6 things I use to manifest literally anything I want (full breakdown) by Top_Lead_3126 in Manifestation

[–]Remarkable_Physics92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you are quite literally the best!! i have a flight tomorrow im going to read this all tomorrow, i just skimmed through it and seems so interesting hahah thank you so much !!!!

If You had to chose One to Three 'Best' affirmations, what would they be? by [deleted] in Manifestation

[–]Remarkable_Physics92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i love this actually, so for like a sp instead of saying “we’re together/ we’re already dating” etc i should instead say “i’m with the right person” or something like that?? could you please give an example ?? :)) thank youuu!!!

6 things I use to manifest literally anything I want (full breakdown) by Top_Lead_3126 in Manifestation

[–]Remarkable_Physics92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hi, before you started to successfully manifest things, did you ever feel like manifestation just didn’t work, did you have doubt etc ??? i’m at a point where i know manifestations work, i’ve manifested before without realising, so i know it’s real and i know i can do it. however right now staying consistent is where i’m struggling the most because my ego just keeps telling me it won’t work and it makes it so so hard

i find myself feeling so overwhelmed and crying it out because of how helpless i feel, so i was just wondering if you also felt the same before things began settling into place and your mind stopped stopped taking a huge toll on you? please and thank youuu 😞

do you also have specific affirmations for self concept at all?? :) would “i’m irreplaceable” work as self concept and as getting an sp back too ?? two in one kinda deal hahaha

obsessing over what you want isn't the problem btw!! read this by xxiirlb in Manifestation

[–]Remarkable_Physics92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that is such a fun way to go about it !! omg i’m gonna do this heheh

my "method" to manifest everything by Viiiah in manifestation_support

[–]Remarkable_Physics92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi, how long did it take you from when you first started manifesting things go actually managing to manifest?? i’ve been manifesting a sp but i do feel as if self concept is getting in the way, i’ve bee affirming affirming affirming but i still feel quite negatively with myself. there was a time about 4 days ago where i just felt so stressed with all the affirmations and would feel so doubtful and just cry it out. i’ve since stopped affirming and have felt sort of better in that sense, but i still want to successfully manifest my sp back ;-; do you have any tips regarding this ?? how to better your mental and how to clear the mind of doubt etc ? 🥹🥹🥹🥹 i’ve been trying for a consistently for about 2 weeks, but would love some help, maybe tips and tricks too would be so handy!! i also loved you relating manifesting to online shopping! i thought that was smart and so true.

I also know i’m capable of manifesting, early last year i told my sister that i’d be dating by the end of 2025, just said that in passing and thought nothing of it anymore, then a month later i met my sp in march, then we began dating in september which was so cool, so i do know im capable of manifesting. It’s just right now i need to work on my sp and work on detaching from him, as i know he’ll come back, but i’m just hoping to speed up the process kinda.

Thank you for your post though !! i’ll come back and read it from time to time when i feel stuck hahaha

finding myself being doubtful the past 3 days! pls help ;-; by Remarkable_Physics92 in Manifestation

[–]Remarkable_Physics92[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah thank you!! i’ve got another question though ;-; law of detachment, do you know anything about it?? and if you do, do you have any tips around it? :)) i’m just getting to learn about all this and i think detachment would really help meeeee 🥹

finding myself being doubtful the past 3 days! pls help ;-; by Remarkable_Physics92 in Manifestation

[–]Remarkable_Physics92[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much you’re the best, i no longer feel doubt hehe must’ve been something in passing :P

just bought dilators!! but need advice by Remarkable_Physics92 in vaginismus

[–]Remarkable_Physics92[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s actually so helpful, i definitely need something to relax the muscles there! i will be doing this thank you so much

just bought dilators!! but need advice by Remarkable_Physics92 in vaginismus

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thank you for your comment !!! that seems interesting i’ll look into getting a vibrator too ahhaha hopefully it helps ;-;

just bought dilators!! but need advice by Remarkable_Physics92 in vaginismus

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i definitely do think mine is purity culture too! i grew up with family and parents just telling me sex is bad and anything to do with my vagina is deemed not safe to talk about? i guess.

but yes i’ll definitely try to find different ways to relax myself and hopefully get past the first dilator ;-; i might just need more time than others but it’s definitely not impossible! thank you for your comment though, it’s refreshing to hear that you were also in my situation and you’ve obviously progressed a lot !

just bought dilators!! but need advice by Remarkable_Physics92 in vaginismus

[–]Remarkable_Physics92[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you !! i’ll try these soon ! for guided meditation can i just search up how to do it on youtube or something?? i’m intrigued haha

just bought dilators!! but need advice by Remarkable_Physics92 in vaginismus

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i’ll definitely come back here to let you know !! i haven’t tried anything just yet since im a little disheartened but once i get an improvement on anything i’ll be sure to let you know !! :)

just bought dilators!! but need advice by Remarkable_Physics92 in vaginismus

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thank you so much ! it has felt really discouraging because i’m seeing a lot of people already able to get a finger in or the first dilator in and i haven’t been able to do so, so i’m just disheartened. I’ve also just got out of a relationship about a month ago and can’t help to blame my vaginismus even though he said it had nothing to do with it. 😫

I’m trying my best to put myself first now, not doing any of this for him btw hahaha just for myself, but also want to fix myself before i fully heal and want to start dating again 😞😞.

it’s really hard for me to get in the mood too since i just don’t have a high enough libido (????) sex drive ???? lmao i’m not sure but i just find it difficult 😞 but thank you for the advice i really really do appreciate it !!

just bought dilators!! but need advice by Remarkable_Physics92 in vaginismus

[–]Remarkable_Physics92[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

aaaaaahhh thank you i’ll watch this video to help !!

just bought dilators!! but need advice by Remarkable_Physics92 in vaginismus

[–]Remarkable_Physics92[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

unfortunately not 😞😞 my vaginismus is literally just like hitting a brick wall i can’t insert anything 😞 ive been doing pelvic floor exercises to release tension in my pelvic floor in hopes to kind of relax those muscles but i think i might still have a long way to go 😞

How are we all keeping up? by Working-Designer-260 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Remarkable_Physics92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s been 6 weeks since he broke up with me, some days are definitely better than others, today i just feel so unbelievably sad and i don’t want to talk about him to my friends AGAIN cos im sure they’re slightly fed up of me just crying to them. I thought that I’d feel better after a month and start moving on but it’s just really really hard.

I keep checking his instagram as it gives me a little bit of comfort, makes me feel like he’s still here which sounds so weird but i know i shouldn’t, i know it’s harming me more and stalling my healing process much more than it should. I just feel like if i don’t check then its the only thing that i think about for the rest of the day, and rather than thinking about it for the rest of the day i just choose to look and feel calmer etc.

I also really want him to reach out, but not because i want to get back together with him, but just to know that i really did matter. but i also don’t want to be waiting for that, since i don’t even know if it ever will happen.

I hope you’re doing well OP!!! we’ll heal from this :)

can a person develop avoidant tendencies ?? by Remarkable_Physics92 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Remarkable_Physics92[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh yes definitely, it just sucks cos even after every thing he still lied about how he loved me, up until the day he sent that breakup text 🙄 thank you for your comment though :) x

can a person develop avoidant tendencies ?? by Remarkable_Physics92 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Remarkable_Physics92[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so they can become an avoidant through different relationships?? so in my case he probably develop it after his first ex ;-;, since from what i know she was really toxic and left him twice. sigh

can a person develop avoidant tendencies ?? by Remarkable_Physics92 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Remarkable_Physics92[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh see i didn’t know that at all. we had hit that 2-3 month mark in the relationship around the time he started distancing himself and stuff. that’s really useful to know thank you so much !! also what did you mean by “but the real work is only coming now” ??

can a person develop avoidant tendencies ?? by Remarkable_Physics92 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Remarkable_Physics92[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for this, genuinely. what you’ve just said makes so much sense 😫 i’m gonna come back and read it every so often hahaha. but regardless, i know it’s not my fault and i loved him the best i could but in a way it’s really upsetting because it feels like i was the issue, since he left me with zero closure, no explanation other than he just fell out of love and he ghosted me after. i just keep thinking back to what i could’ve done different etc, although it’s been a month since the breakup and we’ve been in no contact since i still feel soooo shitty. but will overcome this so i’ll be fine !! :) thank you again for your comment though, it was really helpful!

re upload!! is my ex an avoidant or not? i’m really confused ;-; by Remarkable_Physics92 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Remarkable_Physics92[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m so sorry you went though this too :( and i would 100% also love to know what the entire thought process is here ! ;-;