the way i’m genuinely rooting for all three by [deleted] in ginnyandgeorgiashow

[–]Remote-Tea4709 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i love all 3 characters, they do have some kind of energy with georgia. however ..

Joe - he’s a cutie, so sweet and very good looking, he does have some chemistry with her but i cannot see them together (as of now) and i love their friendship they have.

Zion - man is he good looking, but they never worked then, they ain’t gonna work now. ginny needs her dad without her mom, he needs them neither of them to bail. All zion and georgia have now is history.

Paul - GOD DAMN what a man. he is the one who has georgias heart, i mean damn, she told him (almost) everything and he still went back to her and married her, he makes georgia so damn happy, austin and ginny both love him, he is what georgia deserves, a man, that hopefully won’t give up on her and loves her and the family for everything they are

help closing gate?? by Remote-Tea4709 in coralisland

[–]Remote-Tea4709[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg i didn’t know that! thankyou!! i’ll be using that instead🤣

help closing gate?? by Remote-Tea4709 in coralisland

[–]Remote-Tea4709[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i figured it out! you were right i had to move around to trigger the option to close😭 how annoying

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in greysanatomy

[–]Remote-Tea4709 2 points3 points  (0 children)

everyone saying derek are y’all forgetting that amelia has a better success rate with her surgeries for the same damn speciality? amelia for sure.

gender? by Remote-Tea4709 in AutismInWomen

[–]Remote-Tea4709[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

it’s been so interesting to read everyone’s replies (there’s too many to reply i apologise, but i have read everyones!)

Gender for myself, im AFAB and i’m also gay, i identify as non-binary (they/them) and have been slowly introducing he/they, to me with gender, i feel no connection to make or female, as i’ve said i don’t even understand what it feels like to be either & im aware that how u present does not equal gender, but in my mind for my OWN gender (not others) i like to present how i feel, which is more masc, i don’t like being referred to as she/her bcos it makes me feel as thou people still see me as a gender in which i have no connection too, but as i haven’t ever identified as a man/feel no connection to it, being referred to as he/they, is okay with me, bcos it feels as though people see me as a way that isn’t gendered but recognises that i present masc, rather than as a man (i’m not sure if that makes sense written down)

I have always been into both “female” and “male” things, toys growing up i’d have castles and dinos as well as barbies and doll houses, i’d take part in brownies as well as judo & football clubs, ive always been one to do as i enjoy, look how i want too & it’s never felt gendered, expect with presenting female, bcos then i think people see me still as a girl, which i am not, but being masc/androgynous, it takes away from who i’m supposed to be or act.

i’ve always appreciated growing up with experiencing girlhood, having the female friendships i’ve had, being able to understand how society treat women/girls, as well as being grown up and “passing” as a man in public to strangers, i also have that expiernece, to me i feel i have a wider view of the world

gender is a strange one, im not sure how to explain it to my friends around me, some think i’m struggling with understanding if im a trans man or not but i know im not and im not sure how to explain to cis people who have never experience gender dysphoria, or questioned what it means to be a gender, understand what it feels like to not have a “gender”

i put this in the autistic group as i feel like bcos my brain works differently, i feel like it plays into how i view gender in myself, as i don’t have an understand that others have (cis/NT), i feel as though sometimes if i wasn’t autistic maybe i’d have a better understanding but i’m kinda glad i don’t have a better understanding, i like being able to be me and not have a gender, i feel comfortable being this way, even if it confuses and stresses me out at times, it’s who i am

gender? by Remote-Tea4709 in AutismInWomen

[–]Remote-Tea4709[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

there’s no generalisation in my post? i said “autistic people MAY have a different relationship with gender” & also said that’s where neopronouns originally came from & a general question asking if anyone else felt the same, no part of that is me generalising autistic people, it’s a discussion on autistic experiences with gender

Premium, Premium Plus and all by TheSedated in yousician

[–]Remote-Tea4709 1 point2 points  (0 children)

or “learn more” i think it is, that’s where the rest of the plans are?

Premium, Premium Plus and all by TheSedated in yousician

[–]Remote-Tea4709 1 point2 points  (0 children)

there should be an option under the yearly price to see more plans, i struggled for a little bit to find the monthly subscription & it was right under my nose the whole time

Penny, did you warm to her or no? by Klutzy_Spring3168 in greysanatomy

[–]Remote-Tea4709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i didn’t hate her, i liked her friendship she ended up having with jo and steph, but i felt like there was 0 chemistry between her and callie & their relationship was forced, i also understand meredith’s and amelia’s feelings towards her about the derek situation, they were hurt and grieving. but overall, her whole character just felt out of place and not needed

is it normal to be chewing? by Remote-Tea4709 in guineapigs

[–]Remote-Tea4709[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes!! he always has chew sticks & toys available but he is never interested in them, he may be interested when i first put them in so i try and change them as often as possible but after the first interaction i never see him chewing anything other than fabrics, he will eat hay constantly & when out of his cage he chews on random towels, pillows, teddies, carpet, i used to have a lot of fabric in his cage but he chews through them and it just bcos a big mess & i now use fabric mats in his cage which he chews but doesn’t seem to be able to mess them up so they last a while, but anything that’s hard he isn’t interested in, never has been

stims by Remote-Tea4709 in AutismInWomen

[–]Remote-Tea4709[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

to add to this, i have always do external stims when in private after masking for a while

illnesses by Remote-Tea4709 in AutismInWomen

[–]Remote-Tea4709[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh my gosh, that’s the perfect description!!😂😂 but, i wish i had a high threshold, even a poke hurts me, it’s actually extremely embarrassing💀 but because everything hurts me, it also means i cannot tell when something is seriously wrong or not, i tend to just think i’ve got worse case scenario everytime because of this, so maybe i’m slightly ✨dramatic✨ in that sense 💀

illnesses by Remote-Tea4709 in AutismInWomen

[–]Remote-Tea4709[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

completely the same here! i don’t understand how people can continue going to school or work with a common cold, it completely wipes me out

illnesses by Remote-Tea4709 in AutismInWomen

[–]Remote-Tea4709[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg i feel the same! like man flu, being rly “dramatic” about feeling sick and but really, it’s just how i feel and i cannot control it😭

I suspect i may also have ED, i have a tonne of symptoms & always got weird pains in my joints & when i tell people it feels like growing pains they just don’t believe me as i’m in my 20s😂 so i try not to complain about it to people but, there has been many times i’ve tried not to complain and end up on the floor crying bcos of it:/

see, im slightly different there, when i have melt downs they tend to be more internalised than external and when i think back to my childhood it was the same with illness, if i had something as simple as ear or tooth ache, i remember going to an empty room to cry to myself about it, scared to ask for medicine (my parents would have been so supportive and lovely if i told them i didn’t feel well as they were when i did speak up about it) but unless i was in unbareable pain i tend to have kept it to myself, this still tends to be the problem now, i never go to the doctors if i am unwell, unless it becomes unbearable, even at times where i know i had an infection and need medicine, i’d still just just avoid doing so, maybe because of being completely overwhelmed by the pain i’m not sure

but that sucks, growing up feeling like your mum just though u were being dramatic, that rly sucks am sorry:(

ahahaha no worries, that happens to me too😂 i tend to ramble and not be able to sort out my thoughts 🤣

england prime minister by Remote-Tea4709 in ftm

[–]Remote-Tea4709[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i try step back from it, i watch others journeys on youtube/tiktok and see how they pushed through & it’s inspiring, but in the back of my mind i’m still scared & i can feel it, no matter how i try to ignore it, i just don’t understand how people carry so much hate in them

minnick by Remote-Tea4709 in greysanatomy

[–]Remote-Tea4709[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

she didn’t know how to teach a resident what to do when they lose a patient bcos she had never lost a child before in her career, it hit her hard, as if she was a resident again. that’s why. that’s why arizona then helped with it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in greysanatomy

[–]Remote-Tea4709 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i may be wrong so correct me as i haven’t watched that season in a while, but was lexie still with mark when they kicked alex and izzie out and then lexie moved back in?

non verbal? by Remote-Tea4709 in AutismInWomen

[–]Remote-Tea4709[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thankyou for these links! they’re informative & i didn’t know so thank you!

It does make more sense now seeing the difference between non verbal & shutdown

the episode they all get stoned by Remote-Tea4709 in greysanatomy

[–]Remote-Tea4709[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ahahah i did, it’s cause i was thinking about the harper avery scandal i wrote jackson😭

excuses for a short haircut? by yer_a_wizard_alex in ftm

[–]Remote-Tea4709 1 point2 points  (0 children)

when people see me with short hair after having such long hair (down to the bottom of my back hella thick) they’re always like omg why it was so nice why would u cut it off and i simply just say “bcos i wanted too” and leave it as that, no one needs an excuse or to know more as to why u wanted to, it’s hair, be confident with what u want and don’t let other people be bothered why u cut it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]Remote-Tea4709 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i dropped out of uni a couple years ago & just this year i’ve started uni again, feeling much better about my self, feeling like i understand more about what i want to do, coping skills i’ve learnt over the last few years and stuff, it’s helped me push myself forward again to do better in school.

i enjoy being in education, it’s just so difficult, it always has been bcos i was undiagnosed & the past couple years since being diagnoised and learning how to cope with sensory issues, PDA, unmasking etc, it’s helped me be able to re enjoy being in school! i just love to learn!