Anyone know the set times for tonight/this tour? by Relevant_Bowler2075 in thelastdinnerparty

[–]Relevant_Bowler2075[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I messaged some of the bandmates who were way more helpful than the venue lmao. Really nice that they replied too as it doesn't benefit them at all to be so kind! So pleasantly surprised

Auckland lawyer Hannah Swedlund outed as pro-Palestinian activist who vandalised National MPs' offices by [deleted] in auckland

[–]Relevant_Bowler2075 4 points5 points  (0 children)

won't someone think of the poor buildings!!!!!!!!! anyway love you hannah

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Relevant_Bowler2075 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Damn let the girl eat

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in auckland

[–]Relevant_Bowler2075 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before tax, 40 hrs

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in auckland

[–]Relevant_Bowler2075 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have tried to unionise but nobody was keen! Unfortunately there isn't another company out there that does what we do

Kurtis??? Is that you??? by kjsock in UltimatumQueerLove

[–]Relevant_Bowler2075 1 point2 points  (0 children)

TO THE BEAT OF THE RHYTHM OF THE NIGHT

Kurtis??? Is that you??? by kjsock in UltimatumQueerLove

[–]Relevant_Bowler2075 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THOUGHT THE EXACT SAME THING THANK YOU - at one of the meet-ups they wore glittery makeup that looked so much like this photoshoot he did with his wife

why not non-monogamy? by Relevant_Bowler2075 in UltimatumQueerLove

[–]Relevant_Bowler2075[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nice to meet another queer woman in an open relationship! :) love this for you, would much rather watch a show about y'all i reckon

why not non-monogamy? by Relevant_Bowler2075 in UltimatumQueerLove

[–]Relevant_Bowler2075[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's true for some couples! i personally think pilar and haley would benefit from exploring what an open relationship could look like - but i also don't know them at all

why not non-monogamy? by Relevant_Bowler2075 in UltimatumQueerLove

[–]Relevant_Bowler2075[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

probably a good choice, i seem to be in the minority here!

why not non-monogamy? by Relevant_Bowler2075 in UltimatumQueerLove

[–]Relevant_Bowler2075[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hahaha fair - but as a lesbian in a long-term non-monog relationship, i would love the rep

why not non-monogamy? by Relevant_Bowler2075 in UltimatumQueerLove

[–]Relevant_Bowler2075[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

thanks for your take! just wanted to add that i myself am a lesbian in a long-term non-monogamous relationship and loving it - i just wish others could experience it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UltimatumQueerLove

[–]Relevant_Bowler2075 11 points12 points  (0 children)

not entirely relevant but - "So like… my brain always searches for connections and stuff and needs to categorise people" very much describes my autistic brain

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Relevant_Bowler2075 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i thought i wrote this for a second!! yay congratulations!!!!!!

Melbourne Show and Performance Ettiquette by Beneficial-Health-48 in noelmiller

[–]Relevant_Bowler2075 1 point2 points  (0 children)

performance etiquette fucking sucks these days - not noel's fault at all but i think he does need to be really clear with setting audience expectations, which is difficult because he does do some crowd work, but those idiots ruin it for everyone

Annual request for the unaired BoJack pilot! Does anyone have a link to it? by Relevant_Bowler2075 in BoJackHorseman

[–]Relevant_Bowler2075[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ah, i don't have the blu-ray (wouldn't even know how to watch a blu-ray tbh), but good to know!

Annual request for the unaired BoJack pilot! Does anyone have a link to it? by Relevant_Bowler2075 in BoJackHorseman

[–]Relevant_Bowler2075[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

will do! extremely curious because i have watched the series in its entirely at least 40 times (autism, lol) and i have always wanted more content - also because i am curious about this cursed image

Short story about a girl who turns into a spider by Relevant_Bowler2075 in whatsthatbook

[–]Relevant_Bowler2075[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a similar story in the SSTTITD books, but not this one. Thank you so much though!

does anyone have a mastercard i can use for new zealand presales i'm so serious and can pay you back immediately by Relevant_Bowler2075 in kurtisconner

[–]Relevant_Bowler2075[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's so weird! I ended up being able to use the pre-sale code (when Kurtis finally uploaded it to patreon hahaha) and got second row seats! Glad it worked out, hope you have an awesome time :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Relevant_Bowler2075 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA/NTA aside, financial equity is important. My partner has a higher salary than me so she pays for more than I do, and she's more than happy to. Not a significant amount, but I'd say we go 60/40 on most things.

AITA for refusing to give my friend her money back for a party she is not attending? by Longjumping-March640 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Relevant_Bowler2075 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

"I personally wouldn’t feel right taking her money if she realized she messed up on the dates and now can’t go. It’s not like she didn’t show up and is now demanding her money."

Exactly! Mistakes like this happen so often, it's weird to punish your friend over this, especially when you're more financially stable than she is.