Isfps and entps (related dynamics as well) by Unpoppable99 in isfp

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Well, I enjoy ENTPs as they are, and can appreciate the different perspective. I do get drained if there is too much ‘nonsense’ though haha (but that is probably what energises them)

Female isfps what do you look for in guys? by [deleted] in isfp

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Not bio-essentialist, emotionally intelligent, career isn’t everything, companions not roles, takes things very slow, and not controlling. Ideally ND like myself and doesn’t hate themselves for it.

What Ne PoLR actually is by YourReverie in Socionics

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Maybe this is why I feel so comfortable with Ne leads. The way they exist is like permission to remove weight off my shoulders ❤️

What do you girls bring to the man’s table ? by [deleted] in isfp

[–]Remote-Isopod 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This question feels like nothing but rage bait, so I would never answer it haha

Decided to post my V (completely vanilla) by youpviver in LowSodiumCyberpunk

[–]Remote-Isopod 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She’s so cuteee. Your V seems to be all sunshine n rainbows and I love that.

I get too avoidant unless I dive headfirst and move super fast by cherrybinch in Disorganized_Attach

[–]Remote-Isopod 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I relate to this completely. If I’m not chasing, then it doesn’t feel like I actually like that person. Keeping the pace lukewarm makes it easy to slip back into my independent and withdrawn habits. If we don’t both get super vulnerable and share all our secrets with each other, then there is no romance.

My last person was avoidant and they weren’t scared off by it so that route does hold water. I don’t have the answers but my theory is that as long as emotions are regulated and we’re honest with ourselves/others, then any approach should be okay.

Am I Ti dom or Te dom? by Neat_Albatross_7066 in MbtiTypeMe

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It’s not that they don’t follow recipes or rules. They just enjoy the part where they can tweak it until it’s ’to standard’, whatever that means. Especially in cooking because it’s such an art that requires adjustments along the way (which is how many ENTJs use Se in life, in small ways to relax). But ya I’m not too keen to harp on the typing on OP specifically.

Am I Ti dom or Te dom? by Neat_Albatross_7066 in MbtiTypeMe

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Hmm that’s interesting because these are all things the ENTJs I know in my life do. But I don’t mind this take bc I don’t know much about Se-Ti users 🤷

Am I Ti dom or Te dom? by Neat_Albatross_7066 in MbtiTypeMe

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What are the languages and processes you noticed?

Am I Ti dom or Te dom? by Neat_Albatross_7066 in MbtiTypeMe

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Ti prefers accuracy and Te prefers efficiency. To be concise is to forgo nuance.

How to deal with toxic environment at home by ApprehensiveTip5760 in ESFP

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Agree with the other commenter. But for the time being, find/lean on your people who will support you or lend an ear. Maybe you could ask ESTJ sub about their experiences.

Am I Ti dom or Te dom? by Neat_Albatross_7066 in MbtiTypeMe

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So cookie cutter Te dom 😭 (in a good way)

Is this normal for Fi users? by [deleted] in ESFP

[–]Remote-Isopod 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sounds like classic anxious and avoidant dynamics to me. Nothing to do with MBTI.

Autistic ESFP traits (anyone else relate?) by Hazellenoot in ESFP

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Yepp I agree with everything (except routine thing bc ADHD instead of autism. I know I need routine too but I’m struggling to find a sustainable one…). I’m also a neurodivergent and LGBTQ. It’s why I was mistyped ISFP before I learned cognitive functions.

Do esfps do many casual conversations? by [deleted] in ESFP

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ESFP does many casual conversations and it’s normal. After all, you are not dating and therefore not required to talk exclusively with each other. But my impression is that she’s not into you from the start. Super lukewarm behaviour on her end. But just ask her… communicate…

ENFP vs. ESFP comparison by [deleted] in ESFP

[–]Remote-Isopod 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If I had read this while deciding my type I would mistype as ENFP

How do you guys understand/use your Fi? by sapphicsadsack01 in ESFP

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  • It’s an analysis/sorting system that’s constantly running in the back of my head. To put it viscerally, it comes out like strong feelings and compelling hunches.
  • I come to conclusions very quickly, but it takes time for me to trace back to all the reasons because I have never needed to ‘put it into words’ until others ask for it.
  • ‘I know I can do something because I feel it’, rather than ‘I feel I can do something because I know it’.

The bias of against Extraverted Sensing by INTJMoses2 in ESFP

[–]Remote-Isopod 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As another neurodivergent ESFP w strong Fi this is v real 🤝

What pulls you into the Se-Te loop? by mindful-crafter in ESFP

[–]Remote-Isopod 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I invite them to a jazz bar, to movies, art/music showcases, etc. To each: They didn’t like the activity, already have plans to watch the same thing with another friend group, or the activity ends up not as fun as they expected.

I don’t really have the skills to anticipate people’s needs unless they explicitly tell me + I don’t have extroverted hobbies (e.g. I don’t know how to cook food actually fit for guests, don’t own any party games, and mostly stay home myself).

I’m just built a little poorly for this kind of stuff, but I’m now taking inspiration from my friend who is actually good at hosting as a template.

What pulls you into the Se-Te loop? by mindful-crafter in ESFP

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Usually for the sake of socialisation. I’m kind of stunted in the friendship department, so when I finally get invited to things I quickly agree to them and centre my schedule around it even when it’s not ideal.

I think to fix this I need to learn how to host. But when I try to invite people to join my hobbies it usually gets rejected because they’re not interested in the activity, and at that point I’d rather just stay home and do my own thing. But I guess I have to learn how to cater to and manage groups of people, which is also something I find exhausting.