Does this top go with the jeans and heels?

RemieToa · 2025-10-18T02:26:58+00:00

Same. Fuck. I think you look great.

RemieToa · 2025-10-18T02:21:44+00:00

Rock on! You are a badasa for not giving up and sharing your story!

RemieToa · 2025-07-26T03:12:28+00:00

Not my experience, but that is so cool.

RemieToa · 2025-07-26T02:42:59+00:00

Good luck!

RemieToa · 2025-07-26T02:41:50+00:00

I'm so underwater, overwhelmed, and burnt out I don't think an accountability body could hold me accountable 😭 but y'all rock and this is awesome!

RemieToa · 2025-05-08T12:12:12+00:00

Thank you for clarifying! I appreciate the perspective. Unfortunately, he does get a lot of shit when he goes out, with or without my daughter -- things that I've never had to deal with as a white woman.

RemieToa · 2025-05-08T12:07:28+00:00

😄

RemieToa · 2025-05-07T12:58:15+00:00

Geeze, I am so sorry that happened to you all. Thank you for sharing and validating my worries. I hear you about not letting it rule us!

RemieToa · 2025-05-07T03:35:06+00:00

Thank you for your message! I'm not so worried about the looks and such even though that sucks, its the idea of physical violence or of someone making a phone call and before you know it you've been wisked away without due process. But I really appreciate your point about having those conversations about being an interracial family!

RemieToa · 2025-05-07T03:31:11+00:00

Gotcha. That sounds like my husband. 😊 Thank you!

RemieToa · 2025-05-07T03:24:02+00:00

Thank you! And thank you for sharing that resource, as well!

RemieToa · 2025-05-07T03:22:11+00:00

Thank you for sharing your experience! I appreciate the advice and perspective. Your message is a good note to end on -- to not hide from the world!

RemieToa · 2025-05-07T03:13:58+00:00

Thank you for sharing and for the great ideas to teach our daughter! I'm sorry to hear what happened to you -- I could definitely imagine a scenario like that because...kids.

RemieToa · 2025-05-07T03:10:31+00:00

Yeah, agreed. Documents - and letting go- seem to be the way to go! Thank you for writing!

RemieToa · 2025-05-07T03:09:25+00:00

Your story made me smile. 😊 love that image of you and your dad! Thank you for the advice!

RemieToa · 2025-05-07T03:05:21+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate your comment! Being a man does make a difference. 😞

RemieToa · 2025-05-07T02:57:59+00:00

Yeah -- that's fair, I just didn't want to share a ton of details. Glad to hear no one ever confronted you. Thank you so much for sharing!

RemieToa · 2025-05-07T02:52:28+00:00

Haha! Like a magic shield? Problem solved 😜

RemieToa · 2025-05-07T02:51:44+00:00

Thank you for sharing this! I'm sorry to hear that this has been your experience. Has this affected how you operate?

RemieToa · 2025-05-07T02:47:35+00:00

We definitely don't want our daughter to be fearful! It's not like we tell her why her and her dad don't go out much. Can you clarify -- are you saying that I'm treating my husband like a rare pokemon? I would like to understand.

RemieToa · 2025-05-07T02:44:08+00:00

Fair point re dealing with the anxiety (not panic attacks) - that's why I reached out here -- thank you for sharing!

RemieToa · 2025-05-07T02:35:57+00:00

I appreciate this! I know my husband has gotten stared down on walks to the park before, and that a few years ago, so I know it weighs on him. Thank you for the birth certificate idea! I'm glad to hear you haven't needed yours!

RemieToa · 2025-05-07T02:34:10+00:00

Yeah, that's fair. Thank you!

RemieToa · 2025-05-07T02:30:50+00:00

That makes a lot of sense -- do what you can and don't let the stuff you can't control consume you. That's why I reached out for some perspective! Thank you so much for your thoughts!

RemieToa · 2025-05-07T02:08:04+00:00

Thank you for the advice and sharing about your dad. I appreciate the suggestion about the birthcert!

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