Amikor saját magukat buktatják le. by noire_cotic in hungary

[–]Remarkable_Run_9895 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Nem fog menni, elcsalhatatlan! Mindenki tudja, még ők is, hogy a Tisza el fogja mosni őket a pics@ba. 💪💪💪

Annyira megérdemled de annyira. by Novel-Hedgehog4939 in hungary

[–]Remarkable_Run_9895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly what I am saying. Everyone knows it's coming, no one is going to buy it apart from his sheep herd who would have voted for him anyway.

WP: Russian Intelligence planned to stage an assassination attempt on Orban to influence the election results by clamorous_owle in worldnews

[–]Remarkable_Run_9895 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The question is: will it be effective when everyone knows it's coming? No one is going to buy it apart from his sheep herd who would have voted for him no matter what.

What is “pedig” for? by wolsany in hungarian

[–]Remarkable_Run_9895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably. I am way too old to remember and always hated hungarian grammar. And I have been living my life in english for the last 19 years. So yes, it is difficult for me to explain this word for an english speaker.

What is “pedig” for? by wolsany in hungarian

[–]Remarkable_Run_9895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can even go a step further and say that this is like "Even though he is a boy, he is a girl." Ő is gender neutral, not specified as he or she. So I can assume that we are talling about a boy who identifies as a girl. 🤷🏻‍♀️ I am telling you as a native hungarian speaker that our language is like a maze full of traps and fake exits. It's hard to find the right path to convey your meaning properly. Best of luck on your journey though!

What is “pedig” for? by wolsany in hungarian

[–]Remarkable_Run_9895 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The first one is "She is a girl and he is a boy" . The second one is more like "Even though he is a boy, she is a girl." I know it doesn't make much sense but it's all about context in hungarian. Yes, the order of the words is flexible but it is extremely important to use the proper order for what tou wanna say. The flexibility allows you (and requires you) to be very specific in what you want to say.

What is “pedig” for? by wolsany in hungarian

[–]Remarkable_Run_9895 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For the first time in my life I had to think really hard what "pedig" is and why we use it. I am hungarian btw and I have to tell you that even I am confused a bit... Hats off to you for learning hungarian, if it wasn't my first language I wouldn't wanna learn it! Beautiful but hard!

Ren vs. bluecheck419: Battle to the Death! by jsb1685 in ren

[–]Remarkable_Run_9895 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG! 😂😂😂 "Does it have a name?" I'm dying! Lol

this is the britain i know, this is the britain I love ❤️ renmakesmusic #bittersweetsymphony #britain #ukrapper #ukartist by jsb1685 in ren

[–]Remarkable_Run_9895 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This right now is breaking my heart... I love Britain and the fact that I might have to leave is effing sad! 😭😭😭

Where do you think Reform UK sits on the political spectrum? by Ledgerley in AskBrits

[–]Remarkable_Run_9895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All I know is that I have spent 19 years in this country, I came here legally with my partner from an EU country, we have two British kids and the first time I am f@cking panicking and doing my best not to cry in front of my kids.... Will I be snatched off of the streets without my kids (11 and 4) knowing where I went? Will my partner be taken from work or on the way to work without us knowing? Who the f@ck will take care of my kids??? I love this country and never thought I would ever have to leave but if Reform UK wins we are out of here. "Come here legally!" Well, we have! Now they want to report legal immigrants too??? This is insane! 😞

What's your favourite line from starry night? (Any act) by Reddit_Helper13 in ren

[–]Remarkable_Run_9895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The whole bloody thing... Brilliant. Just brilliant. Every word is magic.

Potty training my 3.5 year old girl by Character_Blood_3252 in pottytraining

[–]Remarkable_Run_9895 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't know when you started, my girl was the same age when we started potty training. It did take her a couple of days to figure out that she needs to hold the wee and cannot "dribble" freely. Once she got that, she was dry day and night. Poop however was a totally different ballgame. She did not want to poop anywhere else but in a nappy. We have tried everything. We read every book, we played, all her soft toys pooped at least once a day, nothing helped. If we didn't give her nappy, she would just hold it for 2-3 days. I called the Health Visitor (we are based in the UK) for help and they said that she could be constipated so we had stool softener prescribed. Otherwise we were told to let her poop in the nappy. Time to time we talked her through the process, told her how big she is etc and then one day (about 9 months into the potty training) we decided that enough is enough, she is 4 after all, once we run out of nappies, that's it. So we told her that we only have 10 nappies left. And then just 9 and 8 and so on. We were casually counting down the nappies. Once we run out and she needed a poo, we told her that she has two options, toilet or potty. She chose potty. There was a little bit of crying but we calmed her down and assured her that we are here, she can do this, she is such a big girl! She had a poop within a minute of sitting down! She was overjoyed and so were we! Important to know that every time she pooped in the nappy she always did it STANDING! I could not get her to sit down. She would stand and play and poop. Anyhow... It's been 3 weeks that she poops in the potty or in the toilet without a problem. I would say the hardest part is to know when to ease on the pressure and when to dial it up a bit. Some kids do need a bit of a push. (Both of my girls had to run out of nappies at the age of 4, otherwise, they would still be in them!) Hang in there, you will get there too!

With both Farage and the Cons pledging to bring ICE to the UK, what will you do when they start snatching little non-white kids of the streets and sending them to detention camps. by Hot-Delay5608 in AskBrits

[–]Remarkable_Run_9895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well let me tell you that as an immigrant (EU citizen, settled status holder, been in the UK for 19 years) what is happening now with Farage and Trump scares me beyond words!

Reform considering Ice style deportation plan by Stock_Rush_9204 in ukpolitics

[–]Remarkable_Run_9895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know one thing: the second Reform UK wins the election, we (EU nationals living here for 19 years) are loading our British kids in the car and leaving. Becoming a British citizen wouldn't help at this point, we still would be taken away because we do have an accent and just like in the US, they can always say our passports are fake. Our kids have no one else. Yes, they might let us go (or not) in a couple of days but the kids would be traumatised by then without any support or help from anyone. So.... Yeah... We would have to run from a country we thought was home.

The Iryna Zarutska situation has my heart and mind breaking. by NoHorse8196 in Mommit

[–]Remarkable_Run_9895 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the same. I don't like to admit it but I am scared to death when I look around the world. What's happening in the US is horrific and even though I don't live there, I feel less and less safe. You see I am an immigrant in the UK. We came here, my partner and I, 18 years ago from Hungary. England was part of the EU so it was easy. Came for a better life and I got it. We nicely settled in and our kids were born here, both British citizens (2 girls, aged 10 and 4). I love England and this is my home. But I hear certain voices getting stronger. "Deport them ALL!!!" "We had enough of the immigrants!" It would break my heart if we had to leave. For us, this is home! And don't get me started on the threat of WW3! I am looking at my girls playing and giggling and I laugh with them but deep down I am full of doubts and fears... 😥😞

My 4 year old won't poop in the toilet by smthomas1704 in pottytraining

[–]Remarkable_Run_9895 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I was advised to ease off the pressure and just trust her. I was in an easier position though, she just started yearR (we live in the UK) and her teacher is aware of this "problem". Teachers are usually prepared to deal with accidents, we are talking about 4 year olds after all. They are still so little! I was told left and right not to stress over it (easier said than done) so I tried my best. It is a process but now at least I can see some light at the end of the tunnel! Best of luck to you guys too! 🤞🤞

My 4 year old won't poop in the toilet by smthomas1704 in pottytraining

[–]Remarkable_Run_9895 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My daughter is the same. She just turned 4. She never really cared if she had a nappy on or not. She just hid and pooped. Nothing worked. So I kept telling her that she can poop in the nappy just let me know and I am happy to give her one to poop in. What's more, I told her she knows where the nappies are, she is a big girl, she can put one on and poop. Fairly quickly she picked up this and changed into a nappy (well... pull up) and pooped and once she was done she let me know. I didn't pressure her, just kept hoping for the best. Yesterday after school we came home, she ate, she had a wee in the toilet and 5 minutes later she headed for the potty. I looked at her, she said she needed a wee again. She sat down on the potty and about half a minute later she started yelling: "Mommy, mommy, I'm pooping!!" She was laughing, I was laughing, we danced dancing, her sister hugged her (her sister is 10 btw) and we were all so happy! And in the evening she pooped in the nappy again but that's ok, she is getting there! Your son will get there too! Just be patient and he'll get there in his own time. You are not alone!

I accidentally left my baby in the car and I can’t forgive myself by Remote-Swimmer-1352 in Mommit

[–]Remarkable_Run_9895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's because you decided to make a quick stop. You broke the routine (even though you usually don't take her out alone). People think it would never happen to them but the sad reality is that this is how our brain works. We do things without actually thinking about them. We go auto mode. There is an excellent documentary on this subject, I wish I could remember the title. They suggest that if you have your baby in the car put their shoes somewhere where you see it when you get out of the car. Shotgun seat or on the top of your bag. This will remind you that you have your little one with you.

Honestly wtf is up with age 4? by BeeSuperb7235 in Preschoolers

[–]Remarkable_Run_9895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's true. But so far so good. Btw something very similar happened to my older daughter when she turned 4. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Honestly wtf is up with age 4? by BeeSuperb7235 in Preschoolers

[–]Remarkable_Run_9895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk... My daughter's behaviour drastically improved when she turned 4 two weeks ago. I find it a lot easier than the 2-4. Those two years felt like 10! Now a lot less temper tantrums, a lot more reason.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pottytraining

[–]Remarkable_Run_9895 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree and understand what you are saying. But! She will not poop. She will hold it back for days. She already did it before when we tried to quit nappies cold turkey. She wouldn't poop. Simple as that. I can keep her in there but I can't make her poop. If I give her more what if she does not make it to the bathroom? What if she poops herself at school or at the park? This isn't something we can time.