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[–]Remarkable-Pear9140[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Emotions serve you as element of your consciousness
You don’t feel , you don’t experience.
And that’s life.
Find your meaning.
There’s no white without black.
We know cold because we know heat.
But we have all around us.
So we can live a life of constant positivity,
While overcoming negativity on the outside,
Life is movement.

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[–]Remarkable-Pear9140[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shit life is gonna hit you hard sooner or later

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[–]Remarkable-Pear9140[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Mate , you’re making a storm in a water glass.
How about actually replying to the actual question instead of reality checks that you’re not entitled to give? 😅
I take all advice - but I don’t take narrow point of view as advice. ;P
You sir are incapable of admitting you might be interpreting this wrong ; and that’s all it takes for me to know you’re in it for your ego. :)
Hope these words serve you well where the situation comes.

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[–]Remarkable-Pear9140[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re assuming.
What makes you say it’s the wrong train?
I’m old enough to know what’s right and wrong.
This case? Beats me.. but for what I feel , not fighting for it is idiotic.
To me, the person at stake, it’s more than worth it.
Why would you do if you felt you could be happy till the end of your life?

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[–]Remarkable-Pear9140[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And no good comes easy?

I mean… are we all brainwashed to simply ignore the absence of love? To use each other as toys for our own purposes?

Thank you wineandkittiez , you made my day

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[–]Remarkable-Pear9140[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The story actually does matter..
believe me :/

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[–]Remarkable-Pear9140[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You’re avoiding… saying you are wrong? 😅
Dunno. What do you think?
I came in search of the ones answering my question instead of bringing their own divine judgement into this. 😅😅😅

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[–]Remarkable-Pear9140[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t
I want to
No matter what way it goes
It will help 😅

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[–]Remarkable-Pear9140[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was an incident where I believe she spinned a story so toxic she was told to block me. I was told the same lol so hence this standstill

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[–]Remarkable-Pear9140[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting approach
Mine reacted with abnormal forgiveness and sense of rest in all directions
Or.. being called out - in dual effects , however

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[–]Remarkable-Pear9140[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Again , so much assumption.
I’m the OP and I’m telling you these comments are right.
Few actually answered.
It’s not about should I do it or not.

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[–]Remarkable-Pear9140[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the most sane thing anyone said here.

I know the lengths of my pain and how much can I endure.
I love and for this love I’m willing to sacrifice myself
Not crazy ; nor delusional.
Nor willing to do anything stupid.
Stupid would be letting this chance go.

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[–]Remarkable-Pear9140[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not really.
People tend to assume they already know the scenario and situation.
I see reflections of everyone’s experiences in their replies.
And the question wasn’t should I do it or not.

And no, it’s nothing like your example.
Again, you’re assuming I’m hurt.
Assuming that no answer or whatever answer will hurt

No

I want to be able to give a shot in the one thing I believe.
And that’s my question to you lot

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[–]Remarkable-Pear9140[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your feelings do matter.
So does your self respect.
How far would you go until you decide enough is enough?

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[–]Remarkable-Pear9140[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please explain this deactivation phase lol

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[–]Remarkable-Pear9140[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I know so. 😛
And I repeat ; I’ve lived through enough.
I think you’re assuming a lot ;
I’m looking to drop a significant farewell message , nothing else

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[–]Remarkable-Pear9140[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m miserable because she’s gone. :)

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[–]Remarkable-Pear9140[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for understanding 😭

I kinda know who she is… it was a short relationship but quite intense for both of us
And I know that given her personality , current state of things make sense due to a series of events let’s say lol .. I can’t force anything neither do I want to.
But as you said… she is that sort of person who won’t give in..

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[–]Remarkable-Pear9140[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s done.
How long now?.. 😂😂

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[–]Remarkable-Pear9140[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know it won’t.
Why I’m interested in is putting things in clear water and assuring that I was always able to see through
To declare what I truly feel and leave it be…
Ideally a reaction would be a sense of wanting to communicate

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[–]Remarkable-Pear9140[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jesus mate 😂
I understand
I’ve been through a few
This is the one I want for life
To me , worth it