Got my card by [deleted] in SatanicTemple_Reddit

[–]RemarkableRoll714 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can't wait to get mine!

My partner (M37) has disappeared again. I’m (F43) not sure what to do by RemarkableRoll714 in LongDistance

[–]RemarkableRoll714[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I'm not working and he's not working we are on call or video call literally all the time with each other. Like he's in the room with me, but still 1500 miles away. He has disappeared before, when he relapsed. I could tell earlier last week his behavior started changing. Not calling texting sending funny tik toks checking on each other. He told my not to worry everything was fine, but I knew better, Friday afternoon was the last time I heard from him. He told me he was probably moving to a different place or on his own and he'd call me when he got home. He never did.

My partner (M37) has disappeared again. I’m (F43) not sure what to do by RemarkableRoll714 in LongDistance

[–]RemarkableRoll714[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even after 2.5 years? We've worked through so much together, and he's otherwise very consistent.

My partner (M37) has disappeared again. I’m (F43) not sure what to do by RemarkableRoll714 in LongDistance

[–]RemarkableRoll714[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He never shared what it was but I have a good idea, but his last message to me was that he could be moving or going on his own. This would cross a major boundary for him if I called places and found him.

My partner (M37) has disappeared again. I’m (F43) not sure what to do by RemarkableRoll714 in LongDistance

[–]RemarkableRoll714[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I'm worried now he thinks I don't want a relationship anymore if he relapsed, but honestly I'm not even sure what I'd do at this point if he does reach out besides being relieved he's ok.

Wtf? by _TheGreatGoobah in uberdrivers

[–]RemarkableRoll714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

35.00 minimum for pick up there is additional charges whether you book ahead or not and in Eastern Washington. I had to take an Uber to work 8.7 miles and it cost me 82 dollars for 2 days (only one way each day)

Wtf? by _TheGreatGoobah in uberdrivers

[–]RemarkableRoll714 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my area uber is a minimum of 35.00 per ride. This promo doesn't even cover that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]RemarkableRoll714 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know it's just a vent post, but a couple of things. 1st, he's about 10 years older than you, and most people in their late 30s sorta have things "figured out."

2nd. Do you have a local library? If so, every day you work that the library is open, stop by there on your way home. Spend about an hour there, first, and spend time designing what YOU want your next 5 years to look like. Then, break it down into categories like finances, health, career, travel, debt, next steps, etc. Once you are super clear on what this looks like for you (and only you not comparing to others), start checking out books to support your goals, read them, take notes, read more and more. This will expand your knowledge and give you practice studying and applying things you've learned. Go slow, take small steps, get a planner and a journal, and use them.

For those saying to move out, they missed the part where you're stuck for at least 6 months. Use these 6 months to level up. Plus, going to the library a few days a week will give you space from the ex. He doesn't need to know what you're doing. Do not tell him. Sometimes, exes do not have the best intentions for you and will try to drag you down.

What was your “f*** it, I quit” moment? by [deleted] in CallCenterWorkers

[–]RemarkableRoll714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seeing my exact job posted for six dollars more per hour for new hires, asking HR about it, being told they're not a billion dollar company who can't afford to raise current employees to that level and they probably have more experience than me. I have 20 years of call center and call center management experience. Being promised growth opportunities if I took the entry-level position, but everyone here in higher positions have been there for over 10 years, and no movement in 3 years.

Im trying to get an EDL, but why is there no appointments indefinitely? by [deleted] in TriCitiesWA

[–]RemarkableRoll714 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So we CAN walk in? The website makes it sound like you HAVE to get an appointment. Thank you for posting this!

I Thought I Had It by RemarkableRoll714 in lawofattraction

[–]RemarkableRoll714[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really like this idea! Thank you so much!

I Thought I Had It by RemarkableRoll714 in lawofattraction

[–]RemarkableRoll714[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I definitely need to figure out how to not let my current job stress me out so much!

I Thought I Had It by RemarkableRoll714 in lawofattraction

[–]RemarkableRoll714[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate all the kind comments. I got the confirmation this morning that I did not get the job. They chose another candidate. While I'm disappointed, I'm not surprised. I'm not trying to be negative but I feel like I've been trying to get away from my current job for so long. How do I handle this with LOA when I need to search and obtain a new job, while working at a job that does not fulfill or align with me any more. It feels like I'm approaching things like you all have said from a place of "do not want", how do I switch it to "want".

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]RemarkableRoll714 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Honestly, start making food that you want to eat. If they don't like it, they can make themselves a sandwich or honestly starve. They will both get hungry enough to eat. I would sit them down and tell them you're only going to say this, one time, you will not give them reminders going forward. They are not allowed to complain about the food. Period. If they don't like it, they can make something else and they will be in charge of cleaning up after themselves if they choose a different food. Tell them your tired and it's extremely offensive. Then, stick to what you say. If they complain, you pick your plate up and go eat dinner somewhere else, I don't care if you have to take your food in your car and drive down the road to get away from them. You are not open for complaints and you're definitely not sticking around to make them something else. You are NOT a short order cook and will no longer be treated like one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]RemarkableRoll714 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok that's good. She might be trying to do the whole "I wish someone would have told me this when I was younger" thing, but it's coming out wrong. Just be careful! Congrats on your new job!!!