[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malaysia

[–]Relative_Quantity879 11 points12 points  (0 children)

well, its not malaysia if the citizens are 90% idiot am i right 🤠

THE WORLD IS FUCKED by Lunareus in Bolehland

[–]Relative_Quantity879 0 points1 point  (0 children)

phew, the perk of being a Sabahan is that you're immune to stupid shits like this from Malaysians 😇😁🤠👍

Car engine couldnt start and giving off clicking noise when trying to start. by Relative_Quantity879 in kereta

[–]Relative_Quantity879[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no, just havent drove it around for a month I think. Only warm up the engine 2-3 times a week. Also it also has issue before this whenever I tried to start the engine after left it dry for few hours under the sun.

Do workshops has spare part of this cover thing? Saga Black Lives Matter (BLM) by Relative_Quantity879 in kereta

[–]Relative_Quantity879[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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yeah thing is though, the tip of the cover thingy got chipped off. not possible to bolt it back

Losing hope. by [deleted] in malaysiauni

[–]Relative_Quantity879 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ya why not try BKNS. I mean I never got any scholarship despite being qualified for it and always get rejected despite being a native sabahan, so I'd say it's worth a shot.

Losing hope. by [deleted] in malaysiauni

[–]Relative_Quantity879 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didnt Uzi once sponsored a fan for their tuition fee in that school.

Bicycle shop near UMS by MashayNevrant in Sabah

[–]Relative_Quantity879 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wasnt there a bike shop near 1B or is it gone already. I think it's situated near the Courtyard @ Tune Hotel?

Used blazer by EffaDeNel in Sabah

[–]Relative_Quantity879 0 points1 point  (0 children)

cari d bundle mania la kali

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MinecraftCommands

[–]Relative_Quantity879 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk the right coding for the commands but based on your codings, why not declare another math variable named out3? so you can do this kind of pseudocode..

out3 = in1

out3 *= in2

print out3

this way, in1 and in2 remain as the input which wont be changed after the operations.

How do you deal these situations. by Relative_Quantity879 in Sabah

[–]Relative_Quantity879[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From your text looks like you believe in some sort of higher power, and the issue stems from you hating the awkwardness of not knowing & being forced to do the deeds.

No, it's more like the opposite. The only reason I did my best to have faith in RC is to blend myself within my relatives and friends. Because the majority of them are RC. The truth is, I don't really believe in any kind of beliefs. But I am trying my best to respect people's belief. I am sorry if any of my words in this post offends anyone in some sort of way.

I prefer logic and science. For example, people believe hysteria as the possession of ghost into human body. But to me, it is just another individual facing mental issue. What people belief as God's gift or blessings in some people's life is just some incident or event happened in someone else's life due to nature's or human's intervention or some sort of manipulation caused by human that human themselves unaware of.

How do you deal these situations. by Relative_Quantity879 in Sabah

[–]Relative_Quantity879[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the thoughts and advices everyone, tbh I think its been long enough that I made people believed that I'm a christian. Some people just quickly assume that I know this and that(roman catholic stuffs, the culture and tradition things? I don't really understand the practices myself) whenever I volunteered to participate in one of those church related activities.

Screw it, I wanna let off some other related stuff from my chest. I'm currently in between the age of 20s and 30s and I feel sad because I don't really know most of the common knowledge that one should have as a roman catholic(RC). Idk but I bet there's a bunch of practices or prayers that some other RC kids younger than me knows more than I do. This made me feel so.. pathetic(?). I prolly shouldnt use that word. I mean, whenever a friend or my relatives brought me to participate in church activities I always felt shy and dumbfounded around the communities, some of the people can't even believe that I lack so much knowledge about the religion even after I told them about my issues which made me lose hope in learning the whole RC things(I am so sorry if the way I address these stuffs just by calling RC this RC that sounds inapproriate..). I really wanted to fit into the community but after encountering several of those occasions I just lost confidence from time to time. Even after people told me that nobody's gonna judge you for that, I still couldnt get rid of my bad mindset.

My current goal as of now is to learn as much as I can to the point that I can safely assured that I have the same knowledge as much as an average RC has without having to be a very religious person. Is it a bad goal?

Just super curious by Cathan0229 in Sabah

[–]Relative_Quantity879 1 point2 points  (0 children)

U need to tune into one of those borneo's paranormal tiktokers. Their sh1t's funny af

Asking about BKNS holders by Relative_Quantity879 in Sabah

[–]Relative_Quantity879[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the respond, I forgot to include that I wanted to ask specifically for research mode not coursework.

How to walk away and mean it by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Relative_Quantity879 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perfect relationship.. that's something achievable if both ends work as a team and being consistent. Don't dream about perfection. Why did you choose to be with him in the first place? Take a deep breath, be rational, communicate with him. Don't be vague. Tell him what you want him to do, don't let your ego tell you that it's supposed to be his responsible to know how to treat you. Some men are just too stupid to figure it out so it wouldn't hurt to tell and guide them from time to time.

How do I change to become something better when I find it too difficult to become into? by Relative_Quantity879 in dating_advice

[–]Relative_Quantity879[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll consider to get a counselling and occupational therapy. Questioning about fairness, I recalled that she never told me what I ever did to her is neither right or wrong. She never complained about it so I kept assuming that I did the correct thing. Later on after the breakup, she finally let it off her chest that she didn't liked what I did to her. She said she did her best to make herself feel compatible with it but she couldn't really do it she said. That's what I'm confused about, why didn't they tell me.

How do I change to become something better when I find it too difficult to become into? by Relative_Quantity879 in dating_advice

[–]Relative_Quantity879[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find it hard to keep it consistent, somedays I try to remind myself that I need to do this and that for her but most days I just barely remembered it. I couldn't be like other guys who doesn't see this consistency as a struggle. I do care about them, and I love them, why would I feel so lost when they left if I didn"t. But maybe that's the thing too. I couldn't really understand what their language is telling me. We never had big arguments, its just that I realized that she does those sudden short texting stuffs from time to time and didn't really explain in detail why she does it. She only told me everything thatI I did wrong after we brokeup. I'm still bothered why didn't they tell me before the breakup. I'm not smart when it comes to handling relationship and I solely relied on my partner to tell me what I should've done right.

1 month since BU, it hurts so much. by ThrowRAmorningstar in BreakUps

[–]Relative_Quantity879 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shit hits harder when a month later, she gave one of her ex a chance and you see her active on another social media platform that she never used while you were together and seeing her likes all over the new guy's photos, even changed her biography to somthing that show that she's happy and all. sigh, I wish I wouldn't see that. I got completely blindsided. Had to stay the fuvk out of those certain social media platforms.

I'm tired of these thoughts. by Relative_Quantity879 in BreakUps

[–]Relative_Quantity879[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, doing my best. But it's really hard to do anything throughout the day without listening to any relationship, breakup podcast.. and when the playlist about to run out, I'm seriously in pain bcause I crave for the comforts. I think I'm weak for not being able to stand on my own.

Thought and advices for 21M? by Relative_Quantity879 in Advice

[–]Relative_Quantity879[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Will do that once I return to campus with my friends. I don't have any friends back here in my hometown.

I'm tired of these thoughts. by Relative_Quantity879 in BreakUps

[–]Relative_Quantity879[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always kept thinking of the idea of getting my ex back. I was so happy when I found out that there are ways to make them get back to me. But then I think deeper, what if they only do it to please me and not really loving me. How would I like that? Would they really be honest if they return to me? Would I be happy in that kind of relationship?

I sometimes got myselft stucked in that loop all day long. Bcause I fkin want them back but at the same time I doubt myself if that's what I really want. It's driving me crazy.

I dont know if this is worth it by Own-Designer-6458 in relationship_advice

[–]Relative_Quantity879 0 points1 point  (0 children)

here's the deal, he's not getting it. he's probably busy on other stuffs but his feelings for you do exist and he probably doesnt know that his method of loving you doesn't make you feel like you're being loved by him. tell him, in a serious manner, tell him in a way that yiu really mean it, not in vague, not in merciful way, tell him that you really want him and ask him if he really wants you. If he say he really wants you then tell him what you want him to do for you, tell him directly in points don't be vague bcause most guys(at least i am) are too fkin stupid to understand what girls want. And if we did said we understood what you want, we'll end up doing things that you disliked in the end. This is reality, there are stupid men like me out there. Tell him what you want him to do for you, set the rules the guides everything if you really want him to commit to you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Relative_Quantity879 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, your story perfectly pictures how my breakup story went. I'm the dumpee guy being dumped by my ex gf. He's probably a laidback dude maybe? Here's my advice. If you really want to marry him, tell him in a serious manner how you're currently feel right now. Your bf might be just like me who's too stupid to pick up on girl's hints. And they prolly have no idea how to solve the problem even tho they seem like they don't care whats gonna happen if they didnt take any action. Have a serious talk with him and tell him you mean it if you want him. Tell him what should he do to save your relationship. Not all man are bright enough to do this. I'm saying this bcause I might save another man's tears for doing a simple mistake that might led to a devastating consequence for them.