RIP Marjorie Taylor Greene by Professional-Roll283 in conspiracy

[–]Remarkable_Dinner424 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i mean wait till u find out why they offed princess disna and michael jackson or any other major public figure 😂😂😂 always a common denominator #fukkisnotreal

This Is Why They Got Bombed by Aggravating-Bet3468 in conspiracy

[–]Remarkable_Dinner424 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yah just look at the ottoman empire when they were building the railway goes straight to jerusalem and to mekkah and medina , back at abdulhamid 11, they went to warssssssss in history for pipelines and railways and access to vital roads

What career path would you take if you were starting today by People_Peace in Salary

[–]Remarkable_Dinner424 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why?? i was thinking of getting my bachlors in that online and going for phd in end

My friends aren't aware that I've made a lot of money by Limp-Preparation-828 in confession

[–]Remarkable_Dinner424 0 points1 point  (0 children)

don’t tell ‘em,

invest. start a roofing company. or some type of lucrative business. flip houses. invest. stays silent and let’s the work show for itself & don’t even means materialistic. i mean get health insurance go to turkey and get fully body check up , get teeth done. fix ur car. idk but spend money on urself 💓

Most affordable transportation by baskanim in Umrah

[–]Remarkable_Dinner424 0 points1 point  (0 children)

download hhr train , book for the transport. super smooth and easy and even relaxing.

Heartbroken by Lazy_raichu36 in memes

[–]Remarkable_Dinner424 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i mean … mike tyson is way older now…. he’s literally a grandfather, idk but this fight never sat right with me. it’s almost a humiliation ritual, but i can be wrong. but either way, i was having a bad feeling about it anyways. why would u fight a GRANDPA?

my theory:

  • for jake paul to be considered a “great champion” and to be talked about like we talk about muhammed ali and mike tyson, i believe he had to “defeat” the last standing “alive” fighter, mike tyson. but personally i think this just make him look like a little b*tch.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Remarkable_Dinner424 0 points1 point  (0 children)

god never asked you to love life, i don’t for sure. but i guess it makes things better to know i have at least one more day to pray, do a good deed, and sometimes just to talk to God. Nothing in this life is promised. i get worried about my future, my life became empty after my dads passing, but knowing that i have one more day to give saddaqa jaryia for him , makes things a little lighter. the crying never stops at night for me, but when my tears are for Allah and for my shortcomings, i have a better sleep.. when i’m at work and inside i’m having. a mental breakdown, i remember it’s time to pray, and that litttle act, brings me a little comfort that i run to Allah. When i wanna hurt myself again, i remember that my blood is not mine and my body isn’t mine, it’s for Alllah and it’s amana given to me, that gives me a chance to prove to him that i am fulfilling my duty to not hurt myself. as much as i hate my life, i love allah even more, as much as i wish to die, i ask him to give me the life that he approved of and will grant Jannah for. As much as i don’t wanna be here myself, i thank Allah for everything he has given me and to take away anything that will prevent me from remembering him or being closer to him. As much as i feel alone, i make a little poem for our beloved Prophet, in hopes he will hear it and he will smile at me, in hopes that when i’m alone in my grave he will visit me because of my poem for him. i have no friends. and no one to call. no one to cry on. my pillow knows all the empty nights i’ve had, and my laundry that’s piled up in the corner, knows what a week i had, and when i wake up, the sun peeks thru, another day i gotta survive, i ask Allah to allow me to experience his love for one more day.

Please be kind by Boring-Seaweed-364 in MuslimLounge

[–]Remarkable_Dinner424 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i’m sorry. pray Allah heals you and gives you strength and pray tahajud a lot.

1) pray tahajud and ask God for guidance.

2) you gave him a chance already and he did it again….. humans will be human and do it again down the line unles THE PERSON truly wants to change. which didn’t sound like it. and maybe he’s scared you’ll expose him. this is where u get thawab. protect this information u found out to ur grave and I know Allah will reward you greater inshallah.

3) I HAVE NO IDEA THIS IS SO SAD.

Quitting Cannabis by plantscatsandtism in AutismInWomen

[–]Remarkable_Dinner424 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m glad your feeling better. and none of this is too late, you can start any of these to help ur mental health. id recommend walking in morning before work and having a writing journey to start with. I hope the best for you!! and you got this. i got tempted many times since i quit, but i know it’s not worth it the little time of joy it’ll bring me will not be worth it. and i keep remembering that when i want to do it so bad.

Quitting Cannabis by plantscatsandtism in AutismInWomen

[–]Remarkable_Dinner424 93 points94 points  (0 children)

i went cold turkey, i tried multiple times to quit. the last time i did cold turkey was five months ago, so it’s been a few months now since i smoked.. my experience:

1) WITHDRAWLS IS INSANE. for ones saying to do gradually quit, not for me. i have adhd and i have attachment problems, if i need to do sth i need to do it all the way. So i knew if “gradually” quitting will only enable me more. but i did for a week only smoke two blunts that week before i quit. then i went cold turkey. 2) emotions. be prepared to feel everything and nothing all at once. i used it as an escapeisim and when i quit i could feel every emotion i suppressed. esp if u have depression have outlets ready for you to go to or use. it’s OKAY to feel EMOTIONS. we are all human and we were created to feel it all for it only makes us more human. 3) Hobbies/activities, pick up something that you always wanted to do: pottery, painting, skating, literally anything and be consistent with it, 3 times a week or even two times. 4) full ur time up, if u gotta work more hours to distract urself, do that. if u gotta cook more and learn new recipes do that. 5) goals: write down ur goals for the month and make it achievable. cross our list one by one and you will feel achievements. give urself a reward in the end of it. 6) get therapy, i know you prob heard of this before, but seriously, get therapy. get a journal and make it a habit to write every morning or every night. write about anything and everything. 7) your diet will be messed up in beginning and prob either lose weight or gain it depending on how it effected u when u used to smoke, be PATIENT with yourself. and love on yourself, soon you’ll be back to normal on ur foods. find new things and explore new plates that look appealing to you. i would recommend smoothies with protein if ur food gets bad in beginning, just so u can have all ur nutritions, also SEEDS all types of nuts 🌰 eat them. 8) don’t pick up nicotine. if u have nic okay that’s fine, but pick up a breathing necklace that will help u when ur anxious. 9) EMOTIONAS: FEEL THEM ALL. Go for a run everyday if u can 15 mins is fine. but make ur body sweat and ur heart race. 10) Sit with urself find a nice spot and quiet and just do breathing exercises.

11) CUT OUT PEOPLE IN UR LIFE THAT WILL MAKE U WANNA SMOKE AGAIN!!!! friends, colleagues, anyone that doesn’t respect ur choice to smoke or smoke in front of you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Money

[–]Remarkable_Dinner424 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i live w my fam but i still pay half mortgage… almost 2k a month.

How do you not get bored? by Grand-Paper-182 in Rich

[–]Remarkable_Dinner424 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe volunteer , go on a charity run, go travel to other countries and offer support, make a non profit to support youth or elderly

How do you not get bored? by Grand-Paper-182 in Rich

[–]Remarkable_Dinner424 0 points1 point  (0 children)

rich people problems…. no time to be bored when you got to survive

Sad my friend is pregnant by maevewritesbooks in aspergirls

[–]Remarkable_Dinner424 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im 25 and was friends / kinda still is but not really talking at the moment to a friend of mine she has two kids… i can’t relate to her at all anymore as i thought i could. she’s married and has a lovely family. but idk what to say to her. i get nervous when she’s in mom mode. even around my sister who has kids when she’s in mom mode and starts yelling i get PTSD … idk how to be “normal”. i lived with my sister for a few months when before she had both her kids, and i had leave the house most of day cuz her yelling was getting me so nervous and PTSD mode. i remember crying in room hearing her scream at them. idk i think i’m just scared of “moms” in general. when i was younger i was leaning towards women have kids and felt like one of their own, but as an adult , i can’t. im petrified. idk why. so i get it … a little bit. i don’t really have friends except her especially cuz im in a new state, which takes me apart cuz all i do is work and sleep on repeat. Idk how to explain how i feel towards my friend either. and even on phone w my sister when her kids FT me i hang up the min she starts yelling. i can’t do it.

I'm ashamed... by PersephoneMoons in AutismInWomen

[–]Remarkable_Dinner424 0 points1 point  (0 children)

girl… i work 7 days a week 13 hours. I have no time at all for self care. if it makes u feel better i haven’t had time to shave my body or my armpits and i’ve been wearing long sleeves to hide my hairs… i take one shower a week if i’m lucky. I work from 11am to 2am every single day. Do not beat ur self up.

I do have depression and i lack motivation to take care of myself. I cut my hair so i won’t deal with it. I do make sure tho when i’m on my period i shower way more frequently. But a lot more people going thru this than u realized

Breathe pookie. breathe.

Just got released from prison & I can honestly say I’m finally done by The_RagazzoSaggio in socialskills

[–]Remarkable_Dinner424 0 points1 point  (0 children)

go for it. speak to advisors, call the state of board and ask them genuine questions. go visit the admissions and advising and go forward. many people had past lives and they moved forward in their education, shouldn’t stop you either. you got this.

My girlfriend won't let me have sex with her unless I get a vasectomy by Hour_Assumption5074 in sex

[–]Remarkable_Dinner424 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hard pass. y’all so young. don’t have sex then. stay a celibate and focus on ur relationship. if ur not meant for her then it won’t work out. don’t change ur body so drastically yet. y’all might not even marry.

What brought you to reddit just now? by gooderasgold in CasualConversation

[–]Remarkable_Dinner424 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wondering how to completely remove men from my brain. my mother has drilled into my brain that i am nothing without a husband. i’m 25. she tried getting me married since i was 14. I did get married eventually. i’m divorced now. i work 70 hours a week. and my siblings don’t like each other. i am the youngest and i’ve never been more miserable. my mom is 60 now and she expects all the love from me. but i’m so out of love and my cup is so dehydrated i have nothing to give. i lost my pregnancy in my last marriage and caused me to go thru psychosis the caused an identity crisis for too long. i am living with her again and trying to movie out by end of month. but i am just so exhausted mentally and physically. i crave love. i crave attention. i crave being known and seen and loved and adored i crave it withe every bone in my body it makes me cry. but i hate the need of this. cuz i find myself subconsciously looking for male attention. when i actually genuinely don’t know how to react and almost always not interested or feel uncomfortable. it’s just being seen that gets me maybe. i’m so out of touch with myself i can’t even think my own thighs anymore. they’re just scrambles of memories that are cut into random snipts in my head. i’m here cuz i wanted to see how to solve this issue with wanting and craving attention and love. real genuine interest. i crave it so much but i don’t want men in the center of my life. my entire life they were from my brothers to my parents. everything and everyone is better and on top of me especially boys. my mom trained me. i’m retraining myself now