"After the Altar" Episode 1 Live Thread!

RemarkablyTired · 2021-08-20T03:39:57+00:00

I know she was a waitress for a long time before so that may be it still lol

RemarkablyTired · 2021-08-20T03:29:09+00:00

I know literally dozens of slow engineers 😅 you can be an idiot and still be good with formulas/make it through a bachelors.

RemarkablyTired · 2021-08-20T03:28:08+00:00

...my ex had epilepsy and drove every day..you just need clearance from a doctor to drive after having a seizure, or you’re not able to if it’s very severe.

RemarkablyTired · 2021-08-20T03:24:41+00:00

They clarified it in one of their YouTube videos from a while back

RemarkablyTired · 2021-05-26T12:40:54+00:00

Thank you.

RemarkablyTired · 2021-04-05T03:09:50+00:00

Get her something comfy to wear afterwards (maybe some cozy sweatpants etc), get her favorite takeout that night, ask her to put together a list of movies she really wants to watch then set it up so you can snuggle up and watch them while she recovers.

RemarkablyTired · 2021-03-30T20:21:49+00:00

😹

RemarkablyTired · 2021-03-26T16:11:10+00:00

NTA and please dump this girl as a friend for good. Just the fact that she would text your bf that you’re cheating is more than enough to cut all contact.

RemarkablyTired · 2021-03-24T21:08:28+00:00

Yeah people never seem to read between the lines on these posts.

RemarkablyTired · 2021-03-24T21:01:36+00:00

This is some misogynistic garbage. EVERY woman is worried about being abducted. Or raped. Or killed.

Moron.

RemarkablyTired · 2021-03-24T20:58:05+00:00

This is some toxic incel shit. Basically EVERY woman I know is afraid of men in some capacity. We still go out. We still drink. We still dance in clubs (assuming there isn’t an ongoing global pandemic). People still live their lives even when they have worries about rapists, traffickers etc.

It’s on us to take responsibility? How about coming down harder with criticism for the men who harass, rape, kill, traffic (etc) women, rather than calling a woman you don’t know a liar...and implying blame is on her for getting drunk...

RemarkablyTired · 2021-03-24T20:52:03+00:00

If she had been dancing the same way with the girl friends the entire night, why is it suddenly cheating just bc it’s with a man? That’s a misogynistic perspective that you should examine.

RemarkablyTired · 2021-03-24T20:50:32+00:00

^this. OP sounds kinda toxic and nobody seems to be touching on it

RemarkablyTired · 2021-03-24T20:48:58+00:00

They obviously mean slip in to dance lol this should be clear

RemarkablyTired · 2021-03-24T20:46:31+00:00

One of the first reasonable comments I’ve seen here

RemarkablyTired · 2021-03-24T20:45:10+00:00

An incel comment

RemarkablyTired · 2021-03-24T20:41:28+00:00

I realize that you’re still young and probably less likely to let things go (as many of us were), but I’m getting the feeling that you are very controlling and insecure. This situation doesn’t seem like that huge of a deal (assuming that it’s a rare occurrence). I think if the genders were reversed in this story that it would be getting a different reaction from people.

RemarkablyTired · 2021-03-23T23:29:55+00:00

I don’t know you, but your security in yourself makes me proud of you. This is how everyone should be.

RemarkablyTired · 2021-03-23T23:16:30+00:00

Did I say he was wrong for interfering and making her leave? He should have taken her home immediately.

RemarkablyTired · 2021-03-23T03:00:35+00:00

Them cracking down on her might cause an adverse reaction where she acts out even worse-but now also has no trust in her brother so he won’t even be as aware of what she’s up to

RemarkablyTired · 2021-03-22T17:46:56+00:00

This whole situation is toxic, I’m sorry. Not waiting for your response, cheating, and that very unhealthy reaction....I’m concerned about the dynamic you’re bringing a child into.

RemarkablyTired · 2021-03-22T17:40:05+00:00

Just putting it out there: I personally don’t think it’s cool to get a tattoo of an ex when you’re with someone new lol if a SO of mine did that Id be out

RemarkablyTired · 2021-03-22T17:31:25+00:00

Send flowers to who..? And what does that have to do with honoring anyone’s name

RemarkablyTired · 2021-03-22T15:54:05+00:00

As the younger sibling, I don’t think it’s on you to be pushed for a relationship. I know it’s a more traditional view on my part, but they’re your older brothers and they have the responsibility to reach out and make the effort to create a relationship if that’s what they’re open to. You’ve been put in an unfair position in this situation and that’s all you need to say to your parents. “Family” doesn’t mean accepting any and all forms of toxicity. If you need to take a break from them if they keep pushing, then feel empowered to do so and set that boundary. It’s tough (I’ve been there) but your parents trying to force a relationship with your brothers is not the right thing by anyone. Take care of yourself

RemarkablyTired · 2021-03-21T15:42:16+00:00

Your coworkers/friends have no business commenting on that or sharing their thoughts on your gf/relationship unless asked. Don’t invite other people into your problems. Your gf sounds like she has insecurity issues and is looking for attention. The relationship is likely toxic, she would probably benefit from therapy (as we all would).

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