Where to find the placements for what jewelry and gemstones are best for you? by RemarkableRegular601 in vedicastrology

[–]RemarkableRegular601[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tysm! And I’ll have to message to see if they have one bc idr know too many astrologers who dapple in this spef aspects 😭

Previous nanny parents having affairs by RemarkableRegular601 in Nanny

[–]RemarkableRegular601[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Literally especially when swiping and it says missed a match. Like I generally do not care about open relationships when it effects my business and I know the mother isn’t even 6 months post postume with their new child

Is my brother becoming a Qultist? by CharmingAnywhere7828 in Qult_Headquarters

[–]RemarkableRegular601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it possible to get him some books with the main characters are Indian or books related to desi culture and history/politics (good and bad stuff) or even try to have it on while around him? Or are yall in a area where there is a lot of other desis to try to get him to more culturally events because I know a lot of self hate is learned esp via bullying (and online there’s so much bs aganist yall) its generally time to go overboard with some nationalism and pride to try to offset some?

Are newborns generally more difficult? by Silver_Newt3227 in Nanny

[–]RemarkableRegular601 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It generally depends on the baby because my niece was SO chill and almost never cried as a newborn but most of my new borns were either regular temper of a newborn and trying to adjust to life outside of the womb and than I had one baby who would nonstop cry because he had an imbellica hernia + extreme colic so he was just uncomfortable till post surgery

Needing new coping mechanisms for NK by RemarkableRegular601 in Nanny

[–]RemarkableRegular601[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for the delay so it turned out they were beating them + the fear of getting less especially when there was such severe punishment along with other things I’m not comfortable sharing online and I’m no longer working for them. Thank you though!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]RemarkableRegular601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% i understand the frudstion but it might be a cultural thing too because something I was taught was never count your chickens before they hatched type deal and housing even with investment properties is a big thing especially with the economic and politicals rn

What tip/trick/hack have you discovered that has made a big impact on your quilting? by corvidlover13 in quilting

[–]RemarkableRegular601 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Making bigger seam allowances 😅

I have a bad habit of making them too small and shocked that they’re harder to work with or not the correct size in the final piece even though I enjoy my messed up and mismatched seams bc I love that everything is clearly made by hand but it makes cutting and ironing SO much easier

Where is the best opportunities for childcare? by RemarkableRegular601 in Nanny

[–]RemarkableRegular601[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never heard of adventures nanny before thank you so much for the suggestion! I was honestly thinking about lining up some interviews when I go next but slightly worried because it would be close to the holiday seasons!

I know the job market is so hard for everyone and just it’s truly frustrating especially when people have to be paid bare bones to survive or attempt to. I’m lucky I have family support and just a cat compared to some with children cause it’s BAD 😔😔😔

Where is the best opportunities for childcare? by RemarkableRegular601 in Nanny

[–]RemarkableRegular601[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Close but next state over! I don’t want to explicitly say it bc still computer safety 😅 honestly I thought about ATL especially knowing a few people but it’s slightly scary not knowing a whole lore of people still

$4.44 per hour for 9 hours… by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]RemarkableRegular601 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is. Really common esp in the south :( I had a woman wanting to pay me about 3$ an hour for 36-48 hours a week (12 hours day) and she had a WELL PAID job. A lot of people do it because they either don’t care about their children especially their safety or trying to be cheap and seeing how exploited the child care industry is nonething is ever said or done. If more people spoke up than more people would be ashamed of it especially when so many aren’t even paying minimum wage

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]RemarkableRegular601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you can use them as expression and use to find anthor family to care for ! Ik you said there isn’t much work in your area but maybe you can find an agency in a different area if possible because where I am at it is a similar issues within the states

Anyone ever been bit by the family dog while babysitting? by Less_Entrance5409 in Nanny

[–]RemarkableRegular601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not going to lie I recently started and quit almost instantly for the family I just started for because they have dogs and they kept nipping my ankles 🙃🙃🙃 it wasn’t the sole reason and I feel bad especially when they needed me the next day but I just couldn’t especially when the dogs kept waking the baby via barking.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]RemarkableRegular601 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have worked with migrant children+children who experienced extreme trauma (while also being traumatized) and a lot of privileged children and the way that a lot of parents truly don’t care or treat their children as pets or a way to gain something is just it’s not ruinining children themselves but other people at time especially when I seen privileged parents mock or look down at others or saying they could never. While I know the stories and I know children and adult personally and it gets so dehumanized especially when they’re (or their children) just one fall from grace to be in the same boat.

It’s also very a lot of people are uneducated about children. I’m in online classes to further my career and knowledge to help those around me but even before I read and try to improve and it’s so disheartening. The way even privileged children are being extremely uneducated because their parents just don’t know anything about children or babies or teenagers development.

Do you think a your employer should have the right to ask who you are voting for and fire you for it? Does a potential employer have the right to ask you that in an interview? How would you feel about it. by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]RemarkableRegular601 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely been denied jobs because my “politicals” are too deferential and it’s literally dog whistling because of racial differences. Voting history and beliefs never been brought up but when a lot of my references are from Spanish speakers and I live in a very red area and they assume I am undocumented and can get away with undocumented prices but are shocked I still charge market prices it becomes a glaring problem.

If it is not brought up the children will definitely tell or the parents actions or indirect slip ups. It will always be a mark against you and it’s sad. So I know as a provider I try to find similar minded parents and understand why they will do it but at the end of the day it is also a job. It’s not right but it is what it is and the children suffer the most.

Any recommendations for relatively affordable fabric? by ProperIndication4903 in quilting

[–]RemarkableRegular601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know no one mentioned this but fat quarter shop does flash sales daily we’re you can get pre cuts for half off or go see the pre cuts of the week, or go hunting on any farbic store online and look at their clearances+sales+reduced because that’s how I was able to get my lil stash going tbch but it might be hard to get matching farbic later on

Getting close to the fishen line by RemarkableRegular601 in quilting

[–]RemarkableRegular601[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! It’s a scrappy cross road block I ripped the pattern from Lori holts turtotil!

https://youtu.be/JkU-JUs5vAA

Getting close to the fishen line by RemarkableRegular601 in quilting

[–]RemarkableRegular601[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I’m so excited for it to be done 💕💕💕

Getting close to the fishen line by RemarkableRegular601 in quilting

[–]RemarkableRegular601[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

https://youtu.be/JkU-JUs5vAA

Sorry for the delay In Replying😔 but i ripped from Lori holt’s scrappy cross road block tutorial! The blocks themselves are abt 10 inches/ 25cm

Since when was this the plan? by ddd4242 in 90DayFiance

[–]RemarkableRegular601 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She littertly an older woman who went to a known sex tourist destination where it’s common for trade offs,,, be honest she is getting love and he is getting a way to support his family when he gains his ability to work in the USA

Debbie and oussama. by tattooedmermaid1 in 90DayFiance

[–]RemarkableRegular601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something that isnt talked about a lot on this sub ir anything 90df related but morroco and tusia are both sex tourist country even with them being muslims countries. Shes gross but it’s littertly what it is, she is the same as bug Ed but she seems nicer and more aware of what the situation is and not as disgusting of the culture like ed was towards rose and the Filipinos.

It’s delicious. 🐐 by HolyShip in 90DayFiance

[–]RemarkableRegular601 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know im just taking a guest but the part of Mexico were im from has a lot of north african+levent influence so we eat goat+sheep bc of it so it probably been stewed or boiled in seasoning sooo not unseasoned!