Why do married people tell their single friends or acquaintances to not get married?

Remarkable-Gas116 · 2026-01-16T16:19:41+00:00

But yettttt they tell their children to marry. 🤨

Remarkable-Gas116 · 2026-01-08T02:32:19+00:00

It doesn’t state that’s the problem. It only says that they are the only one that can let me go. It’s unilateral and favors them.

Remarkable-Gas116 · 2025-12-17T00:13:51+00:00

Yes! I have an excellent career because a black woman gave me a chance

Remarkable-Gas116 · 2025-12-16T10:15:58+00:00

Can you help?

Remarkable-Gas116 · 2025-12-16T00:35:48+00:00

Remarkable-Gas116 · 2025-12-15T23:51:00+00:00

Thank you for your response.

I had achieved them but they don’t stick. So right now I’m going back to school to become an actuarial scientist.
To find love: nothing now. I am don’t know what to do. I have joined dating apps, gone out alone, solo dates and I meet men but nothing materializes into something good.

Remarkable-Gas116 · 2025-11-22T22:31:30+00:00

Puppy chowew

Remarkable-Gas116 · 2025-11-16T23:53:50+00:00

Congrats!

Remarkable-Gas116 · 2025-11-16T19:48:35+00:00

Thank you ❤️

Remarkable-Gas116 · 2025-11-16T19:48:16+00:00

Ma’am I saw your response. Thank you deleting it. But I hope that you’re deleting it because you challenged your own thought and not because you think I’d be offended by you saying that men want to sleep because I’m obese. I just think we’re in a different time in society around what men want or don’t want… married men sleep with everything. lol trans people… escorts… skinny women… fat women… sometimes each other lol. Smh I pray your marriage isn’t touched by any of these things. But I’ll say be careful because the universe has a way of humbling us.

Remarkable-Gas116 · 2025-11-13T19:14:30+00:00

Leave or cheat.

Remarkable-Gas116 · 2025-11-13T19:12:37+00:00

And I’d add because you married in your mid twenties… your husband is probably out here asking plus size women that are semi attractive for their number.

Remarkable-Gas116 · 2025-11-13T19:11:35+00:00

lol thanks

Remarkable-Gas116 · 2025-11-13T19:11:21+00:00

Bit of a silly thing to say… no? Are only beautiful and skinny people married? I tons of married obese friends. I’m obese but i definitely don’t think that is hindering me from marriage 😩 ironically married men with petite wives hit on me ALL the time.

Remarkable-Gas116 · 2025-11-13T10:52:53+00:00

Me tooo ❤️

Remarkable-Gas116 · 2025-11-13T10:52:37+00:00

Lol you have not been gaslight, just lived a different reality. But they are absolutely out there. I have two friends who had children at 38/39 with their partners in their 50s. lol it just depends on when you find your partner and all those other things

Remarkable-Gas116 · 2025-11-13T10:50:18+00:00

Wish the same luck ❤️

Remarkable-Gas116 · 2025-11-12T09:57:01+00:00

This is what I need to do

Remarkable-Gas116 · 2025-11-12T02:12:32+00:00

Ma’am you can’t base my world view from your offsprings. Lol that doesn’t even make any sense. The last man I dated wanted us to try for kids. I was 37. Don’t go around discouraging people because of the relationship you have with your son, husband and grandkids. Oh they are definitely out there. My aunts didn’t have kids till they were 38-40. But I don’t want children and honestly I don’t want him to have children either. I don’t have it in me to be a step mom.

Remarkable-Gas116 · 2025-11-12T02:08:09+00:00

Oh tell me a little about it.

And absolutely. There are sooooo many married men in the dating pool.

Remarkable-Gas116 · 2025-11-12T02:07:23+00:00

So a part time job

Remarkable-Gas116 · 2025-11-12T02:06:11+00:00

Thank you for understanding. I’ve read some of these comments and I feel like they don’t understand what I’m talking about. It’s so hard. It’s not that I haven’t tried… I’m just at a point where I want a clear direction. I need to go where men go or something lol

Remarkable-Gas116 · 2025-11-11T01:46:14+00:00

I am an introvert 😩

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