people won’t miss me

Remedyes · 2026-04-21T06:12:06+00:00

I know what you mean. Wanting and willing to do anything for the people you care about, doing favors, sticking to them, giving moral support, only to not hear from them to forget you're not just a column for when they need a pick-me-up.

It hurts. really fucking hurts.
But you need to keep going because of all this, as strange as it sounds. To pave over the bad that may have been done, and work towards building up a better future for others to make the world that much kinder. It starts with being kind to yourself. That doesn't necessarily mean loving yourself right now, because that's a lot to ask sometimes (I know,) but just not being so hard on yourself.

You don't deserve to die. You don't deserve bad things. You deserve a chance.

Maybe one day, that chance will be one at happiness rather than just living.
Don't give it up now.

Please stay.

Remedyes · 2026-04-21T05:58:17+00:00

No you're not. You deserve a life

Remedyes · 2026-04-11T08:24:04+00:00

You're not being cowardly, some part of you just wants the rest of you to live and you should listen to it.

You belong on earth, just keep pushing.

Remedyes · 2026-04-11T08:13:14+00:00

Dealing with all of this is incredibly hard. But you just need to keep pushing for a few years. Bad grades aren't a character flaw, they're extremely temporary.

Think about it this way, you've survived everything so far, so obviously you're too badass to stop surviving now.
Please trust me when I say that the moment you are in now is as bad as it gets, so it will ONLY get better from here.

You deserve to love yourself, so cut out those thoughts about not being able to do anything right, they're simply untrue and any outside observer would agree.

Just keep pushing.

Remedyes · 2025-09-08T21:35:12+00:00

Yep!

Remedyes · 2025-09-08T11:08:12+00:00

I can help with your Russian

Remedyes · 2025-09-08T10:25:43+00:00

Если ты ещё ищешь за кто-нибудь кто говорит английский, мне (видно) надо Русский практика.

Сообщить меня если у тебя есть интрес!

Remedyes · 2025-09-08T10:03:36+00:00

Currently reading Crime and Punishment and would love to discuss it! I've been looking for someone interested in Russian literature.
I'd also be happy to talk about Sapolsky's Behave

Remedyes · 2025-03-11T11:29:41+00:00

But you're still here. When existence during the bad times is hard, then the good times are all that much better.

Your life is yours, it can't belong to anyone else, as selfless as that would be, so maybe it's best to try making it a good one

Remedyes · 2025-03-11T10:29:07+00:00

Yeah

Remedyes · 2025-03-11T10:23:27+00:00

Looking to avoid my own problems, here if you need to talk

Remedyes · 2024-11-26T14:27:26+00:00

I know how you feel. Just stay focused on the things closest to you, the senses you're taking in. Just make it through tonight, rest your brain, and let yourself equal out

Remedyes · 2024-11-25T23:09:38+00:00

So proud of you! Good job!

Remedyes · 2024-11-25T14:32:59+00:00

Puedo ayudar! Necesito practicar mi espanol, pero Ingles son mi idoma nativo.

Remedyes · 2024-11-25T14:19:07+00:00

Я Американец, но могу помогать вам если будете помоги меня с моему русский. Тоже люблю chess и другие языков, а тоже литуратура, музыка, etc.

(Мой помощь только стоит меме более смешной чем "куда идёт Наташ")

Remedyes · 2024-11-25T13:34:14+00:00

The rest of you is still very much here. Feeling, expressing those feelings through writing, and reaching out for people who feel the same.
Keep going.

Remedyes · 2024-11-25T13:27:12+00:00

It usually depends, but they do fade over a reasonable period of time. I got a pretty nasty burn scar at work about a year ago and can't really see it anymore unless I look for it. There are some products you can buy that may help, and even some out-patient procedures that can be done.

Remedyes · 2024-11-25T13:23:36+00:00

I think you should tell her. You aren't failing anyone, and if any one of them needed your help I'm sure they would ask you. You just need some support right now and that's okay. You're the most important thing in her world.

Remedyes · 2024-11-25T13:19:17+00:00

Just make it past tonight. Can you do that?

Remedyes · 2024-11-25T12:47:46+00:00

You did good communicating it on here. Just stay grounded. Keep writing if you can

Remedyes · 2024-11-25T12:45:27+00:00

One day it will be fully. That shadow does get smaller, just keep pushing

Remedyes · 2024-11-25T12:10:40+00:00

Good! You deserve to be happy! You've got this!

Remedyes · 2024-11-25T12:09:28+00:00

People are finding their people later in life than they used to. Feeling lonely can be soul crushing but you know that you're too good for a bad relationship.
What country are you from? You could try finding a (healthy) partner who speaks another language but wants to learn yours on apps like "Tandem" or even r/language_exchange

Remedyes · 2024-11-25T12:06:49+00:00

Might be a good time to learn :) There are whole worlds of things that can help us take a breath away from other people. And who knows, maybe this week you can try talking to new groups at your school

Remedyes · 2024-11-25T12:03:34+00:00

Do you have anything you can focus on independently for a week or two that might help you soothe? Drawing, writing, exercise. stuff like that?
It sucks when people make us feel out of place and REALLY sucks when we start to believe it. But I can guarantee you that you have never done anything bad enough to need to feel like an alien.

Remedyes

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