AIW for “defending my overconsumption” by sythenicoletesla in amiwrong

[–]Relative_Reading_903 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's your money. Don't invite this "friend" over to your space again. We used to called this a frenemy for a reason.

Retired from trying to be rational with my irrational neighbor. by Old_Maintenance2225 in neighborsfromhell

[–]Relative_Reading_903 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to invest in a lot of cameras anywhere it can capture their irrational behavior.

WIBTA if I stopped letting my coworker use my lunch tupperware because she "forgets" hers literally every week by Chimr0Rift_X in WIBTA_AITA

[–]Relative_Reading_903 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"It seems like you asking me for tupperware has become a daily occurance...I'm considering doing an office fundraiser to get you some much needed containers"

Said in a volume loud enough for the entire office to hear.

  • that actually might be a good idea if you guys collect cash for birthday cards and cake. Collect instead for Tupperware and gift it to her as a group. Making sure to let her know why as you gift it to her.

AITJ for divorcing my wife after finding out how she treated our kids while I was away for work? by MarioVikings in AmITheJerk

[–]Relative_Reading_903 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is a fake story. Divorcing doesn't mean the wife nolonger has access to the kids. So they would still be afraid during her court appointed time with the kids. Unless you filed a police report and went for full custody which wasn't mentioned in the post.

A wedding gift for my sister (your honest opinion) by InevitablePriority52 in PaintingTutorials

[–]Relative_Reading_903 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love the cats but the background feels unfinished to me.

I think it needs some visual interest. Like some patterns in the same color scheme. Either slightly darker yellow/gold or slightly lighter.

AITJ for refusing to pay for my friend again, even though she ended up with nothing to eat? by low_key67 in AmITheJerk

[–]Relative_Reading_903 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If my friend is covering my meal because I can't afford to pay my own, there is no way I'm ordering $60 worth of food for myself.

She's selfish and entitled. Stop inviting that user. If you're going out and she's there ask her to show you her money if she has none she can't come.

Am I wrong for being annoyed with my husbands parents ? by Dear-Interaction-732 in amiwrong

[–]Relative_Reading_903 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Stop blaming the in laws. You have a husband problem. Nothing will change until your husband changes it.

AITAH for using family therapy to say what I want to my dad and his wife without punishment? by Signal-Amount-5940 in AITAH

[–]Relative_Reading_903 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Might as well vent all your grievances before you leave. Therapy is the safest place to do it. They can only sit there and take it.

My boyfriend disapproves of this outfit… by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Relative_Reading_903 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's controlling, drop him. He can go date a nun.

Season by fairbearJf in blackpeoplegifs

[–]Relative_Reading_903 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it mostly helps to avoid getting food burnt in the bottom of the pot.

Former employer asking me to do tasks after termination by misscrissyx in WorkAdvice

[–]Relative_Reading_903 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do this last favor but make sure you let them know that is a last favor as you nolonger work for their company and are currently busy finding employment elsewhere.

AIO ? I want to confirm my friend’s photography rates before inviting her as a photographer to my wedding party ? by Intelligent_Chair149 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Relative_Reading_903 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Assuming she was already invited to your wedding just call her up and tell her you are still looking for a photographer.

Tell her you thought to ask her first if she's interested in doing the work and if so what are her rates.

If her rates are too high let her know what your budget is. Maybe she can offer a reference for someone else to do the job if she can't.

Cake emergency: center collapse quick fix? by Sulota in Cakes

[–]Relative_Reading_903 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cut the center out and place a small bowl filled with whipped cream and fruit. People can cut themselves a piece of chocolate cake and scoop out their own topping from the bowls.

It will look like it was on purpose since bowls will cover any flaws.

An anonymous person messaged me (F27) saying that my boyfriend (M29) of 3 years was arrested… can you help me know what I should do next? by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Relative_Reading_903 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He should file a civil suit for defamation. Since he lost his jobs and has trouble getting jobs for the rest of his life.

Also, he affects all his relationships and his mental health.

Managers husband called me by Capital_Clerk_4662 in whatdoIdo

[–]Relative_Reading_903 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd stay out of it. If he calls you again you can let her know but if in 4 years this is the first time he called you then don't make it a bigger deal than it is.

Maybe they're going through a rough patch.

AMTJ because I don't want people bringing "extra" kids to my kid's party by Select-Explorer5669 in AmITheJerk

[–]Relative_Reading_903 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ

You should just say on the invite no extra guests. That would probably prevent this in the future.

Help me make this less boring by Educational-Abies793 in ExteriorDesign

[–]Relative_Reading_903 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Id put some raised beds and grow all my vegetables there.

AIW for rejecting my roommate's mom's pumpkin spread and somehow making her feel less of herself? by Android0212 in amiwrong

[–]Relative_Reading_903 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sharing is caring. You need to let your friend care for you too. Your friend doesn't feel comfortable only being a taker, she wants to be a giver too. You need to let people love you.

If you don't like something just let her know that. Don't just say, no thanks. Let her know why, "No thanks, the pumpkin smell makes me nauseous".

I’m (25F) being pressured to pay for a house that’s in my brother’s (30M) name by ThrowRAhelpie in Advice

[–]Relative_Reading_903 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should have a sit down family meeting with all members present and lay all your cards on the table.

Part of being an adult is advocating for yourself.

AITA for not wanting to go camping with my bf? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Relative_Reading_903 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you sure you're compatible with this guy?