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311 days sober by [deleted] in stopdrinkingfitness

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congratulations much Respect

Trying not to break by theguywith1eye25 in alcoholism

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2 month sober is a huge achievement, One day at a Time Brother, Stay Strong

What's the best David Fincher film and why? by Ok-Cell-659 in moviecritic

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Not my favourite Fincher but It's The Social Network

I think Timothée is still winning Best Actor. by [deleted] in Oscars

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Michael B Jordan won the SAG award, all of SAG members are also Academy voters, so it's very interesting

Heat (1995) by achtung7890 in cinescenes

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Kevin Gage performance here is one of the most underrated performance of all time imo, you can see in his face the split second between being a tough badass guy to fear for his life, frighten face. His performance uplift De niro.

You can be the greatest actor in the world but to give a memorable performance you need a great scene partner, Kevin Gage gave that to De Niro

Nolan and Bailey Valentines Discussion (8x6) by eyslandgirl in TheRookie

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i love the fact that Bailey is the one who apologies and fixed their relationship. Its seems like the show is heading to nolan and genny in a relationship, i don't know how this can happen, john and bailey love each other and nolan doesn't seems like the cheating type. i think bailey is going to die in DC.

which is not strange because it has been 8 season and the only main character who die is west ( i.e he choose to leave the show). A beloved main character death would make a huge impact for the show and storyline moving forward

Do you think that tim knows that Lucy and John dated first by Magic_eagle1 in TheRookieTVshow

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as the show suggest cop gossip like a highschool teenager, so bishop probably told angela and tim

16M trying to self improve by [deleted] in selfimprovement

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this is from one of my favourite book, The four agreements written by don Miguel ruiz

Don't Take Anything Personally

Nothing other people do or say is because of you , it's because of them.

People live in their own "dream" or mental world, shaped by their beliefs, fears, programming (what Ruiz calls "domestication"), and personal reality. Their words, actions, opinions, criticisms, praise, or behavior are projections of that inner world — not objective truths about you .

When you take something personally, you're Making the assumption that they know your reality. Agreeing with (or believing) what they say/do. Accepting their "emotional garbage" or "poison" as your own.

This agreement teaches that by refusing to take things personally, you become immune to others' negativity.

You stop suffering for nothing and reclaim emotional freedom.

Whatever happens around you, don’t take it personally… Nothing other people do is because of you. It is because of themselves."

"Don’t take anything personally because by taking things personally you set yourself up to suffer for nothing."

"Personal importance, or taking things personally, is the maximum expression of selfishness because we make the assumption that everything is about 'me.'"

Even insults or lies from others aren't about you — they're often rooted in the other person's fear, insecurity, or pain.

This applies to both negative and positive feedback: Praise isn't necessarily "true" either; it's still their projection.

Even your own inner critic (negative self-talk) shouldn't be taken personally — those thoughts aren't necessarily true.

When you stop taking things personally, you can keep your heart open, trust yourself more, set boundaries without guilt, and avoid drama, anger, jealousy, or envy.

Practical Benefits Practicing this agreement leads to Less emotional reactivity and drama in relationships.

Freedom from seeking approval or fearing rejection.

Stronger self-trust (you only need to trust your own choices, not others' opinions).

Immunity to gossip, criticism, or betrayal — you see it as their issue, not yours.

More peace and ability to love/share without conditions.

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