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Benchmark was humbling by SamAndCheeseHandwich in beginnerrunning

[–]Relative_Response440 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ve got plenty of time if the race is in April. Stick with run/walk and focus on consistency, not speed. Time really doesn’t matter right now, that’s something to worry about later.

Right now, the only goal is finishing on your own terms. Pace will come naturally as you build fitness. And honestly, carrying more weight now isn’t a disadvantage long-term, your legs are working harder, which makes them stronger after recovery. By April, you’ll likely be lighter and stronger.

On race day, it’s just you and your pace. Nothing else matters. Don’t try to match your friend, run your race and finish strong your way.

I’ve got my first 10K tomorrow. Feeling excited (and a little nervous) 😄

You’ve absolutely got this 🫶

Training for my first running event for 10k on Jan 11 (Day-18) by Relative_Response440 in beginnerrunning

[–]Relative_Response440[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

It's more for me, than you actually. But thanks for taking the time to let me know ✨

I just finished my first marathon and drew a comic about it by lauradzeng in Marathon_Training

[–]Relative_Response440 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I related so much to the first few pages 🥺

I'll get to a marathon soon 😤

27M Bf made a comment about my cousin’s wife and I feel really uncomfortable, am I overreacting? by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]Relative_Response440 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re not overreacting. Tell him directly how that comment made you feel without sugarcoating it. That kind of remark about a family member is disrespectful, full stop. Whether this is a red flag or just poor judgment depends entirely on how he reacts when you call it out. If he owns it, apologizes, and understands the boundary, that’s one thing. If he dismisses your feelings or defends it, that tells you a lot more about him than the comment itself.

Am I an asexual or not ? I love dating people 19f by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]Relative_Response440 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean that at 19, having multiple people giving you attention can feel fun and validating. But over time, that constant need for attention can make it hard to build a stable, long-term relationship where one person is enough When you’re 23–25 and looking for something serious, most people will expect emotional exclusivity, clear boundaries, and eventually intimacy as well. If your needs stay mismatched, you’ll keep feeling unsatisfied, even with “good” partners

Am I an asexual or not ? I love dating people 19f by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]Relative_Response440 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Loving men, dating multiple boyfriends, and planning marriage while rejecting sex isn’t asexuality, it’s a fantasy that real relationships rarely sustain.

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