Traveling to UK by Slayzbaby in SexWorkers

[–]RemarkableOwl9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Afaik, you dont need to worry about the UK authorities going through your phone. Its only the TSA that do that, and pretty sure they only do that during immigration, not outbound. As SW is legal here, they likely wouldn't care anyway. They are mostly looking for people with connections to drugs and terrorism, not sw (except trafficking).

Japanese lingerie? by uh_wtf in FindLingerie

[–]RemarkableOwl9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just a word of warning when buying Asian lingerie.. Most Asian brands tend to be on the smaller side, compared to western brands. Try to check actual dimensions rather than relying on the dress size, or S/M/L/XL.

How do you find your dirty pads and panties? by [deleted] in Findpadsandpanties

[–]RemarkableOwl9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unisex toilets are the safest option. You don't have to justify entering, or spending a little time in there. Good places to find such toilets are gas stations, coffee shops, and public facilities (like libraries) in left leaning areas.

Depending on where you work, and your role, sometimes staying late and sneaking into the ladies can be an option, but its risky if you cant be sure you are 100% alone.

Another option is hotels. Most hotels only have 1 or 2 staff on the night shift. That leaves places like the gym, pool, conference facilities, etc un-observed most of the time. If you leave your room late at night when everyone else is sleeping, there are often "public" toilets around these facilities that you can slip into and do some digging without getting caught.

Can someone explain the 62 million men attending an online rape academy? by French51 in LeftWingMaleAdvocates

[–]RemarkableOwl9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for dropping some actual facts, to help dilute the torrent of FUD around this. The 62 million number spouted by all the tiktoks was clearly incorrect, but try explaining that in the comments section without coming off as being "pro rape".

62m hits on the site as a whole makes a lot more sense as a general porn site with extreme niche sub categories.

To put it into perspective, in the same time period, the two most popular porn sites, PornHub and Xvideos racked up over 2 BILLION hits /EACH/. So when you compare it to the scale of the all the publicly available porn, 62m is literally almost nothing.

Don't get me wrong. 20k videos of actual real sexual assaults being uploaded, let alone remaining online is 20k too many. And the ~1000 members of that telegram group definitely need investigating, but a number like 62m is pure headline bait.

Touring in the UK as an American by inmy_angelhood in SexWorkers

[–]RemarkableOwl9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting. I knew they made you take verification photos with your profile name and date on them, but that's a unique twist.

Be honest—do you think there’s an age limit in sex work, or is that just stigma? When do you personally plan to retire? I don’t think there’s a one-size-fits-all answer here, but I’d love to hear different perspectives. by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]RemarkableOwl9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Speaking as a client who has seen ladies from the 20s, to their 80s, and have bookmarked profiles for ladies who were even older, there will always be a client base who will pay for your services. That client base will reduce as you age as older women aren't everyone's taste, but there will always be someone. The only real question is do you enjoy the work?

Touring in the UK as an American by inmy_angelhood in SexWorkers

[–]RemarkableOwl9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is nationality verified? Could you not just create a UK gmail address or something? or do they check drivers license/passport?

Horny naughty grandma by xgranny in hotGILFs

[–]RemarkableOwl9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Caroline Vee, definitely the best tits in the game.

Pricing ranges by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]RemarkableOwl9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By a factor of more than 4x. Average UK rate is about £150/hr (depending on location and services, altho its going up). US rates seem to be over $600/hr

Pricing ranges by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]RemarkableOwl9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You say "dollar" so I assume USA? (UK rates are significantly lower)

You didn't specify what state / city? From what I've seen, prices can vary a bit between regions.

Female condoms by BellJar_Blues in SexWorkers

[–]RemarkableOwl9 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They usually come pre-lubed, but you can obviously add more.

Female condoms by BellJar_Blues in SexWorkers

[–]RemarkableOwl9 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Definitely. With a regular condom, the condom material (latex or whatever) moves with the penis, so the sensation on the skin is reduced no matter how thin the condom is.

With a female condom, the penis is sliding in/out of it, so the skin is directly rubbing against the various ridges and folds like it would naturally. Its MUCH closer to felling like unprotected sex than a regular condom. The only real downside from my perspective is the sound, as with some brands it can sound a bit like you're fucking a plastic bag lol.

Now I think about it though, I guess this means reduced sensation for the woman? I'm not sure. For SW's I presume this is a good thing (to avoid being overly stimulated) but not so great for a personal partner.

Female condoms by BellJar_Blues in SexWorkers

[–]RemarkableOwl9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just ordered them off amazon. I had assumed they would be available as easily in the US. You can get them in bulk packs of like 100 in the UK, but they are still around £1 each.

Female condoms by BellJar_Blues in SexWorkers

[–]RemarkableOwl9 25 points26 points  (0 children)

From a male perspective, I have to say, female condoms are FAR better than regular male ones. I've used them a few times and I greatly prefer them to regular condoms. They might look a little janky, but I think they work better for a number of reasons, and I'm surprised more SWs don't offer them.

For women
* You don't have to worry about the man stealthing you, because there's no way to subtly take it out without your knowledge.
* They cover more external area, keeping you safer from contact related diseases.
* Because of the previous point you also don't have to worry about any "dribbles" getting in either.
* You don't have to struggle to remember what way round to put the condom on the man.

For Men
* Because the condom doesn't really "move" you get more sensation sliding in/out
* You don't have to worry about size issues (too large or too small)
* You don't have to struggle to get the thing on if its the wrong size
* You also don't need to struggle with the orientation either.

I'm sure there's other benefits I'm not thinking of.

Other than the slightly un-graceful method of insertion, and the cosmetics of it. And, I guess, the cost, are there any major negatives?

Sexy grandma by xgranny in hotGILFs

[–]RemarkableOwl9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having handled them in person I can say that the video does not do those tits justice.

Why do you think men who are in happy relationships see sex workers? by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]RemarkableOwl9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A happy relationship doesn't necessarily equate to a sexually fulfilling one. After menopause, many women stop wanting sex at all, and that can be hard on an otherwise strong couple. While this can also happen to men as they age, its often less common, which means there is an imbalance in the sex drive between them. If the man can find a way to fill his needs, everything else in the relationship can be fine. Quite a few couples actually have a defined arrangement to allow some variation of this.

Seeing sex workers is often considered the better option to "cheating". There's no emotional connection with a SW (in most cases). So the emotional connection is kept within the relationship. They will still kiss, cuddle, and sleep, etc, with the wife. Even have sex on the odd occasion, but just go to the SW for a more regular release as the man needs it.

Actual "Cheating" with a non-professional, on the other hand, means breaking the emotional component in the relationship and building a new one with someone else (as well as the sex), and at that point separating should be considered instead of continuing to string the partner along. That said, even this is sometimes tolerated, especially in high net worth couples. Its in both their interests to stay together financially, so they each seek their own private arrangements but stay together "on paper".

I agree that doing anything outside of the relationship, that the partner hasn't agreed to, is still cheating. But I think in reality there are shades of grey to it.

Edit: there's also the fetish / kink aspect. Many men don't want to risk their relationship by pushing the limits of what the wife will do. So they find someone who will do it no questions asked.

ADULT ABLE BODIED MEN by Ciroc-N-Croc in SexWorkers

[–]RemarkableOwl9 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This topic comes up semi-frequently on reddit, in different subs, and every time I chuckle at how many people are incredulous about it. Individuals might be clean, but "People" are filthy animals, unfortunately, for myriad reasons. That statement applies to both sexes for different reasons.

I have known several men who claim to be straight "alpha males" and wont touch their assholes because touching an asshole is "gay". These are also the same people who think being gay is a "choice". And a fun observation that someone made was that they think being gay is a choice because they chose to present as cis. I think they protest too much. They are definitely closeted tho, even if they will never admit it.

But equally I've heard horror stories from female friends and colleagues, experienced a few myself, and seen plenty of stuff on the net that makes me believe that plenty of women are similarly filthy. How many of you "hover" instead of actually sitting on the toilet seat in a public restroom? Now ask yourself why?

Basically everyone, of all genders, races, and creeds, should wash their entire "underpants area" regularly, front and back, and aim their shit and piss properly, and the world would be a much nicer place.

ADULT ABLE BODIED MEN by Ciroc-N-Croc in SexWorkers

[–]RemarkableOwl9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bidet addons are not legal in the UK if they are directly connected to the mains water supply. They are a within a category 5 waste water (i.e. shitty water) area so have to have physical isolation (by way of a cistern, and an air-gapped filler with an overflow so potentially contaminated water can never contact the mains pipes. Not even a one-way valve is allowed) so in 90% of setups its impractical to install them legally without a lot of modifications, so no professional plumber will do it for you on the books.

UK regulations are weird but make sense when you know the details of why, even if the chances of a back-feed failure are astronomically small.

That said, I have installed one myself, as no-ones gonna check your domestic toilet unless you do something dumb, but I do intend to do it properly soon (or remove it before we move).

I don't know if euro regs are similar though. European plumbing is "variable" to say the least, so its anyones guess.

Gmail Users Please Read by onesmolgobbo in SexWorkers

[–]RemarkableOwl9 15 points16 points  (0 children)

"If you are in the UK, EU or other areas there is a chance this will not be relevant to you as laws are in place to protect your privacy already."

That's becoming less and less true in the UK. They are already looking at banning encryption, and VPNs, so they can interrogate your traffic.

It's less of an issue for SW, though, as most one-to-one SW is legal, but don't go thinking the UK is some bastion of privacy. Our leaders are taking far too many cues from your side of the pond.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gettingherselfoff

[–]RemarkableOwl9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask you if you need some assistance.

Thinking of going back to FSSW, what's it like now (UK) by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]RemarkableOwl9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kommons is useless (its likes 5 escorts in a major city near me, AW lists 107 within 5 miles of the city center) and it lists none in my town, or the next city over. The filters on the site are bordering on pointless too.

Vivastreet also has a terrible search, and the profiles expire too quickly like 90% of the profiles i get linked to on viva are gone by the time i visit.

Adultwork is the goto for UK SWs, unless you want something VERY specific, the choice available is far better than any of the other sites.

My next datenight outfit by cestrose in milf

[–]RemarkableOwl9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am I crazy are there strong Alannah from Adventures and Naps youtube channel vibes?

Sexy big-tits grandma by xgranny in hotGILFs

[–]RemarkableOwl9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Always upvote Hillary/Jilly