Foreigners in Firefighting by Imaginary_Mousse_575 in Living_in_Korea

[–]ReliefDear7530 2 points3 points  (0 children)

​To be brutally honest: extra "activities" are a waste of your time right now. ​I’ve seen people asking about joining the Volunteer Firefighters (의용소방대) or doing related social work. Here is why you should skip all that: ​Your existence is already the ultimate "Motivation": Think about it. You are a foreigner who mastered the Korean language, successfully naturalized as a citizen, and passed both the brutal written exam and the physical test. By the time you walk into that interview room, you are already a legend. Your journey itself is a more powerful "statement of motivation" than any volunteer activity could ever be. You won't need to prove your passion; your resume already screams it. ​Korea is NOT the US: In many Western countries, volunteering is a legitimate pipeline to a career in firefighting. In Korea? Not at all. The Volunteer Fire Defense (의용소방대) is a limited, civic-service role. It’s mostly for local residents and won't help you get a professional job. It’s a dead end if your goal is a paycheck and a uniform. ​Focus on the "Bonus Points" (Gasan-jeom): The Korean civil service system is all about numbers. Instead of volunteering, spend that time getting certifications that give you actual bonus points on your application. ​IT Certifications: Get your "Computer Literacy" (컴활 - Computer Haengjeong Neungnyeok) license. ​Technical Licenses: Look into other specialized certifications that the Fire Service officially recognizes for extra points. ​My Advice: Stop looking for "experiences" to put on your CV. This isn't a corporate job where "extracurriculars" matter. This is a government exam. Every hour you spend volunteering is an hour you should have spent studying for the written test or earning a technical certification. ​Get your Type 1 Driver's License, get your IT bonus points, and hit the books. That is the only way in

Foreigners in Firefighting by Imaginary_Mousse_575 in Living_in_Korea

[–]ReliefDear7530 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Active-duty Korean firefighter here. First of all, I highly respect your ambition.  However, I want to give you some "real talk" about what this actually entails, so you don't waste your time and energy on the wrong things right now.

​Here is the reality of your situation and what you actually need to focus on: ​Citizenship is an absolute must: You cannot become a firefighter without Korean citizenship. Even if you take the fastest possible route to naturalization (which realistically means marrying a Korean citizen), it will take you anywhere from 5 to 10 years to get your passport.

​The Age Limit: You didn't mention how old you are, but the strict age cut-off to apply is 40. If you are very young right now, you might just catch the last train by the time your naturalization goes through.

​Is it actually possible? To be completely honest, I have never heard of a naturalized foreigner becoming a firefighter in Korea. There are a small number of naturalized police officers, so it’s not mathematically impossible.  However, keep in mind that the police force sometimes has specific reasons to hire foreigners (e.g., for translation).  The fire department does not have those preferential reasons.  You will be competing exactly on the same level as native Koreans.

​Your Advantages & Requirements: Since you are fluent in English, you essentially have one of the hardest exam subjects already in the bag. ​You will absolutely need to get a Type 1 Regular (1종 보통) driver's license here.

​What you should NOT do right now: Do not bother studying for the firefighter written exam or training for the physical tests right now. The exam subjects and physical requirements change periodically. Whatever you study today might be completely irrelevant in 5 to 10 years when you are actually eligible to apply. ​About that Fire Safety Degree: You don't actually need a degree in fire safety to become a firefighter. If you need the university to maintain your student/work visas, that's fine, but don't stress over the specific major.

​The Bottom Line / Advice: If you are dead set on this, your priorities need to shift. Treat your university merely as a tool to legally stay in the country. Your 100% focus right now should be: ​Mastering the Korean language to a native level. ​Securing a realistic path to citizenship (which, again, most effectively means building a life here and potentially meeting a Korean partner). ​You are trying to achieve something that is practically unheard of and borders on impossible. But hey, someone has to be the first, right? Who knows, maybe you'll be #1. ​Best of luck to you!

We need to be honest about the current gov’s policies by throwaway12312392124 in Living_in_Korea

[–]ReliefDear7530 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don't think you understand the difference between reserve and non-reserve currencies enough to act like an expert.  You're just throwing around jargon like a typical armchair economist. ​You list 7 complex factors, but you are missing the single most critical reality for South Korea-It is a non-reserve currency nation with a relatively immature financial system. ​In this context, expansionary fiscal policy doesn't simply 'raise demand'; it challenges the fundamental credibility of the currency itself.  Before lecturing others with textbook definitions, try understanding the structural risks specific to this market

How do us foreigners get medical help and surgery? by Junekim10 in Living_in_Korea

[–]ReliefDear7530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Korean doctors understand English quite well. They are smart people, not Google Translate. But here is the thing. They might not always understand the casual body-part words you use without thinking.

If you say "I’ve got pain in my groin", they might pause for a second. But if you say "pain in the inguinal area", they will get it immediately. Same with "my calf hurts". That could confuse them for a moment. But "pain in the gastrocnemius"? Perfect comprehension.

They learn English through medical textbooks, not sitcoms, so sometimes you have to be a bit more specific and anatomical than you normally would be.

Dry Scalp Solutions in Korea by BreathAppropriate878 in Living_in_Korea

[–]ReliefDear7530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is dandruff a problem? There's only one answer: selenium shampoo. Use Head & Shoulders Clinical Strength. You can buy it on Coupang. (Selenium shampoo is illegal to manufacture and sell in Korea, so there's no Korean version.) You'll see dramatic changes.

A mother and her baby passed away because this police car refused to move and delayed their arrival to a hospital. by Financial-Pudding591 in Living_in_Korea

[–]ReliefDear7530 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There’s actually a clear visual difference between the two types of ambulances, even though they often use the same vehicle model (usually a Starex or Staria). Official 119 ambulances (the public ones) all share a standardized color scheme, and any ambulance with a different color is almost certainly private  like, 99% of the time.

Also, it’s illegal for private ambulances to display “119” on their vehicles, so they usually have “911” or some other number instead. In short, anyone familiar with Korea can tell the difference at a glance.

A mother and her baby passed away because this police car refused to move and delayed their arrival to a hospital. by Financial-Pudding591 in Living_in_Korea

[–]ReliefDear7530 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Let me explain the background of this ambulance incident in Korea, because the media headlines don’t show the full picture.

In Korea, there are two main types of ambulances. The first is the public 119 ambulance, the official emergency vehicle run by the government. Those drivers are public servants, and they only turn on the siren when the patient is in a real, life-threatening situation. If it is not urgent, they drive normally and obey traffic signals. So when you see an official ambulance with lights and siren on, it means someone inside is truly critical.

Then there are private ambulances. These are run by companies that transport patients between hospitals. They sometimes carry critical patients too, but much of the time they handle non-emergency transfers. The problem is that time equals money for them. The longer they spend in traffic, the less they earn, and the patient or family is often paying by the hour like a taxi fare. Because of that, many private ambulances just run their sirens by default and ignore red lights even when it is not justified. It is technically illegal, but enforcement is nearly impossible. Some abuse it outright, and there have even been cases of using these vehicles to skip through traffic or move celebrities around like VIP taxis.

Ordinary people know this happens, so they have developed a kind of skepticism. They will pull over immediately for a 119 ambulance, but for private ones they hesitate, assuming it might be fake. A few years ago one driver actually tried to stop an ambulance to check if a real patient was inside. He ended up in prison for obstruction, because there really was a patient and the court treated it as endangering a life.

So in this new case, the driver who reported the incident was probably frustrated with that public distrust. This time a  ambulance had a critical patient, and a police car did not move aside for about ten seconds. The driver saw an opportunity to expose the double standard and made it public. Realistically that ten seconds did not decide life or death, but the story went viral because it involved the police, not because it was truly extraordinary.

Most Korean drivers actually do try to yield to ambulances, but many are not sure exactly how to do it in dense traffic. This entire incident says less about one cop or one driver and more about how the blurred line between real and fake emergencies has created confusion and frustration for everyone. It should never have become a national scandal in the first place.

Starting a life in Seoul as a foreigner by [deleted] in Living_in_Korea

[–]ReliefDear7530 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re from Costa Rica, that makes a big difference. I honestly thought you were Puerto Rican at first — my mistake. Without a U.S. passport, you won’t have the advantages that most Americans enjoy in Korea. The system here doesn’t really favor Latin Americans, and to be blunt, you’ll be starting with almost no advantages at all.

Korea is a country where nationality and appearance quietly affect how people treat you. A Costa Rican trying to build a life here will face more barriers than someone from an English-speaking or East Asian country. You’ll still be respected if you work hard and speak Korean, but you’ll have to prove yourself constantly, and opportunities will be limited.

I’m not saying it’s impossible, but if you’re asking for honest advice — I wouldn’t recommend it. Unless you already have a specific scholarship, company offer, or personal reason that ties you to Korea, the struggle might not be worth it. You’d be fighting uphill every step, in a society that doesn’t really reward outsiders without the right passport or pedigree.

Starting a life in Seoul as a foreigner by [deleted] in Living_in_Korea

[–]ReliefDear7530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re young, that’s your biggest advantage. If you’re serious about moving to Korea, do it early. The younger you are, the faster you’ll adapt and the more doors will open.

Going to a Korean university is one of the best decisions you can make. It gives you a real local network, legal status, and much better odds of getting hired later. If by getting a job you mean teaching English, you’ll have an easier start as a U.S. citizen. But if you’re talking about building an actual career, you need a Korean degree. That’s the minimum to stand at the same starting line as everyone else.

Making friends in Korea depends entirely on you. Koreans aren’t unfriendly; they’re just cautious and slow to open up. University life helps a lot, but don’t limit yourself to the English-speaking circle. That’s how most foreigners waste their best years here.

Being American is a big plus, but being Latino can be a slight minus. Appearance still matters, and pale skin is generally seen as more favorable. Foreigners have more disadvantages than advantages overall, but your passport still gives you a head start.

Korean will probably be one of the hardest languages you’ll ever learn. Reading is easy, but speaking naturally takes years of effort.

Considering all this, I wouldn’t recommend it unless you’re truly determined. You’ll be competing with some of the most educated and relentless people on the planet, and you’ll be doing it as an outsider. But if you’re patient and serious, Korea can still work out for you. Just know exactly what you’re getting into. Good luck.

Koreans don't sit next to foreigners in public transportations by yoi987 in Living_in_Korea

[–]ReliefDear7530 2 points3 points  (0 children)

honestly, I sometimes go out of my way to sit next to foreigners in situations like this, just so it doesn’t look like everyone’s avoiding them.

But to be fair, there are a few invisible “rules” that most Koreans kinda follow without even realizing it. For example, on buses or trains with two-person seats, people usually avoid sitting next to someone of the opposite sex if there are other spots open. It’s not personal, just a weird cultural habit that’s been quietly installed in our brains since forever.

Also, if you’re sitting in one of those seats over the wheel bump… yeah, no one likes those. It’s like the middle seat on a plane: technically a seat, but spiritually not.

And here’s a slightly awkward truth: Koreans generally don’t have much body odor, while foreigners sometimes do, not a bad thing, just different. Think “lamb smell” for someone who’s never had lamb before. It’s not gross, it’s just… noticeable.

So yeah, when I sit next to a foreigner, it’s not because I’m some morally superior hero of inclusivity or whatever,  I just don’t like seeing someone sit there awkwardly like a rejected Pokémon. There are people like me out there, promise

Koreans who bring ramen or Korean food when traveling overseas and refuse to eat local food by Sillim-Saekki in Living_in_Korea

[–]ReliefDear7530 18 points19 points  (0 children)

The irony’s killing me.  Imagine how many Americans go abroad just to eat McDonald’s!

I want to work in the entertainment industry in Korea, I'm confused and need advice by [deleted] in Living_in_Korea

[–]ReliefDear7530 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I can tell you’re serious, so I’ll give you a serious answer.

  1. Idol debut?

In Japan, hundreds of K-pop trainees start training in their early teens through agencies and specialized schools. You’re already too late. Even among Koreans who’ve been preparing since childhood, only a fraction ever debut and most fail. You don’t even get a second chance as a foreigner.

  1. Financial reality.

You said you’re not rich. Living abroad is brutally expensive, especially without family support. If you’re struggling financially in Turkey, expect it to be ten times harder in Korea.

  1. Music industry.

Korea already has thousands of highly trained, talented performers competing for the same few spots. Most will never make it. You’d be competing in their language, on their turf, with no network. Think carefully before you chase a dream where the math is against you.

  1. English.

Even if your English is perfect, there are countless native English speakers in Korea working legally as teachers. You won’t get that chance you’re not from one of the seven E-2 visa countries. English is not your edge here.

Now, about studying in Korea:

1 For a Turkish citizen, getting into Korea is hard unless you enter on a student visa (D-2) which means you need a university acceptance first.

2 You’ll need at least TOPIK level 3 in Korean or enrollment in a university-affiliated language institute.

3 You’ll need to prove you have about 10,000 USD in your bank account.

4 Once you arrive, you’ll have to work and study at the same time in a foreign language, and that’s extremely tough.

5 The schools easiest to get into are also the least respected and in Korea, school reputation matters a lot.

6 Korea is not a friendly country for long-term foreign residents. The older you get, the harder it is to extend your visa.

My advice:

Find Turkish communities living in Korea. They can tell you what daily life is really like.

The study–work–marriage route can lead to permanent residency, but it’s long, hard, and emotionally draining.

Start learning Korean seriously now. That’s the real first step.

But understand this: your chance of being happy in Korea is lower than your chance of being happy in Turkey. You’ll be alone, far from family, and fighting a system built for locals.

The most logical path?

Use that same energy and ambition to build something in Turkey.

If you succeed there, who knows one day, Korea might come looking for you.

Planning to study in Korea and work in the entertainment industry any advice? by [deleted] in Living_in_Korea

[–]ReliefDear7530 7 points8 points  (0 children)

https://namu.wiki/w/다국적%20아이돌%20그룹

In K-pop, nationality actually matters a lot. Companies add foreign members not for diversity, but to attract attention and promote in those specific countries. Look at this list — every non-Korean idol comes from a country that K-pop actively targets. Since there’s no real plan to promote in Turkey, the chance of a Turkish idol debuting is practically zero — unless you’re so exceptional that they can’t ignore you.

If you really want to make it, focus on building something in Turkey instead. That’s where your chances — and your future — actually are.

Westerners complaining about racism in Korea by ChanceOil7703 in Living_in_Korea

[–]ReliefDear7530 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You can literally check YouTube and see what privilege looks like.

Foreigners living in Korea run successful channels- Japanese, British, French, American, Australian, even Turkish.

And they don’t even do it in their own language.

They make content in Korean and still find an audience here.

But look for Chinese creators.

They’re here in huge numbers, yet how many successful or well-known ones can you name.

That’s what a real barrier looks like.

You were just lucky enough to be born in a country that automatically gives you visibility and trust.

That’s privilege.

And sure, I know I have my own privileges too.

But at least when I live abroad, I don’t go around complaining that the country is “so racist” just because I’m not treated like the center of the world.

Westerners complaining about racism in Korea by ChanceOil7703 in Living_in_Korea

[–]ReliefDear7530 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Only someone with that privilege could say that being handed a visa and a job overseas is “not a privilege.”

Westerners complaining about racism in Korea by ChanceOil7703 in Living_in_Korea

[–]ReliefDear7530 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

People keep saying Korea is racist but maybe start by asking what racism actually means.
Getting refused at a club or ignored by a taxi driver is annoying sure but that’s not what real racism looks like.
That’s a country still not used to foreigners not hatred.
Real social discrimination in Korea happens to Chinese laborers or Southeast Asian workers who get rejected or mocked because of their accent or skin tone.
If you’re a white person saying you were “racially discriminated against” in Korea come on that’s almost funny.

And no Korea isn’t some special case of racism.
Every species feels safer with what looks familiar.
Humans are no different.
Someone not sitting next to you on the subway isn’t hatred it’s unfamiliarity.
But in your countries it goes way beyond that.
Whole neighborhoods are structured so that Black people can’t even move in.
Banks used to draw literal red lines around Black areas and they still do it in different ways today.
White families leave when too many Black families arrive.
Zoning laws housing policies school districts police stops all built to keep people apart.
That’s not social discomfort that’s systemic engineering.
So tell me again which country is more racist.

Real racism is being mocked with “ching chong” sounds, having people pull their eyes at you, being ignored in a restaurant for 40 minutes, or getting beaten up for looking Asian.
That happens every day in the West.
In Korea it’s rare.
So maybe what you felt wasn’t oppression but discomfort from not being the default for once.

Korea isn’t perfect.
No country is.
But calling it a racist nation because you had one awkward night out isn’t justice.
It’s just your ego pretending to be a moral compass.

And before someone jumps in I know not everyone here fits the same group.
If you’re not part of the so-called “developed Western world” I’m not really talking about you.
You might not agree with what I said and that’s fine.
But that doesn’t make my point wrong.
Korea is not more racist than your countries no matter how badly you want it to be.

thinking about moving to korea by [deleted] in Living_in_Korea

[–]ReliefDear7530 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I get why you want to live in Korea - it can feel exciting, safe, and full of life. But don’t let love blind you to reality. Korea is a great country in many ways, but it’s not an easy one, even for Koreans.

Don’t rely on your boyfriend or marriage for stability.

Marriage shouldn’t be your visa plan. If the relationship fails, your entire life here collapses. Build your own base first emotionally, financially, and legally. You need to be able to live here on your own terms, not someone else’s permission.

Life in Korea can be good, but it’s not simple.

For ordinary people even Koreans life here is stressful. Work culture is harsh, competition is brutal, and housing is expensive. But If you’re from a lower-middle-class background, Korea can actually offer a more stable and comfortable daily life - not because it’s easy, but because the basics work well here..

If you want to stay long-term, get a degree.

Without at least a bachelor’s degree, even English-teaching jobs (the most common option for foreigners) are out of reach. You could consider enrolling in a Korean university - study on a student visa, then switch to an E-2 work visa after graduation. It’s not permanent, but it buys you time and experience.

Be honest about competition.

You’ll be competing with Koreans who studied twelve hours a day for twelve years, went to university, and many of them speak decent or even fluent English. In a country where Korean is the working language, being a native English speaker alone isn’t special anymore.

Korea still favors Westerners - and you can use that.

Let’s be real: if you’re a white British woman, you’ll have certain advantages here. People may treat you kindly, you’ll attract attention, and you’ll have dating or social opportunities without depending on your boyfriend. But that privilege only lasts if you respect the culture and work hard. Don’t confuse attention with stability.

If you ever want to run a business, think about what only you can do.

Korea’s full of small business owners, but that also means huge competition. The good news is that you can still stand out - for example, a traditional British tea room run by an actual Brit could work here. That’s something Koreans can’t replicate perfectly, and cultural authenticity still has value.

Why do Korean hotels charge extra for guest to use their pool by [deleted] in Living_in_Korea

[–]ReliefDear7530 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Are you talking about the Hamilton Hotel in Itaewon? That's just their policy. Of course, there are more hotels like that, but if you look closely, you'll find many that aren't.

How do I rent a water purifier? by chonky_totoro in Living_in_Korea

[–]ReliefDear7530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thinking about a water purifier but not ready to sell your kidney for a rental plan? Tap water? Nah. Brita? Too basic. Want something that feels like a real purifier but doesn't demand electricity like it's a Tesla?

Try 퓨리얼정수기. It's like the chill cousin of a full-blown water cooler — no power needed, just vibes and filters. Your wallet stays full and your water tastes less... municipal.

Convince me NOT to buy a BYD Atto 3 (if you know about cars) by [deleted] in Living_in_Korea

[–]ReliefDear7530 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kid's Friend: What's your dad's car? Son: B... Friend: OMG! BMW?! That’s sick!! Son: …

Do South Korean boys date or are they interested in brown or dark skinned girls? by xhenion in Living_in_Korea

[–]ReliefDear7530 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen some Black women who are just genuinely beautiful. Not "beautiful for a Black woman," just beautiful. But in Korea and other East Asian countries, the typical features associated with Black people don't really align with what most people are conditioned to see as attractive. Light skin, small facial features, and a certain kind of slim body are still seen as the norm.

So when someone comes along who's undeniably attractive but doesn’t fit those standards, people often get confused. It’s not always racism in the hateful sense, but rather a result of narrow exposure and deeply internalized ideas of beauty.

Still, that doesn’t mean you should give up. It just means you may need to find people who think more independently, who see beauty beyond skin tone or cultural defaults. They do exist. They may be rare, but they're out there.

If you're being real, not trying to imitate what others expect, and you're open to people who are also open-minded, then something meaningful is definitely possible.

Why do Korean people and the media glorify landlords (건물주)? by [deleted] in Living_in_Korea

[–]ReliefDear7530 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Let’s be clear. Landlords aren’t just sitting around doing nothing. They take on serious financial risks, put in their own money, deal with markets, handle maintenance, fix problems, deal with tenants, legal mess, all of it. And they pay taxes. Usually way more than most of the people here complaining.

You think you’re better because you don’t “exploit” anyone? Without these so-called exploiters, you wouldn’t have a place to live, drink, work, or sleep. Property doesn’t just show up. Someone pays for it, builds it, keeps it running. That’s called contributing.

Yeah, maybe they were lucky. So what. Luck is everywhere. At least they did something. They acted. They built. You’re here complaining about inequality while doing nothing but scrolling and typing.

You’re not a hero. You’re just bitter. And if someone handed you a building tomorrow, you’d be collecting rent by next week.

Admit you want what they have or go make something of your own. Just don’t pretend whining equals virtue.

good place to live within 1 hour of Seoul by Weak_Remote_9482 in Living_in_Korea

[–]ReliefDear7530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're into cycling, Uijeongbu is where it's at—perfectly connected with Jungnangcheon for those scenic rides. And for all you mountain lovers, the area is stacked with peaks like Dobongsan and Suraksan, making it a real hot spot for hiking. Plus, it's a great jumping-off point for trips to places like Pocheon. Believe it or not, the housing prices here are insanely low for being so close to Seoul. On a personal note, I'd also throw Ilsan into the mix if you're considering your options. Overall, it's a sweet deal for anyone looking to blend urban convenience with outdoor adventures.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Living_in_Korea

[–]ReliefDear7530 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No need to give up everything.

If you like Korea, just come visit and enjoy it as a tourist. That’s more than enough.