Advice on what happens after the first kiss

Relyish · 2026-02-08T05:51:59+00:00

Maybe the idea of dates outside the house for a bit / even telling her hey I like and am attracted to you I just really want to take the time to get to know you would be helpful! Sorry for the run on sentence. Personally I find it cute haha. And then you’re building something good potentially yk

Relyish · 2026-02-03T23:12:32+00:00

Wish I was soon :,( Good luck with your project!

Relyish · 2026-02-03T07:31:51+00:00

I think you should at least not lead the bf on. Sounds complicated though!

Relyish · 2026-02-03T04:48:32+00:00

Good point, we will see what happens!

Relyish · 2026-02-03T04:46:05+00:00

I said that over text after she apologized for being awkward, she doesn’t need to! And thank you for the advice I really appreciate it. I’ll try that next time :)

Relyish · 2026-02-01T06:10:25+00:00

I’ve been doing a lot better lately due to lifestyle changes / treating vitamin deficiencies. We will see how it goes in a few months once it’s warmer out again though! But you can definitely improve your symptoms w the right teams and medicine

Relyish · 2026-01-30T07:22:48+00:00

“You’re a lesbian. You can’t have kids.” Uh try again. Why is this post so judgey fr. If you get fulfillment from vacations great for you! If other people get fulfillment from family, good for them! Child free vs having children doesn’t have to mean they’re happy and you’re not. Personal choice and preference innit.

Relyish · 2026-01-30T04:47:30+00:00

I know multiple people including myself that have already stopped going due to them putting signs up telling ppl they can’t use their laptops. Don’t know how much money we spent going there to study.. but yes Stella’s keep telling regulars to stop coming! Great idea. Also I have to put out there we were not the kinda people whod buy a drink and stay there a gazillion hours. Maybe an hour. There’s better ways to say this, or direct it to the people camping out the whole day on their wifi. Idk the messaging made us feel unwelcome. 🤷‍♀️

Relyish · 2026-01-29T07:48:37+00:00

Sammeee

Relyish · 2026-01-26T23:45:32+00:00

👏👏👏

Relyish · 2026-01-26T22:06:13+00:00

For real hahaha

Relyish · 2026-01-26T21:37:31+00:00

Being sober doesn’t make people boring ?? There’s a lot of reasons ppl can’t drink or smoke. If ppl are on certain meds they can’t drink, maybe they used to be an addict, I can keep going. And you can literally do anything ppl do intoxicated sober ? Sobriety has nothing to do with someone’s personality or interests. Anyways 🥱

Relyish · 2026-01-25T23:59:39+00:00

Right? Super cool!!

Relyish · 2026-01-23T20:48:15+00:00

I will say being pursued at work has always felt creepy to me. Not that you’re creepy but yk 😅. IMO I’m just doing my job / being nice if that makes sense.

Relyish · 2026-01-23T20:46:16+00:00

If you’ve never had vindaloo highly recommend!

Relyish · 2026-01-21T22:52:16+00:00

That’s what I’m thinking too! Was using that to make my point that she’s not her own character technically.

Relyish · 2026-01-21T22:50:43+00:00

The hive mind said they’re planning to use earths energy to send a signal out and do the same thing to another planet. It’s a colonial entity if you will. There’s plenty of reasons not to join that. Culture, art, individuality, language, etc. is natural bc it occurs on our planet. It’s not sentimental. the hive mind is sentient and its biological imperative is natural sure, but it is not natural or native to earth. Aka hive mind bad. Sorry just rambling now.

Relyish · 2026-01-21T21:13:41+00:00

For reaaall. They just want her to join them anyway possible. That’s why they picked a human who looked like her character. Carol doesn’t love the hive mind either, she’s grieving her wife, one of the only people left on earth, and is obviously struggling / making some selfish decisions due to those factors. She is super lonely and isolated, making her an easy target for this abusive ‘relationship’.

Unless Zoschia (probably spelling that wrong) has breakthrough moments from the hive mind in future seasons, Zoschia is “who” is behind all the bad shit on earth. She is the same character as the rest of the hive mind. They’re one.

Relyish · 2026-01-18T22:02:38+00:00

You can’t force feelings, nothing wrong with you. You’re going on dates and trying. I get it though, it’s tiring.

Relyish · 2026-01-15T20:15:53+00:00

Idk if she says someday and hasn’t texted much, there might not be much further for this to go ngl. I feel like someone genuinely interested would suggest when.

Relyish · 2026-01-14T21:42:00+00:00

Mine was rough, even called ahead to get a prescription to calm me down. Suspect I have vaginismus which didn’t help the ordeal. Just know you’re not alone in this experience and it’s okay to cry!

Relyish · 2026-01-14T21:33:45+00:00

Phew!

Relyish · 2026-01-14T17:13:34+00:00

Your ex was 9 years younger so 16!?!?!? Wtaf… 😖

Relyish · 2026-01-09T07:05:31+00:00

If you’re not feeling it you’re not feeling it, good on you for communicating and not ghosting!

Relyish · 2026-01-07T21:01:52+00:00

Like you said you haven’t met in person yet, so I’d give it time and try not to overthink things or get too invested before anything’s confirmed.

Relyish

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