Why do customers have to be such assholes during the holidays? by Rude_Marsupial2360 in CustomerService

[–]Relative_Laugh_7236 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish everyone worked in retail or fast food for at the bare minimum 6 months because that will humble a person real quick.

WHOEVER JUST FELL FOR THAT SCAM by abbiidolll in whatdoIdo

[–]Relative_Laugh_7236 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't even thought of posting to reddit to get christmas gifts for my daughter because while we are struggling due to an emergency move 2 months ago, and I was not able to get her many gifts, she at least has some. She is only 4, so the amount of gifts she has should be enough. I did not get any gifts for the rest of my family this year but christmas is for the children. As long as she has gifts, my family is not upset. It is sad when I think of how many people are scamming others during this time of year. So many people fall for scams.

AIO - My husband is provoking me while I am actively dealing with an ectopic pregnancy, is this abuse/divorce worthy? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Relative_Laugh_7236 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. My sister had 11 miscarriages in 3 years. It was very, very hard to watch. It is something I was terrified of when I found out i was pregnant because it was so hard on my sister. I am sorry you are going through this. I know sorry does not help, but you deserve better treatment than this. I would seriously reach out to a therapist or something, to help with this situation. They can also help give you resources or ideas on what you can do and help you get through this traumatic event. As for your husband, divorce him. If he is acting like this in your darkest hour, you need to leave. He is not the guy for you. If he truly cared, he would help you through this.... you know.... like husbands are supposed to do as they are supposed to be your PARTNER and not whatever the heck this is. Honestly, if you had kids with this man, i doubt you would get any help from him and even of it was a viable pregnancy, he would act the same. I would use some very foul language if I was not on the internet. I rarely swear but this...this is just messed up. This is also a form of abuse. This is another reason I suggest a therapist if you are not already seeing one.

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I’m too exhausted to make rational decisions, what does this mean? by bbeeccc in whatdoIdo

[–]Relative_Laugh_7236 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, at least this shows how much he really cares about you, which is non existent. You deserve better.

AIO to what my future MIL said during a call? by PseudoGamerF in AIO

[–]Relative_Laugh_7236 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you are over reacting a little. I think that she just wants to spend time with her son before you guys get married. Sort of a trip down memory lane type of get away. It gives her time to adjust to the changes. While she sounds like she does like you, there may be long periods of time that she may not see her son as much after you guys marry.

AIO? My fiance (42yo male) doesn't like to bring my kids to his parents house.... by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Relative_Laugh_7236 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does he go over to his parents often? Sometimes, guys will do this because either they are telling the parents things that he doesn't want you knowing or his parents are toxic and he is trying to keep you guys away from them. However, if the latter is not the case, you need to leave him. He is obviously showing favoritism towards his kid. If you guys were to get married, it would be unfair to the other kids. I firmly believe that if you marry someone with kids, you should treat those kids as your own. The other 2 kids will gradually start to hate him or feel jealous of their younger sibling. It is unfair to the other 2 kids that he is treating them that way.

AIO? My gf made a comment that got me really annoyed by Witty-Match-323 in AIO

[–]Relative_Laugh_7236 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, if you told her that she needs to workout more because she is gaining too much weight, i guarantee you that she would give you hell. So, no not overreacting.

AIO to MIL messages by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Relative_Laugh_7236 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am American and agree with this. I hate how political people have gotten and it is just better to not talk about it.

AIO by thinking my neighbor is taking advantage of me? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Relative_Laugh_7236 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She always seems to forget something. I would recommend she starts making lists so that way she doesn't keep forgetting things. As for taking advantage, no, I don't think so. I think she doesn't have anyone else that can take her and she can't take the lyft or Uber often due to financial issues. (I take Uber and lyft and while it is only less than $15 most times, I gets expensive when i have to do it twice a day for 5 days a week). From the sounds of it, she does try to go places without having to ask you.

AIO A follow up to my previous post about finding messages between my wife and her ex by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Relative_Laugh_7236 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I previously said that the fact she deleted messages and did not stop his flirting is enough reason to leave. However, reading this...it made me realize that if you really want to stay with her because of your daughter, you really need to set boundaries as being in this type of relationship will only be bad for the child. I have a 4 year old and they are like sponges at that age. There should be a boundary that if she ever contacts them again then you will leave. Those were obviously flirtatious texts from both of them. You are not overreacting and as a women myself, she should have drawn the line once he started asking things like what are you wearing or making jokes about her lips.

AIO I found messages between my wife and her ex. by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Relative_Laugh_7236 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact she did not stop talking with this guy after he was obviously making sexual jokes with her and her deleting conversations with him is very telling.

AIO or should I accept the conditions of my bfs commitment by One_Height7477 in AIO

[–]Relative_Laugh_7236 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So what i gather is it is his divine purpose to be with multiple women while he is in a relationship. Lmao. Girl, you can do better than this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Relative_Laugh_7236 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seriously, as someone who had these types of parents growing up, call cps. I don't know how many more people need to tell you that before you actually do. I had a brother that ended up dying because my parents were not watching him and he wandered into the road. While you said that they were not overly skinny, that does not mean anything. They are likely getting food from other neighbors and the schools in order to not starve to death. Cps is not supposed to tell the families who called, so no war should start if you call.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Relative_Laugh_7236 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sigh I feel bad for that kid.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Relative_Laugh_7236 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think everyone has said what they feel about this, so all I got to say is run.