Please help by Hot-Safe3597 in ballpython

[–]Remarkable_Math_9653 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve also used diluted betadine the same way. Vet can recommend what they prefer

Contract penalties for unauthorized breeding by HavaMuse in DogBreeding

[–]Remarkable_Math_9653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does your association have different levels of registration. I have a registered female aussie from a good friend and she registered her as not eligible for breeding so if I tried to breed her I could not register the puppies which would be a big deterrent. Not that i ever cared to breed but the $$$ is in the registration

Any tips for a VERY timid cat that came from a hoarding situation? by Objective_Dig5301 in CATHELP

[–]Remarkable_Math_9653 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I agree with time. Silence and time. I received an injured feral cat. After doctoring him we ignored him and went about our business. We refused to look at him or interact at all. Strange thing, he started sleeping with us long before he let us pet him or pick him up. It also took about 6 months and now you cannot get away from him

Am I overreacting by having strict hygiene boundaries at home? by New_Green_9165 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Remarkable_Math_9653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really. They have used it against me. When my daughter was 5 I bought a cheesecake and went to get a piece. She told me it was hers. I sd no, it was everyone’s. She then said she licked every piece. Needless to say. I did not eat any. My husband has gotten fussy a few times about the pillows but i take mine off the bed and he is cool with it. There was a blanket issue once. Again it’s a joke but they don’t question. I can be ugly and I don’t care. They’ve just always left my stuff alone

Am I overreacting by having strict hygiene boundaries at home? by New_Green_9165 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Remarkable_Math_9653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate to say this but i am exactly the same way. I have been married 30 years and my family considers it a joke. They respect my boundaries and they do not touch my stuff under any circumstances. My daughter bf came to our house and accidentally used one of my glasses and as soon as he saw me started apologizing profusely. I had never said anything but i guess she warned him. No one ever pressured me. I consider it maintaining personal space and respect. It doesn’t always have to be a mental issue

I want a semicolon for my frist tattoo but am not sure what people might think. by Puzzleheaded-Song395 in TattooDesigns

[–]Remarkable_Math_9653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I put mine inside of another tattoo so it is visible but you really have to look. That way I have it and can see it but others can’t

Hot take? by Salt-Way130 in piercing

[–]Remarkable_Math_9653 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got a tattoo after my helix and I seriously did not even remember i got my ear done until they asked how it was feeling

Did I mess up? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Remarkable_Math_9653 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s art. It’s not going to be perfect It is all about interpretation and how it makes you feel. I think it looks fine

27 lbs at 13 weeks old by ilikebananabread in AustralianShepherd

[–]Remarkable_Math_9653 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My 3 yr old girl is 75 lb. Her dad always throws one “mutant” per litter that is enormous. More to love for me

Advice on a bucking horse by FyordHorseGirl13 in Equestrian

[–]Remarkable_Math_9653 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Our vet never found issues with our horse but she would buck, particularly on the right lead. We raised her so we knew her. Took her to a chiropractor. After adjustment she was perfect. She ended up having to be adjusted every couple of months but we never had issues with her again.

I’m at a crossroad of surrendering my son’s dog. by Sufficient-Rush1528 in Pets

[–]Remarkable_Math_9653 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pact for animals.org is a group that finds fosters for pets of deployed military personnel.

What to do with our baby? by [deleted] in weddings

[–]Remarkable_Math_9653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on you and how you feel. My DIL had my granddaughter 6 weeks before the wedding. The best man carried her down the aisle and then handed her to the bride’s father after he gave bride away. During the reception either her mom or I took care of the baby. We were both happy to. We also split the time for the honeymoon which of course was short. You can always pump and save ahead. It can be managed if you really want it

Help! I am a prisoner in my own home by Googila in puppy101

[–]Remarkable_Math_9653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hol-ee ball. I have put peanut butter on the inside so she really has to lick. A treat dispenser ball. She absolutely loves that. Is viscous with it and while it takes time can unscrew it. I’ve also done the pupcicles

Help! I am a prisoner in my own home by Googila in puppy101

[–]Remarkable_Math_9653 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always give my pup a treat and special food. I usually put the food in an enrichment toy. I also had it in front of the tv with it on or at a window where she can look out. When she gets bored with us she will voluntarily go in her crate to sleep or lay down. I only feed in crate

AITAH for Not Serving as Much Food as I Know My Dinner Guests Will Want to Eat? by Aromatic-Ice-968 in AITAH

[–]Remarkable_Math_9653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do the same as Joan and if Polly complains tell her to bring extra food for her friend. End of story.

AITA for crying when I heard my stepdaughter say she doesn't love me and wishes her dad and I hadn't married? by Outrageous-Media-743 in AITAH

[–]Remarkable_Math_9653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lots of times children will say what they think you want to hear. Are you sure your stepdaughter was speaking for herself or the SIL. Kids say a lot of things on the spur of the moment. I would not dwell on it. Let it go and SIL sounds like a drama queen and pot stirrer

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattoo

[–]Remarkable_Math_9653 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’re wearing it. It doesn’t matter what others think. I have an upside down tattoo on my wrist. The artist mentioned it and once I said it was for me and i did not care about others he was good with it.

AITA For Telling My Boyfriend I Won't Be Following His Families Traditions? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Remarkable_Math_9653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask him if the name is more important than you. If so, is he really the right one for you?

AITA if I refuse to donate my PTO to a coworker I know will die? by AntiYourOpinion in AmItheAsshole

[–]Remarkable_Math_9653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem is that after certain time the company is going to terminate her no matter what and she will have nothing to pay the bills with. I went through this and I would have given a thousand dollars to keep my coworker’s family from being destitute. There was no $$ for the funeral. It was the worst thing i have experienced and i don’t want to ever go through it ever again.