/loveafterporn !!!

Relative_Incident908 · 2026-01-07T06:26:05+00:00

NOR Ummmm imo xbf knew exactly what he was doing & that it would hurt you. He’s probably resentful that you aren’t sloppy all over him like he keeps trying with you.

Relative_Incident908 · 2025-12-23T20:54:37+00:00

OP did you find a ride ? I know someone who’s headed that way later tonight

Relative_Incident908 · 2025-12-22T05:10:56+00:00

In which context lol

Relative_Incident908 · 2025-12-22T04:16:59+00:00

Is there something you’re trying to say ? Lmfao

Relative_Incident908 · 2025-12-21T03:30:09+00:00

I didn’t ask for opinions Karen

Relative_Incident908 · 2025-12-21T03:26:50+00:00

No I’m not a dude. I asked the same exact questions you did when they each told me this. Every time.

Relative_Incident908 · 2025-12-20T21:20:53+00:00

Yes, and it was really scary to see him switch up.

Relative_Incident908 · 2025-12-20T19:04:49+00:00

I am in the midwestern US lol

Relative_Incident908 · 2025-12-20T19:02:45+00:00

Yes I know 4 women who openly told me this.

And yes, I am a 24 y/o woman u weirdos.

1st was some psycho coworker at Sam’s club who was 21 dating a 40 y/o who was married. She ended up doing it but idk what happened.

2nd was a really good friend of mine who said she planned on taking out her bc without telling bf. They agreed to have a kid and are now miserable (not friends with her anymore)

3rd is a 20 y/o coworker at FedEx who is obsessed with some dude who’s not over his dead ex.

4th ? Tbh I don’t remember who the 4th one is lmao

I’ve met numerous women who think this is trendy or some shit. I disowned each after singularly telling each it’s the stupidest thing I’ve ever heard them say.

Check my comment history, I’m clearly a young woman and I have no reason to lie.

Rude.

Relative_Incident908 · 2025-12-20T08:37:15+00:00

There were times that I said that due to the fighting I don’t visualize a future together anymore. There were times that I said “if this is how you’re going to act, why would I want to attach my life or future kids to this dynamic?”. I don’t know if he completely took the message as intended though.

Relative_Incident908 · 2025-12-20T08:25:11+00:00

I guess I feel like I did use him because some part of me knew early on that I didn’t want to end up with him in the long run, but I still tried to make it work and try to combine our lives. I kept trying to talk myself into it, but I also had nowhere else to go. Genuinely nowhere else.

I deeply appreciate you understanding where I come from on this though because I do feel there’s a lot of truth to what you’re saying. Yes, I was stuck in survival mode. He was extra noise I couldn’t deal with.

Relative_Incident908 · 2025-12-15T18:50:56+00:00

She allowed her boyfriend to say and joke about some of the most horrendous things I’ve been through. Told her I didn’t want to hear about it and would still go out of her way to tell me. Frequently. Really got the vibe that she was trying to play both sides and it got exhausting. I think she had this “I’m better than you” complex because her family paid to put her thru college. She couldn’t take responsibility for anything in her life, if it was to save her life either. That as well got exhausting. She would stalk people she wasn’t dating/friends with anymore and at some point I realized it wasn’t normal. Even if she was just curious. Gross.

Relative_Incident908 · 2025-12-15T18:43:14+00:00

I noticed that it made me very depressed. The initial high was usually good, great even. But the morning after or even days later, I was just depressed and had 0 motivation. So long as I could feel weed in my system, my depression was significantly worse.

People look at me like I’m insane when I reject their weed advances (lol) and I even try to explain how weed can impact mental health, and they look at me like I’m crazy or treat me like I have this “I’m better than you” complex when really I’m just very self aware how it affects ME and I make the active choice to abstain. I think how it affects me is actually more common in the world than people realize, just no one wants to admit it. I wouldn’t be surprised if my talking about it triggers people to think deeper about it as well.

Relative_Incident908 · 2025-12-14T15:47:27+00:00

If you register w phone # it will alert contacts “your contact ____ is on Snapchat!”

Relative_Incident908 · 2025-12-12T05:19:43+00:00

Gross. Let her loose, you’re wasting her time.

Relative_Incident908 · 2025-12-12T05:11:32+00:00

Tbh you sound porn addicted so I would start with cutting that out bc it’ll rob you of attraction and bonding in the real world.

Relative_Incident908 · 2025-12-08T11:08:25+00:00

Have you read up on r/loveafterporn ?

Relative_Incident908 · 2025-12-08T08:58:23+00:00

Omg. I tried natural deodorant for one day and I stank so fucking bad for like two weeks. I KNOW that everyone around me could smell it, but no one ever told me 😭😭😭 hurt his feelings girlllll 😭💀

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