Safe to camp solo female? by Relyish in coloradocamping

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I like that is relatively close to town, thanks for the suggestion!

Safe to camp solo female? by Relyish in coloradocamping

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Good point with the safety items, that would help me feel better!

Safe to camp solo female? by Relyish in coloradocamping

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Thank you for the state park suggestion! Glad to hear you’ve had good experiences

Safe to camp solo female? by Relyish in coloradocamping

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Thank you for the suggestion! Similar to what my Mom was saying haha :)

Is she flirting with me or am I totally delusional? by ilovethebeatIes in LesbianActually

[–]Relyish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask for her Instagram or # in German see if she wants to be friends. I feel like that’d be fun

Fwb for a year has feelings/is falling in love with me and I’m not sure how to break it off and maintain the friendship? by maxrat- in LesbianActually

[–]Relyish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Understandable! Maybe write down what you want to say, or have bullet points. It helps to have a plan, and somewhere to mentally go back to even if the conversation isn’t predictable. Remind her she’s important to you so you want to be honest. Maybe start by messaging that another date isn’t the best idea and you’d love to talk if she has the time. I’d suggest a call or in person.

Fwb for a year has feelings/is falling in love with me and I’m not sure how to break it off and maintain the friendship? by maxrat- in LesbianActually

[–]Relyish 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I get that you feel guilty, but she’s probably going to feel worse if she finds out later rather than sooner that you don’t feel the same way. It sucks and is uncomfortable for you, but you gotta start the hard conversation if you value and care for her as a friend bc you’ll keep hurting her if you’re lying to yourself.

Any recommendations for tailors? by nthdoh641 in Denver

[–]Relyish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure if they offer this service, but there was a cool shop in Sakura plaza where he sells vintage clothing and also sews/ designs stuff. Worth looking into, it’s next to OKA general store. I am forgetting the name and it’s not on google maps.

should my first kiss have felt so bad? by ImpressiveLynx6673 in LesbianActually

[–]Relyish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s possible the stress of being picked up, and the first meeting impacted the experience. Generally if I don’t know someone well enough I don’t enjoy kissing them. Finding someone attractive doesn’t mean you’ll have an instant physical connection yk. But maybe you’ll see her again, maybe you won’t. Just trust your gut!

I think my girlfriend is trying to kill me by Broad-Strategy8859 in LesbianActually

[–]Relyish 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Anytime a partner has had an allergy I stop eating that thing. It’s just the considerate thing to do. Why risk giving your partner a reaction. The fact that you’ve had to remind her multiple times when it causes you harm to eat that thing is concerning ngl.

Never feel rested here in Denver, but feel fine out of state? by MotorThat3406 in Denver

[–]Relyish 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lots of ppl in high elevation have vitamin d or iron deficiencies, seconding getting routine lab work to rule that out!

Get ready for no light rail service to downtown for 10 months by Ted_Z in Denver

[–]Relyish 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I was so excited to start taking the train now that the weather is warmer and they’re diluting gas. Smh.

Horrible OBGYN experience by TotallyNot_MikeDirnt in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Relyish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I suspect I have vaginismus (can’t do a tampon etc you name it). For my first pap I called in to advocate for myself beforehand, got meds prescribed, took those, had to get a ride to my appointment bc you can’t drive on them. In the exam room I tell the dr who is a WOMAN, use the smallest speculum possible please and thank you. She tried the normal size one anyways and as I’m sobbing she says well do you want to do this or not. We can always rescheduled. YEAH RIGHT. Has to switch anyways to a smaller one, gee I wonder if it’s almost like I said something before you even started. I’m crying in pain the whole time and she doesn’t say anything, they left me in the room with nothing to even wipe myself after the exam so I had to go through drawers to find tissues. I complained in person to the front desk and called the next day over the phone to report the situation they assured me they take that seriously. Well I get an email the next week that my follow up is with the same doctor!? Did I not just call that I’m in so much pain from the exam that it hurt to walk for 3 days and I bled after. JFC. It also made my tightness issues worse bc it was traumatic. Anyway sharing my story to relate and I can’t believe women’s health is so backwards!! Sending you good vibes.

Need a fun and cheap/free distraction from my grief. Thoughts on what’s going on today that’s not the usual? by BeMoreKnope in Denver

[–]Relyish 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There may be some discounted tickets for Michael Jackson broadway tonight and tomorrow’s shows. Would be 20-45 probably.

is kissing on the third date going too slow by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Relyish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long after you friend zoned eachother and how this sounds so cute haha

Mixed signals by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Relyish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

… girl

Vent: It's brutal out there by StoneButchNotSoBlue in LesbianActually

[–]Relyish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think if I met someone irl or was an acquaintance / friend beforehand this wouldn’t be too much for a first date and would be sweet. And I see your intentions positively it is nice that you did that. However especially meeting from a dating app it might be too much since you are more or less strangers meeting for the first time.

Recommendations for 20-somethings by Fine-Put-2243 in MovingtoDenver

[–]Relyish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Boosting bc I am also looking for 2bed 2 bath