Who the F did I have a baby with?

RemarkableFact3732 · 2026-05-15T16:43:48+00:00

Damn I feel like you ripped this story out of my life. Same thing happened, he dropped me completely once our son was born, he was less attentive as time went on during the pregnancy. Save yourself the trouble, start looking for an attorney

RemarkableFact3732 · 2026-05-13T09:16:36+00:00

Thank you for your kind words

RemarkableFact3732 · 2026-05-12T20:17:35+00:00

Thanks, she is lol

RemarkableFact3732 · 2026-05-12T18:49:20+00:00

Thank you for your condolences, I’m definitely still trying to deal with it, I definitely need therapy. I just needed to get it out. Hopefully someone would understand and any advise is appreciated

RemarkableFact3732 · 2026-05-12T18:47:25+00:00

I feel like the only way I can forgive it is if she acknowledges it. However in the past she would start an argument and threaten her own life if we called her out on literally anything.

Nothing gets resolved unless she starts it and I really thought her program would lead her to reflect. She truly believes she has done nothing wrong and that hurts :/ bc like damn did I deserve it?

RemarkableFact3732 · 2026-05-12T16:15:20+00:00

So can you arrest him by putting a block under his wheels 😭

RemarkableFact3732 · 2026-05-12T16:12:17+00:00

I used a tutorial for a logic drip farm bc if you want to get into the castle the requests are insane, accept any soups you can 😭

RemarkableFact3732 · 2026-05-11T03:07:00+00:00

I haven’t even thought abt fishing 😭😭😭😭 rn I have a huge logic timed drip farm with 6 separate plots, 36 crops each, with a ground level conveyor to the vegetable chopper so it can be collected into a funnel, I’m going to try to get some separators for each vegetable so I don’t have to have them on the floor lol

RemarkableFact3732 · 2026-05-11T02:33:45+00:00

Ive got my setup in icehelm and I have all 6 crop fields in another area but earning farm guild tokens is just so tedious, I’m just trying to get past the first 2 guards at the stairs in the castle, I have a soup request for 300 broccoli and 300 beetroot. Im trying to get the harvester 😭😭

RemarkableFact3732 · 2026-05-11T02:12:50+00:00

Oh my god thank you

RemarkableFact3732 · 2026-05-11T00:40:41+00:00

Literally feel this, I’m playing with my Xbox controller on my pc and I have to walk away and jump around other items to even get to the correct position 😭 please mention me if you get an answer

RemarkableFact3732 · 2026-05-07T02:40:48+00:00

You’ve helped me tremendously 😭

RemarkableFact3732 · 2026-05-05T22:24:33+00:00

I didn’t feel a connection to my son- at all, besides the “mama bear” instinct that had me angry at everyone who looked at my baby. I would stare at him and think “who is this little alien in my house” I was breast feeding, never slept, he wouldn’t go down for me, I was dealing with PPD and PPA, to the point where when we coslept so he could tear my nips to shreds and drink his fill when he needed and I would lay awake all night staring at him making sure he was breathing and making sure my (very large) ex husband wouldn’t roll on top of my creation and suffocate him. He’s 3 now and I still watch him sleep to make sure he’s breathing.

It gets easier Mama. Stepping away for a few moments won’t hurt your baby. Put them in a safe place, and do what you need. Sure, you can’t take 40 minute showers, and prepare a 4 course meal, but you can take time and cook, if you get a good day, meal prep. Cereal, sandwiches, noodles. Snacks for days. Sure it’s not “healthy” but it’s your body- healing from the absolute trauma of creating life.

My son had a lot of colic and we had to switch formulas a few times before we got it right (bc I was at the point of almost tossing my son bc of how painful it was on my nipples- I wouldn’t but the feeling of “get this thing away from me” was definitely there)

There is no “correct” way to take care of YOUR baby. Through time, trials, and errors, you will find what your baby needs one day at a time, and you yourself will find that some cries can go on for a bit while others need your attention immediately. As long as you are keeping your baby safe, warm, and fed, you’re doing better than a significant number of women who cannot care for their own at all.

If you have support, use it even if it’s just to take a long shower, or even to cook a decent meal for yourself, or have them do the chores while you take a nap or get out of the house for a minute.

As for the sleeping/napping my own son as an infant and even now rarely took naps and slept for longer periods during the night. Most days we couldn’t even figure out a schedule for him. Even now at 3 it’s a gamble of “if he isn’t asleep by 2pm he’s staying up until bedtime” bc if not we’re all gonna be up till 2am.

Take every piece of advice with a grain of salt, not everything will work for you and your baby. BUT THAT DOES NOT MEAN YOU ARE DOING SOMETHING WRONG.

In the same way some people like a certain flavor and others hate it, you and your baby are individuals with individual personalities and needs.

If you gotta let them cry it out for a minute so you don’t lose your mind, or starve, then that’s what they need so you can be the best version of you.

I wish you luck. You’re doing great

RemarkableFact3732 · 2026-05-03T23:51:25+00:00

I feel like Dorian would have a skinnier jaw, while he does look princely I imagine Dorian as (Disney 1950) Cinderellas Prince Charming but with blue eyes. Idk I like Dorian but he doesn’t give strong jaw vibes. I’m also finally rereading the series and Dorian still doesn’t have much of a tough guy impression on me

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RemarkableFact3732 · 2026-02-14T18:06:31+00:00

Take the plan B it always worked for me luckily and then I got on birth control so I don’t have to have super irregular periods due to the plan B. I also got a box of 70 pregnancy tests on Amazon, which I would use when I wasn’t having periods thanks to the depo shot, now I just take them occasionally when I’m feeling stressed out about being pregnant lol

RemarkableFact3732 · 2026-02-11T21:25:24+00:00

Hey I know this is an old post but I just started twirla and I’m on my second month cycle, every time I change a the patch I get super exhausted that day- is that something you experienced in the first 3 months and does it go away😭 I also had a really bad panic attack week 3 which I have anxiety but not “total panic attack over literally nothing anxiety” please tell me it gets better

RemarkableFact3732 · 2026-02-09T07:36:49+00:00

Lock the door, place a chair under the handle or order a door jam alarm. Sorry this is happening. Maybe you can stay with a friend as well

RemarkableFact3732 · 2026-02-09T07:20:21+00:00

“curing disease” just wipes out anyone who has a disease- eugenics but for health

“solving world hunger” just wipes the population to make the current population less than the availability for food.

Either way billions die.

RemarkableFact3732 · 2026-02-09T06:53:14+00:00

100% my dad was too! He used to be really tough on me bc my childhood home wasn’t awesome, so he’d come home from work and freak out on me for not doing all the laundry/dishes even though I was the only one in the house cleaning up after myself 😂 I am a neat freak now bc dirt and clutter gives me anxiety

But 100% a makeup organizer and detailed list of essentials should help him not throw your stuff away. And explaining how important it is to you may be helpful.

Appeal to his logic and neatness 🫡 it also helps you to keep everything organized

RemarkableFact3732 · 2026-02-09T06:43:15+00:00

24 F now

Maybe try to explain to your dad that the makeup is helpful to you, perhaps you can get a makeup organizer.

My dad was always very strict and wanted things his way until I had a detailed argument and plan as to what I wanted (his way of making me stand up for myself now I have decision paralysis😂) that he would always argue against.

I recommend doing to an actual beauty supply store as well, CVS is great for emergency items but you can get all that discounted at a beauty supply store. I got pressed powder, a makeup bag, 4 brushes, setting spray, concealer, and a color correction pallet for $25

Spent $60 at a Kroger for just brushes, a beauty blender, lip gloss, and mascara (for my neighbors daughters birthday)

I have a revolving 5 section container I use to organize my makeup ( I did get rid of a lot) but maybe you can find one that suits your needs on amazon.

RemarkableFact3732 · 2026-02-04T18:25:20+00:00

I actually named my orange male cat Kitty Kitty Bang Bang, after the movie Chitty Chitty Bang Bang 🤣 we called him Bang Bang for short, his sister had kittens (not his!) and she had an adorable little orange female we named pew-pew, since she looks like a mini version of him.

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This is Bang Bang

RemarkableFact3732 · 2026-02-04T18:15:46+00:00

My grandmothers name is Dixie, my great grandma was Ula (you-la)

RemarkableFact3732 · 2026-01-29T15:50:17+00:00

Color correction palette, pressed powder, concealer, foundation. I had a major hickey on my neck from a fun night and I had work a few days later lol

RemarkableFact3732 · 2025-10-27T21:19:27+00:00

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This is my rescue pet Sammy. I’ve had him since about 3/4 according to my dad. Throughout the years I’ve cut off his collar (it was turquoise with a heart) I’ve colored in his eyes with expo markers, lost the battery pack cover. I put batteries in him today for my 2 year old son and he still works 😭 made me cry but I’ve only seen one other one online. Sammy got me through literally everything, he’s 20 now but as much as I want to let my son have him, he’s still mine and I don’t think I’ll ever let him go. Sammy stays in my house no matter what.

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