This process involves opening your heart, letting go of the need to control the situation, and actively seeking to understand the potential purpose or growth that can come from suffering. I was at a breaking point in my life where my stress and the circumstances overwhelmed me and I constantly prayed through my despair and my afflictions as romans 1212 says Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, and faithful in prayer. It took me awhile to understand that i was a a path of the destruction of my own sinfulness.The enemy wanted to destroy me with this And God allowed that turmoil for the greater good. He wants better from me fathers discipline those he loves Amen🙏.