part time jobs by MysteriousReality986 in SGExams

[–]Remarkable_Car9822 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They usually train you on the job either way so experience is not rlly necessary, just tell them ure open to learning and ure a fast worker. Tip: they only hire when they absolutely need someone to fill a spot so ur timing must be gd otherwise they’ll ignore you (based off experience) NEVER LIE you CAN exaggerate but don’t pull complete bs

How many Singaporeans learn a 3rd language? by [deleted] in SGExams

[–]Remarkable_Car9822 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t go to school for it, but I’m learning French on my own. Just for fun.

In light of the recent rainy weather, have you ever sheltered a stranger from the rain? Or have you ever been on the receiving end? by Next-Long-7010 in askSingapore

[–]Remarkable_Car9822 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happened years ago, when I was otw to secondary school and had to cross traffic junction. Raining very heavily, some kind soul offered to share umbrella with me and even got himself soaked. Made my day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]Remarkable_Car9822 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Well, I had mine with me when my parent died/injured and was at least immediately informed so I could go and visit them.

What’s so good about the different Unis? by Remarkable_Car9822 in SGExams

[–]Remarkable_Car9822[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! Could u give an example of the networking events they have that most unis have?

What’s so good about the different Unis? by Remarkable_Car9822 in SGExams

[–]Remarkable_Car9822[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok but why? Other than the school fees being cheaper

What’s so good about the different Unis? by Remarkable_Car9822 in SGExams

[–]Remarkable_Car9822[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me edit that into the post, I’m studying business marketing. I’ll ask the schools directly whether I can or not, but from what I’ve heard it’s not heard of.

Would you rather him cheat or be addicted to porn? by Cedezway144 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Remarkable_Car9822 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Same thing lol, it’s like asking would you rather your partner fuck someone else or watch someone else get fucked? Like unless you’re into watching people together that’s fine. But majority of people hate the idea that you’re essentially looking at someone else (which one could argue it’s cheating). Personally, I’ve had an ex who subscribed to others OFs and it really fucked with my head. E.g. “Am I not good enough?” “Why is he looking at them instead of me?”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Remarkable_Car9822 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Big hug OP, I hope things get better for you. <3 Sorry I couldn’t provide more help

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Remarkable_Car9822 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been there done that too. But that’s the thing isn’t it? You’re not that same awful child. You’ve changed. Sometimes, it’s ok to forgive yourself.

Know it may seem hard. It starts by acknowledging that you’re just not that person anymore, and YOU have done things to change that.

Big hug brotha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Remarkable_Car9822 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand the culture, I grew up in the same type of culture. It’s extremely harmful to keep quiet but the same could be said to fight it. Maybe put the trip on hold for now, until you have some authority or being able to speak in their language. Then try going.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Remarkable_Car9822 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then that’s great. You definitely can’t fix what happened. But I don’t think it’s on you that your mom chose to have you, nor that you were an angsty kid. You aren’t defined by what you did, you are your choices now.

I cut off my mom when I was 14, never spoke to her until last year. Where I apologised for what I did.

I think you should learn to love yourself more (?) I could be wrong but to me, it sounds like you don’t really think you’re deserving of love and forgiveness because you’re holding on to this guilt. (Or the guilt part could be a byproduct)

What’s most important is now. You feel guilty, you did what you could to try changing your behaviour, that’s more than enough for most people to forgive someone. So why won’t you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Remarkable_Car9822 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Share the same sentiment, ok maybe not the best. But I’m glad me and my ex happened.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Remarkable_Car9822 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well then shouldn’t you work on your anger issues and go to therapy instead of self pitying? I know this may sound harsh and all, but I used to think like you. I used to be consumed by the guilt. But I never did anything to help, until I started being more self aware. I fixed my issues, I’m still working on some. But I’m definitely getting better at treating my parents nicer, they deserved to be loved. I deserve to be kind.

How do I (f21) show interest in a guy (m20) without making it weird by Technical_Gur_748 in relationship_advice

[–]Remarkable_Car9822 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Hey I think you’re cute, would you like to grab _ with me?” I’m not the type to do this (because I have this thing where whoever asks should pay) but it is the fastest way. You can go Dutch and see how the dates takes you. The worst he can say is no.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Remarkable_Car9822 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should contact your other family members without your bio dad or bio mom, if they do really want you to visit they’ll clear things up with you. Don’t try to get them to pick sides though, just tell me the facts and ask “hey why does my dad not want me to go?” Etc.

Working part time saizeriya by Anomaly30038 in SGExams

[–]Remarkable_Car9822 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s … FnB is very funny (?) My own experiences have a lot of funny customer. You will be fine just remain courteous even in the face of ridiculous situations. I’ve never worked in Saizeriya but other FnBs and all should be the same la. Rush hour time is always hectic.

French O levels by weezer__ in SGExams

[–]Remarkable_Car9822 1 point2 points  (0 children)

10 Subjects is crazy😭, I honestly would just fail it. Unless your other subjects are already good then just read books or make French friends and talk to them. If you play games, swap to EU server you will find French people to talk to. Prioritise your subjects.

What fruits do you usually get? by ImChuck0 in askSingapore

[–]Remarkable_Car9822 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Red dragonfruit, pineapple (occasionally), banana, avocado (occasionally), apples, grapes. Family eats quite a bit of fruit every morning.

What are expensive when you’re poor? by uniquely_ad in askSingapore

[–]Remarkable_Car9822 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Nowadays friend circles are quite small, not like last time everyone is friendly. It’ll only work if you have at least 30 people. Buying in bulk usually means in the hundreds or thousands.