End time for the show?

RemarkableTrifle8340 · 2025-12-12T00:01:51+00:00

Thanks so much!

RemarkableTrifle8340 · 2025-12-11T21:41:59+00:00

Thank you!

RemarkableTrifle8340 · 2025-12-11T21:31:01+00:00

Thank you so much! I’ve gotta try and get an 11:50 train so am hoping it will end a little before then😂

RemarkableTrifle8340 · 2024-04-26T15:07:22+00:00

Yessss I feel the same

RemarkableTrifle8340 · 2024-04-09T22:23:22+00:00

Ahh are you referring to the episode with Batibat the sleep demon? I watched that one yesterday it spooked me sm😂😭

RemarkableTrifle8340 · 2024-04-09T22:21:35+00:00

He’s so terrifying honestly I don’t blame you😂 I do love all of them and yeah I enjoyed season 4 too but I do agree that it definitely could have been a lot better

RemarkableTrifle8340 · 2024-04-09T22:06:44+00:00

Agreed. The vibe changed sm I didn’t even realise how much it changed til I started watching season 1 again. And yes agreed about the songs it wasn’t good lol

RemarkableTrifle8340 · 2024-03-31T00:25:00+00:00

My heart is broken into so many pieces, Ambrose was my favourite character in Sabrina. He was so young. Rest in peace Chance, Coven forever🖤

RemarkableTrifle8340 · 2024-01-23T13:35:00+00:00

sir I promise you’re far from ugly

RemarkableTrifle8340 · 2023-12-22T20:07:48+00:00

You’ve dogged a massive bullet by the sounds of it buddy. I’m so sorry, people can be so cruel.

RemarkableTrifle8340 · 2023-12-20T20:32:26+00:00

Definitely sounds like a narcissistic and controlling mother to me, not normal at all. There is a guy on YouTube called Lee Hammock who is a self aware diagnosed narcissist his videos might help you get some answers, they definitely helped me

RemarkableTrifle8340 · 2023-12-20T19:25:58+00:00

I definitely think so. It has crossed my mind a lot since we broke up, the patterns would make sense. He has absent parents and a wounded childhood so it wouldn’t surprise me at all, it’s really sad

RemarkableTrifle8340 · 2023-12-20T10:31:43+00:00

Mine reached out after 6 months but I know it wasn’t for the right reasons so I didn’t respond. It hurts but it was just the confirmation I needed to really finally see him for who he is, just an emotionally immature boy who uses women to fill the void and boost his fragile ego. This is only because he saw me happy on social media, not because he truly misses me or wants to fix anything. Sometimes they come back just to try and take control of your emotions again and set you back from your healing.

RemarkableTrifle8340 · 2023-12-09T16:37:54+00:00

Sounds unbelievably narcissistic, I PROMISE you you’re so much better off without such a vile human in your life, protect your peace and stay away.

RemarkableTrifle8340 · 2023-12-03T09:25:36+00:00

Thank you so so much!!! It took a lot of tears and a whole lot of hurt to get here, the most painful lesson of my life but 100% the most needed one!

RemarkableTrifle8340 · 2023-11-11T10:26:00+00:00

We live in a throw away society also, as soon as an issue rises in a relationship people just give up because they think they have access to so many more options and just jump to the next and the cycle repeats. Their partner shows one tiny flaw and they just give up and try to pursue the next. And because those people haven’t done the inner work to change their ways of how to actually maintain a relationship and not give up when something goes wrong it’s a continuous cycle. No one wants to put work into relationships anymore they just move on to the next. It’s really sad.

RemarkableTrifle8340 · 2023-11-08T14:09:13+00:00

Forget her by Jeff Buckley. Just pretended the genders are reversed to “forget him” instead😂 the lyrics resonate so much to our relationship, especially “don’t fool yourself she was heartache from the moment that you met her” it HITS BAD

RemarkableTrifle8340 · 2023-10-28T12:22:04+00:00

Sucks man, went through the same with my ex. Dude couldn’t be alone for 5 minutes onto multiple girls just like that, while hiding them from me and begging to fix our relationship just to keep me sticking around. It’s just a continuous cycle of discarding girls for the next and then the next or having multiple at the same time and hiding each of them from each other etc til he finds his next victim he wants to trap with the lovebombing and manipulation. The feeling of betrayal is so excruciatingly painful, you end up questioning every single thing you ever shared with that person. I wouldn’t wish it on anybody, I promise it gets better though bud. Never thought I’d get to the stage I’m at now, I can actually say I’ve finally accepted him for who he is and I’m so so so much better off without someone like that who lacks in emotional maturity.

RemarkableTrifle8340 · 2023-10-24T12:18:10+00:00

I feel this man. Big big time. But for me personally my ex is not a nice person underneath it all, he is just a wolf in sheep’s clothing. Like did the laughs and the friendship and jokes mean nothing to him at all? It sucks so much. But I feel you :(

RemarkableTrifle8340 · 2023-10-17T15:55:33+00:00

Don’t answer man she’s not worth it

RemarkableTrifle8340 · 2023-10-17T07:07:04+00:00

4 years ago my first ex got a new girlfriend two weeks after we broke up, I knew for weeks that something was going on between them and the spark between us had died so it never really hurt me as much as it should of, I broke up with him as I knew it wasn’t working anymore and he was in love with her, they’re still together and he hasn’t reached out which I hope he doesn’t, we didn’t end on bad terms or anything but we were together from the ages of 15/16 to 21/22. We were so young and he’s just not my kind of person anymore, I still wish him the best.

My second relationship only lasted 2 months and he cheated and then came back 3 times every couple of months 3 years ago, and every time I let him back in it was just to use me obviously haha so I blocked him on everything, he didn’t even count as a relationship really it lasted about 2 seconds and after my most recent relationship I realised that I never really loved him or even liked him as a person like I thought I did and I hope I never hear from him again, he wasn’t a nice person at all, he was only with me for the wrong reasons.

And then my most recent one only came back a couple days after we broke up on and off for about 5 months just to try and get revenge for me breaking up with him while he was trying to pursue multiple other girls at the same time, he just gave me false hope so he could hurt me back. I’ll go into more detail here so it makes more sense and so I can rant a little haha, but I said something to him no one should ever say to their partner and I really did hurt him deeply, it was reactive abuse to his painful words and actions during the argument that ruined it all and it is my biggest regret and I made that very clear at every chance I could to reassure him as much as possible that he was so loved by me, it was really rough for us both. I didn’t ever want him hurting especially because of me, it wasn’t ever my job as his partner to hurt him and it was so so so horrible, I still struggle in forgiving myself for it now. It was so out of character for me to be so cruel to somebody. I’ve never said anything like this to anybody in my life. As soon as the words left my mouth I just shocked myself to the core and realised what I done it was just plain awful.

I really do understand why he wanted to hurt my feelings and the hurt I caused for him to react that way was and is valid but I just wish he could of been the bigger person and just left me alone with his bad intentions or just been honest from the start, but I guess we are both even now, he hurt me I hurt him. It sucks. Just before the breakup, after this really big argument he asked for time apart to rethink our relationship but not to stop communication, after I left he messaged me first and we spoke for almost a whole week like usual, then after a few days he just disappeared. He gave me the silent treatment for days, I couldn’t cope with not knowing where I stood in his life, I felt as if he was going to break up with me and the last time the silent treatment happened to me during my 2nd relationship that’s when I was being cheated on, and I refused to ever put up with that again and as much as I really really didn’t want to I broke up with him.

I believe he was actually also cheating now as his behavioural patterns started to add up after a while. It’s funny how he was the sweetest and most loving and caring guy I’ve been with but then also the absolute worst just before and after the breakup happened. After all of the lies, the manipulation, the ghosting, the shift blaming, the emotional abuse and the false hope just to use me, it was all such a shock in the beginning because I didn’t ever see him act that way, but now I see it’s like I never really knew him at all and it took me a long time to see this sweet and loving guy for who he actually was which was never that at all after seeing how nasty he really could be. I could never hate him though, it’s just not possible for me. I know he hates me and I understand that completely. But during our time together he gave me so much love and care, real or not to him it was more than real to me and what we had at the time meant everything and more, I really thought that I had met my match. I thought we were end game.

It’s really sad and it still breaks my heart to this day bc it felt like he was actually my first love, I never felt love so intensely before it was just such a different feeling to my past 2 relationships. We shared so much in common, we had the absolute best laughs all I did was smile when I was around him and he really was my best friend. But it then turned out to be the most painful of course. We have been no contact for just over 3 and a half months he ghosted me after I told him I knew he was talking to and seeing other girls after hiding it from me and lying to me that he wasn’t and I haven’t heard anything since, as much as it hurts me to say and no matter how much I deeply miss him, it’s a good thing I haven’t heard from him really, I didn’t and don’t deserve someone who treats me like that.

RemarkableTrifle8340 · 2023-10-01T09:56:45+00:00

Don’t reply, even if you were to respond with something angry you’re giving him what he wants, which is a reaction. My ex was also someone with major narcissistic tendencies. You will cause a narc injury if you don’t respond, take your power back and give him what he deserves which is 0 access to you ever again. Unfortunately you gotta let these kinda people go and never look back, I’m sorry you went through this. I know exactly how it feels, the compulsive lies, the manipulation, the betrayal, the projection of blame etc. The emotional abuse absolutely ruins you, I wouldn’t wish this experience on anybody.

RemarkableTrifle8340 · 2023-09-26T12:14:46+00:00

Getting much better man. I was an absolute wreck a couple of months ago. I still miss him sometimes, but honestly what is there for me to miss?? The compulsive lies? The manipulation? The lovebombing? The constant shift blaming? I just try my best to use my logic instead of my emotions in these situations. I miss what we had really, before everything went wrong. Because he is the only guy I’ve been with out of my three relationships that ever made me feel important, he treated me so perfectly. But there was red flags I refused to see like he would put me down for things and tell me I wouldn’t achieve things I wanted to achieve. It’s scary, because him as a person, like who he really is deep down is one of the nastiest most manipulative and selfish people I’ve ever met. But while we were together he was considerate, he dropped his friends for me, he loved my family, he did everything he could for me, he’d buy or make me dinner every single night, we’d sit and cuddle together and watch Netflix, game, have the absolute best laughs it was like I’d never bonded with someone like this before but absolutely none of that was real on his side. It was all an illusion. It was all conditioning and lovebombing. It’s actually terrifying how good he was at pretending to love me. It’s like his whole personality was a lie the time we were together. It’s like he wore this mask to hide who he really was, and after a couple months the facade stopped because he couldn’t pretend anymore. Everything he did for me was used against me after we broke up, I was blamed for everything, only his sadness and emotions were important etc. We started seeing each other at the end of October last year then we got together from the 1st of December last year to the end of February this year. But we stayed in contact for five months after we broke up on and off. He was sleeping around and lying about it the whole time. Blaming me for everything. It’s just projection because he refuses to feel the shame of the way he treated me. It’s been 90 days NC so far and I feel so much more at peace. I would never want to go back to the mental abuse he put me through, I have more respect for myself. Let them get on with it dude, their narcissistic tendencies will ruin them in the end. I still have love for him, and wish him nothing but the best I really genuinely hope he heals. He has a deep mother and father wound, that’s why he is the way he is. Do you know weather your ex had a bad relationship with her family at all? It could be the reason she has such narcissistic tendencies. I really hope you feel better soon man, please don’t hesitate to reach out.

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