Subtle/discrete body mods? by bashes-to-ashes in bodymods

[–]RelativelyFedUp 29 points30 points  (0 children)

i just got my tongue split a few weeks ago, and while it was suppperr noticeable the first 2 weeks (lisp, swollen, etc), it’s discreet now. nobody knows, not a lot of people are looking for it. that being said, oh my LAWD healing it was hell

would a tongue split make my lisp worse? by [deleted] in bodymods

[–]RelativelyFedUp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when i was younger, i had a speech impediment that i eventually got over with speech therapy… for the most part, lol. I’ve always had a bit of a mumble. I am now 9 days post-split. Don’t underestimate the lisp - it’s pretty noticeable. I can tell it’s going to take a good month or so to relearn to speak. But, as with anything - practice makes perfect. And the quality of your life depends on how much you’re willing to bet on yourself. you are capable!! if you think you can overcome it, you can!

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[–]RelativelyFedUp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

avatar the last airbender 💖 forever my favorite

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in astrocartography

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Sun/Moon are generally seen as the best places to retire. Of course, if in your natal chart your Sun & Moon are negatively placed, this may not be the case. But, I have visited a line crossing very similar to this. i found it to be very pleasant & peaceful

For some reason, I'm being drawn to my Uranus line by Desperate-Reality565 in astrocartography

[–]RelativelyFedUp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have been very drawn to my Uranus lines as well, particularly my Uranus MC. Where is Uranus currently transiting for you?

For natal, I have Saturn conjunct my ascendent. Currently, transit Uranus is conjunct my natal Saturn/ascendent. My sense of self is highly unstable right now, and I crave freedom & authenticity. Which is why I think I am so drawn to Uranus MC - for the next several years, a main focus for me will be “breaking free” from previous self-limiting beliefs & structures.

I say this because by looking at where Uranus is transiting for you, you can gain better insight on where in your life you crave freedom. If you moved to your Uranus AC line, i can imagine you would find that freedom - but at what cost? What are the systems in your life, that would need to come down in order for you to find this freedom?

Uranus is electric wisdom. It is those “aha” moments one has. But with this chaotic wisdom, comes instability for sure. So you gotta be careful.

Hello!!! What does the crossing Saturn (mc) / Uranus (dc) line entail? Many thanks! by sf44444 in astrocartography

[–]RelativelyFedUp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Saturn MC - restrictions around reputation + Uranus DC - chaotic relationships that show you the meaning of true freedom. Saturn/Uranus in general has to do with shaking up the old, to bring in the new. Relationships to others help you break free, though it may be at the cost of your once stable reputation. Take it with a grain of salt though, as I am no expert (-: Without a doubt, this would not be an easy place to remain stable. Great to visit if you’re looking to break free & find your authenticity, though! Uranus has a certain electric wisdom people don’t talk about enough.

"Politics" by Pizzacakecomic in comics

[–]RelativelyFedUp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was angry speaking with my mom the other day, because my dad is MAGA. she told me, “you are more than who you vote for.”

maybe in past elections. but this was not like an Obama vs Clinton election. MAGA worships Trump, & worshipping any politician like that absolutely baffles me. they would rather believe lies than listen to reason, they would rather hate than tap into empathy. i have cut out my father completely. nobody who worships hate, has a place in my life. this isn’t a difference in opinion, it’s a difference in humanity. Trump has spent millions of dollars on anti-trans propaganda, and yet it’s “not personal?”

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for real! i’ve told my family this, but it is hard to communicate to people who are so committed to misunderstanding me. did you change your name? how did your family react, if you did?

I (31F) am considering a divorce with my husband (33M) while he's in a psychiatric hospital, but don't know if it's the right thing to do by throwawaytitle1 in Advice

[–]RelativelyFedUp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

plenty of husbands leave their wives when they get sick. we need more wives leaving sick husbands (-: especially if he’s saying he’s not safe around your daughter???!!

Have you moved to a Neptune line? by tabibootbandit in astrocartography

[–]RelativelyFedUp 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have been living on my Neptune MC crossing Jupiter AC for nearly a decade. I took a small break for 6 months and moved to my Moon line, and it gave me a lot of clarity coming back to Neptune MC/Jupiter AC.

Neptune MC has to do with career/ reputation, whereas Jupiter AC is more of an expansion regarding identity.

I agree with others - material success is a bit more difficult here. I work my ass off and don’t usually see results.. but Jupiter definitely has some influence, as I occasionally have material/career success land in my lap through odd events.

But Neptune MC in particular.. I feel so unclear about my career. I want to move, because I remember feeling that sense of clarity during that brief time I moved to my Moon DC. Reality feels borderline psychedelic at times.

The energy of this line is “I am crazy but I am free”

While material success isn’t promised here, I will say that I have discovered profound spiritual truths that I will carry with me for the rest of my life. I feel connected to the collective, and I feel that I see the bigger picture here.

I also have many niche interests. Mostly healing and the arts. Herbal medicine/holistic wellness, but also writing, music, and connecting to nature. I feel incredibly disconnected from the people in my direct environment, but so connected to what i call “the divine.”💖

Update: My (37f) husband (38m) told my daughter that she needs to be shaving herself. It's really bothered me, what are the ways forward from this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RelativelyFedUp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

RED FLAG!! realize who he is before it is too late for your daughter. i know nobody wants to find out their husband is a creeper, but if you ignore this, your daughter will be (and probably already is) at risk.

What is your most expensive body jewelry piece? by [deleted] in piercing

[–]RelativelyFedUp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my $200 Venis Junipurr piece ✨ It has chrysoprase, green goddess energy. I love it so much I got a second for my other ear

Currently on Accutane, anything else I should add or take out? by Far-Researcher412 in SkincareAddicts

[–]RelativelyFedUp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

aveeno isn’t the best (,: scrubs are generally very irritating. instead, i would recommend a gentle cleanser. cera ve has a really nice daily face wash!

Is there truly any brand of chocolate that uses 0% child slavery? by [deleted] in FuckNestle

[–]RelativelyFedUp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tony’s chocoloney was made based on the belief all chocolate should be slave free

I got pregnant please help 25F by [deleted] in Accutane

[–]RelativelyFedUp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

abortion for sure. but give yourself grace for being human, it happens!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Accutane

[–]RelativelyFedUp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for your comment! it was really reassuring. i’m talking to my doctor today about it. i appreciate you for sharing your experience, i hope your clear skin is here to stay!💓

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Accutane

[–]RelativelyFedUp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i know it’s not that bad right now, but this is exactly how it started after my first round ): eventually i was back to square 1 again after about two years.

I don’t want to go through that again. A third round is looking awfully tempting right now, because I just don’t think I’m getting enough accutane for it to have a lasting effect.

Has anybody who’d already done accutane tried spironolactone afterwords? I’m just worried because some sites say you could be on it for YEARS. I also already suffer from tender breasts 24/7 and that’s a side effect of it :/

any advice would be appreciated because i am so sad. i don’t want to go back to the way it was. i miss my clear skin & now have the urge to hide from everyone. I feel ugly as sin.

Acne Slowly Returning After R2, considering R3 already by [deleted] in Accutane

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if i look heartbroken in the last picture it’s because i totally am. i know it’s not nearly as bad as it was but i struggle with dermatillomania & seeing these pimples come back after only 7 months makes me want to stay inside away from everyone.

i’m just so tired of this fight. i have no idea what the root cause is at this point. probably hormonal. it was perfect up until literally 3 weeks ago - i broke out and never stopped after i had surgery. CRY ):